Kulimbika
• Kuwonetseratu - mbali yomwe imakulolani kuimitsa modzidzimutsa maganizo, malingaliro, kuti asapangitse mkhalidwe wovutawo, kupewa zotsatira zoipa;
• Kukhazikitsa - kuthekera kupanga zofulumira, zodziwa komanso zowona m'moyo.
Yambani kupita
Kukulitsa makhalidwe amenewa mwa iwo eni ndi ntchito yeniyeni, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kufuna ndi kuyamba kuchita moyenera. Motani? Ndi zophweka!
Gawo limodzi. Kupita patsogolo ndikulankhulana. Popanda izo mwanjira iliyonse. Pokhapokha pophunzira kuyankhulana ndi anthu, kumathandiza mwaluso kukambirana, kufunsa mafunso moyenera ndi kumvetsera, pamapeto pake mudzamva mphamvu yakuwonetseratu zoyamba. Mudzaphunzira kumva anthu ena: mudzadziwa zomwe akufuna, zomwe akufuna. Kodi mungachite bwanji zimenezi? Mwachitsanzo, m'mayunivesite onse opanga masewera, ochita masewerawa akuyesera kuphunzitsa momwe angakhalire othandizira komanso oyankhulana. Ndipo izi zimachitika mwa njira yokhayo: gulu limatengedwera kumsewu ndi kuika patsogolo pawo ntchito - mwachitsanzo, kuti mum'dziwe bwino ndi mlendo, mum'patse malangizo kapena kupsompsona pa tsaya. Yesani ndi inu. Poyamba zidzakhala zovuta, koma pamapeto pake mudzapeza ufulu wamkati - choyamba chidzakhala kwa inu khalidwe lapadera.
2 sitepe. Phunzirani kutenga udindo pazochita zawo. Inde, ichi ndi chimodzi mwa magawo ovuta kwambiri. Pambuyo pake, tonse ndife ana mu osamba, ndipo timafuna amayi, abambo, agogo, abale, ndiyeno mwamuna, bwana, ankakonda aliyense kuti atisankhire. Yesetsani kudziletsa nthawi kuti musamangoganizira zovuta zomwe mungathe komanso zomwe mudzathetse nokha. Siwe nthiwatiwa, yomwe imabisa mutu wake mchenga pangozi yoyamba.
Kudzichepetsa kwa anthu
Chifukwa cha malingaliro athu a Chisilaso zimakhala zovuta kuti titengepo kanthu mmanja mwathu. Pali zifukwa zambiri za izi. Choyamba, chipembedzo chathu chachikhristu chimatiphunzitsa kuti tipeze chimwemwe ndi zofooka m'moyo monga zenizeni komanso ndi kudzichepetsa. Chachiwiri, anthu a Kum'maŵa kwa Ulaya amadziwika ndi chikondi chawo cha kukhazikika ndi kusungulumwa. Chifukwa chake zimatsimikizira kuti malinga ndi zofunikira za dziko lamakono, ndikofunikira kuthetsa zolakwika zomwe zaikidwa mkati mwathu kwa zaka mazana ambiri.
3 sitepe. Phunzirani kuchita. Ndipo gawo lalikulu, pamene muli kale pamtima mwakonzeka kuyenda, koma kwenikweni pali maganizo, othandizira ndi othandizira, ndipo mukuyenera kuchoka ku cholinga chochita. Nthawi zambiri mumadandaula ndi mantha. Ndipotu, zochitika zonse zatsopano, ndipo palibe chitsimikizo chakuti ntchito yanu idzagwiridwa, kuti ndondomeko yogwira ntchito idzalephera. Ndikofunika kufotokoza bwino cholinga ndi cholinga. Choyambirira mu chiyanjano, kaya kukhala wachikondi kapena wachikondi, nthawi zonse chimayambitsa mikangano yambiri. Ndani ayenera kutenga njira yoyamba yowonanitsa pambuyo pa mkangano - mwamuna kapena mkazi? Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti njira ya amayi iyenera kugulitsidwa kuti ichitepo - ndipo izi ndizochitika mwachibadwa kwa munthu aliyense wokwanira. Chisankho chiridi chanu nthawi zonse. Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti muzochitika zilizonse zomwe muyenera kuchita, ziribe kanthu momwe zikumvekera, sitepe yoyamba.
