Anthu onse amene akufuna kutsanzira, mwa njira zina amapambana. Ngakhale kupambana payekha ndi bizinesi kuli kosiyana, komabe sikumapindula popanda kuyesayesa nthawi zonse, mwinamwake zonse zingathe kutayika usiku wonse. Anthu onse opambana muzofanana. Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa psychology ya mkazi wopambana, ndi makhalidwe ati omwe ali nawo, omwe amatsogoleredwa mu ntchito yake ndi m'moyo wake? Za izi ndi kulankhula pansipa.
1. Kudzidalira
Ndipotu, munthu sangaganize kuti munthu yemwe sali wotsimikiza bwino. Komabe, kukhalapo kwa kudzikuza kwambiri sizotsatila, koma maziko omwe amathandiza kuti akule ndi kukula malonda ndi mapulani. Gwero la mphamvu zofunikira zitha kukhala nokha, kuti zotsatira zake zitheke bwino. Kudzidalira nokha ndi kupambana kwanu - khalidwe silolondola, lingathe kukhazikitsidwa.
Inde, khalidweli liyenera kuthandizidwa ndi kudziwa nkhaniyi ndi ntchito yomwe mumaikonda yosankhidwa. Komabe, nthawi zambiri panjira yopindulira zolinga zimakhala mantha a kulephera, zomwe sizikuchitika mwa mkazi wopambana. Mwa kulephera, ndithudi, palibe munthu amene ali ndi inshuwalansi, koma ngati mumakonzekera dongosolo - simuyenera kuchita mantha.
2. Chotsani zolinga
Zimakhala kuti chinachake chimene mukufunadi, koma chomwe chiri - ndivuta kumvetsa. Ngati simungaganizire zolakalaka zanu, zidzasokoneza moyo wanu. Njira iliyonse yokwaniritsira zikhumbo imapangidwa pa kukhazikitsidwa kwa zolinga zinazake. Apa chidziwitso cha psyche yathu chimatengedwa ngati maziko. Kotero chidziwitso chimakonzedweratu, kuti chimatha "kuchita" malamulo ophweka, omveka bwino. Koma ngati chokhumbachi chimachitika mwachidule komanso mwachidule, ubongo wathu umatsogolera mphamvu zonse kuti zitheke.
Mwachitsanzo, musanene nokha kuti "Ndikufuna kukhala wachuma" - ndizovuta kwambiri. Ndi bwino kunena nokha, mwachitsanzo, monga: "Ndili ndi zaka makumi atatu ndikukhala ndi ndalama zambiri mu akaunti yanga." Ndipo musaiwale kulingalira momwe mungapezere ndalamazi.
3. Kudziwa zomwe mungathe
Zomwe munthu aliyense ali nazo n'zochepa. Ndizosatheka kudziwa ndi kuchita zonse zonse, choncho ndikofunika kufotokoza zolinga zomwe zingakwaniritsidwe komanso zosatheka. Yesetsani kufufuza mosamalitsa zenizeni za mphamvu zanu ndi zofooka zanu. Lolani kuti chinachake sichikakamiza, koma muzochitika zina - sizingakhale zofanana.
Nthawi zonse muziika patsogolo patsogolo pa moyo wanu, kulekanitsa chinthu chachikulu pa zomwe si zofunika kwambiri. Musadzifanizire nokha ndi munthu wina wopambana. Kumvetsetsa: Munthu uyu ndi inu - anthu ndi osiyana, ndipo mwinamwake zomwe simukulimbana nazo - si zanu zokha.
4. Kukhala wokhazikika
Ichi si chikhulupiriro chobisika mwa zabwino koposa, koma ndi gawo la moyo wokhala ndi moyo wathanzi komanso kuthekera kuti mutulukemo. Mavuto amatha kugonjetsedwa, amafunika khama komanso nthawi. Kulephera sikumapeto kwa dziko lapansi, koma mwayi wopeza chidziwitso chatsopano ndi kusabwereza cholakwika ichi m'tsogolomu.
5. Mphamvu yogwirizana ndi anthu
Chimodzi mwa mikhalidwe yaikulu ya akulu ndi kudziimira. Pa nthawi yomweyo, munthu aliyense amadalira chinachake, amafunikira malangizo nthawi ndi nthawi. Musatseke mu dzenje - kotero simudzataya chimwemwe cholankhulana, koma simungathe kukhazikitsa zolumikizana zoyenera. N'zosatheka kuti muthetse zomwezo popanda izi.