Mzere wabwino
Choyamba - chidutswa chokhazikika. Munthu yemwe amatenga udindo, atenga njira yoyamba kukomana, nthawi zambiri amakhala pamutu ... Izi ziyenera kukhala zokonzeka. Monga lamulo, polojekitiyi igawidwa mu mitundu imeneyi. Kuntchito - ndiko kukhazikitsidwa kwa malingaliro awo, malingaliro ndi malingaliro awo. Kukonzekera, kudzikonda, kukhumba-nsomba zitatu zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuzindikira osati lingaliro lanu, komanso kulimbikitsa, kusonkhanitsa gulu la anzanu pafupi. Muyenera kukhala ndi cholinga chodziwikiratu komanso cholinga chanu, kudzidalira nokha ndi zofunikira za malingaliro anu ndi zolinga zanu, okonzekera zinthu zosiyanasiyana zomwe simukuziyembekezera. Khalani omasuka kufotokoza malingaliro anu, malingaliro, kukayikira, kotero inu mukhoza kudziwonetsera nokha ngati munthu. Amuna akukondwera kuzindikira kuti pali munthu amene nthawi zonse amawathandiza ndi kuyembekezera. Kumbukirani kuti mwamuna amakhala ndi chidwi ndi mkazi yemwe amamukonda. Koma cholinga cha kugonana mwamphamvu chimawoneka monga mwa dongosolo la zinthu, chifukwa iwo ayenera kukhala olimbikira ndi osamvera, apite molunjika ku cholinga chawo, makamaka ngati chikukhudza mtima wa mkazi. Koma mu moyo zonse sizili zofewa monga momwe mukufunira. Ndipo amuna ndi anthu ofanana ndi akazi, ndipo amakhalanso ndi zokayikitsa ndi zovuta. Choncho, ngati mukufuna kukwiyitsa wosankhidwa kuti achite chinachake, ndiye kumuthandiza kuti akhale ndi makhalidwe omwe angatsegule chilakolako chochita nthawi. Kudikirira kuti wina abwere ndikusintha moyo wako mwadzidzidzi - ndizoseketsa, zimangochitika m'nthano zokhazokha, ndipo posachedwa, mudzafunika kupanga zosankha ndikudzipangira nokha. Tsono yesani! Musangowonjezera, kapena kutchulidwa "ntchentche yowawa" sikungakondweretseni inu.
Kukula kwachilengedwe
Ndizo za kulenga. Masiku ano khalidwe lodziwika bwino limapempha kuchokera kwa ife dziko lamakono. Momwe mungakulitsire?
Malo okongola
• Pangodya yamtendere kumene mungalenge kapena kuganiza mofatsa pa lingaliro lanu. Maganizo abwino kwa anthu onse akuluakulu anabwera pamalo pomwe iwo ankakhala omasuka kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, a Descartes ambiri anapeza kuti iye anagona pabedi, ndipo Edison anagona ngakhale ku laboratori kuti ayambe kugwirizana ndi malingaliro onse. Hemingway ankakonda kugwira ntchito zake ku Paris Cafe "Lilac Farm". Kodi ndiwe woipa kwambiri?
Kutha
• Timachikulitsa - tikamadziwa zambiri, kuwerenga, kuyendera mawonetsero osiyanasiyana, machitidwe, timapita kunja, tikuyang'ana odziwa chidwi ndi atsopano, zomwe zingakhale zochititsa chidwi komanso zoganiza.
Zochita
• Imodzi mwa njira zosavuta zowonjezera mphamvu zopezeka. Lolani zotsatira zake zisakhale zenizeni, koma inu munasonyeza zoyamba.