Yokha, simungathe kupirira zambiri. Mwachitsanzo, kuti muyambe bizinesi yanu, muyenera kumvetsetsa bwino malo osankhidwa, ndipo mutha kukhazikitsa gulu la malamulo, bungwe lazinthu, kupeza malo ndi zina zotero. Fufuzani okondedwa anu ndikuwakhulupirira.
6. Kudziletsa ndi chipiriro pobweretsa nkhani mpaka mapeto
Malangizo ndi othandizana kwambiri pakukwaniritsa maloto. Chikhumbo chimodzi chokha cha izi sikwanira, ziribe kanthu momwe zingakhalire zotentha. Khama la kupambana nthawi zambiri silingatheke kuchoka ku ntchito yachizolowezi, yomwe, makamaka, siyikuwotcha.
Psychology ya mkazi ndi yotero kuti nthawi zonse amafunika kukumbukira cholinga, kuti asasochere. Khalani olimbikira ndipo musalole kuti mukhale ndi maganizo osakhalitsa. Ngati mwaika cholinga kuti musunge ndalama zogula zazikulu, musagwiritse ntchito pazinthu zosiyanasiyana.
7. Kufikira ntchito zovuta pang'onopang'ono
Kuopa zatsopano kungayambitsidwe mosavuta. Ingofooketsa njira yopita patsogolo kwambiri. Kenaka pagawani masitepewo muzochita zosiyana. Mwachitsanzo, kulemba chiganizo, muyenera: kufotokoza mutu, kupeza zolemba, kulemba zigawo zonse m'modzi, kukonza maulumikizi ndi kufufuza zonse. Kumveka kovuta? Ndipotu, ndi kosavuta kuchita maina onsewa m'magulu.
8. Zochepa mawu, zochita zambiri
Mkazi aliyense amadziwa kuti munthu wodalirika ndi munthu yemwe salankhula, koma amachita. Mosiyana ndi zimenezo, munthu akamapitirizabe kuchita malonjezo, sangachite chilichonse. Kuwuza abwenzi anu za malingaliro anu, atagona pabedi, ndife osiyana ndi amuna awa. Choncho, ngati mwakhala ndi vuto linalake, ndi bwino kuti musagawane mapulani anu ndi wina aliyense. Ndiyeno mungathe ndipo muzitsatira.
9. Ulemu
Kutenga chinachake kuchokera kwa anthu, nthawizonse perekani chinachake pobwezera. Pokhala ndi chidziwitso mwachibadwa, palibe bizinesi yovuta kuyamba. Kusakhulupirika, mwinamwake, nthawi zina kungapereke zotsatira pano ndi tsopano, koma ndi kopindulitsa kwambiri kukhala munthu wodalirika pamaso pa anthu.
Ndipo kawirikawiri, khalani okondwa, muyenera kulankhula, kutseguka. Pezani anzanu ndipo musakane zopereka zamalonda. Sungulani mobwerezabwereza ndipo mobwerezabwereza muzinena zoyamikira. Musaope kupempha thandizo, musaiwale kuti muthandize nokha, ndipo psychology ya umunthu wabwino idzagwira ntchito yake.
10. Kudzikonda
Anthu opambana samakhala chete. Iwo amakhala otanganidwa nthawi zonse, ndipo pambali pa ntchito zomwe ali nazo zowonjezera zothandiza, zikhale masewera, kapena kujambula, kapena kusonkhanitsa. Kuti mukhale ndi moyo wolemera, musayembekezere kuti wamatsenga adzafika mwadzidzidzi ndikudzaza ndi mitundu yowala. Chitani nokha.
Pitirizani kukula, phunzirani chinachake, pezani nokha zatsopano. Kotero iwo omwe akuzungulira inu nthawizonse adzakukondani nanu. Kulankhulana ndi anthu omwe mukufuna kukhala nawo, tengani zomwe akumana nazo. Lonjezerani chidziwitso chanu ndi luso lanu, ndipo simudzasintha. Muzikonda nokha, kuyamikira ndi kulemekeza. Kumbukirani kuti moyo umangopitirira patsogolo. Musayime konse.