Tenga Mwachitsanzo, chinthu chodabwitsa monga kaduka. Popanda kuthandizidwa ndi Wikipedia kapena Google, aliyense adzapereka tanthawuzo losatsimikizika la lingaliro limeneli, komanso - ndithudi aliyense akulimbana nalo mmoyo. Tidzayesera kukuuzani, nchiyani chomwe chiri nsanje: kukondweretsa kokwaniritsa kapena wakupha chimwemwe?
Kodi "mwendo" umakhala kuti mumsanje?
Chodabwitsa kwambiri, koma kaduka ndikumveka bwino, ndiko kuti, kukhala wachimwemwe ndi kukhutira ndi moyo ndi kovuta kudzikakamiza kukhala wansanje, ngakhale n'kotheka. Koma pokhala wokhumudwitsidwa, ndipo pamene mukuganizira chinachake chimene mulibe, kumverera kovuta kwambiri kwinakwake pamtima wanu ndizosatheka kupeĊµa.
Aliyense amene anena chirichonse pamenepo, koma aliyense ali ndi nsanje mosasamala. Tsiku lililonse m'mawa, mtsikana wokhala ndi nsanje yopanda tsitsi amamudziwa ndi womvera. Aima pambali poyendetsa galimoto, aliyense ali ndi nsanje za oyendetsa galimoto. Nsanje ya mtsikanayo "pyshki" kwa mtsikana "woonda" sungapeweke. Ngakhale ma brunettes amakhala ndi nsanje za blondes, ndipo mosiyana. Mwinamwake simungatchule munthu yemwe kamodzi kamodzi pa moyo wake sanadane, kupatula kuti mwanayo, koma izi sizinafufuzidwe pazasayansi.
Izi sizitsulo, anthu ena amangokhalira kudana ndi ena nthawi zambiri. Winawake amayamba kutengeka ndi "zovuta", zomwe sizingathe kuzibisa ndi luso lochita zinthu mwachidule, ndipo zimakhala zosatheka komanso zosasangalatsa kuti uyankhule ndi munthu uyu. Ena amatha kudzionetsera, ndikupereka nsanje yawo pansi pamtima. Si chinsinsi kwa aliyense kuti kaduka sichivomerezedwa ndi anthu. Nsanje imadziwanso, koma kuzindikira zonsezi: "Ndidachita nsanje" ndi "nsanje - zoipa" zimakhala zovuta kuti akhale ndi moyo, pokhala ndikumenyana nthawi zonse ndi iye mwini.
Zizindikiro za "kukanikiza"
Monga momwe tikudziwira kuchokera ku maphunziro a sayansi ya sukulu, "palibe chomwe chimatengedwa kulikonse ndipo sichipita kulikonse popanda chifukwa". Pano, nsanje siinabadwe mwamseri, koma imayambitsidwa ndi chinthu chomwe chili ndi chidwi. Ngati mutatha kukambirana ndi munthu wina amene mwakhumudwitsa kwambiri maganizo anu, zinali zomvetsa chisoni, mafunso oposa a filosofi, anali ndi zilembo zapadera mwa mau anu - chabwino, moni! Tikukulimbikitsani kuti muthetse, kudzikakamiza palimodzi, kuthana ndi chifukwa ndi phunziro la kaduka, ndipo chofunikira kwambiri - kumvetsetsa momwe mungakwaniritsire izi. Maganizo ndi chitukuko cha njira zidzakweza maganizo, popeza njirayi ikuchitidwa ndi gawolo la ubongo lomwe liri ndi maganizo abwino.
"Chophika-chameleon"Tsiku lina wina adalimbikitsa lingaliro la mtundu wa kaduka ndi mitundu ina, yomwe ndi yakuda ndi yoyera. Chikhalidwe choterocho, kukhala woona mtima, ndi choposa cholakwika. Poganizira mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya maonekedwe oyera kuchokera ku zoyera kupita ku mdima, zimatha kuwona kuti chiwerengero chosawerengeka cha matanthwe, masentimita ndi masithunzi amakhalabe pambali. Chifukwa chiyani nsanje siingakhale yofiira kapena buluu? Pano m'mabuku nthawi zambiri timalemba kuti: "Anasanduka chikasu ndi nsanje" ndipo "adasanduka wobiriwira ndi mkwiyo" - izi, mukuganiza, chabe chipangizo chojambula?
Maganizo onse ndi mitundu yowala, yomwe moyo wathu umaphatikizapo ndipo sitiyenera kuyang'ana zinthu pogwiritsa ntchito njira ya monochrome "wakuda ndi woyera". Ndizonyansa ndi zosangalatsa.
Pangani chidwi chanu chokhumba cha kaduka. Mwachitsanzo, ngati muli ndi nsanje "zoyera" - tengani ngati kuvomerezedwa, kutamandidwa, ndipo mukhoza kumverera ngati zoyenera kutsanzira ngakhale kwachiwiri (koma palibe). Nsanje yofiira ikhoza kukhala ngati chisonkhezero cha kupindula ndi kufulumira kukwaniritsa, kupambana ndi kufunafuna nsonga zatsopano. Yellow - M'malo mwake, zidzatsimikiziranso kuti ndi kupambana konse ndi mwayi kwinakwake mukulakwitsa - mwa njira ina mukugwiritsira ntchito nsanje. Aliyense wa ife amawona zosiyana mosiyana, amamva anthu ndipo amakhudzidwa ndi maganizo awo.
Kwa anthu ena ndizo kaduka zomwe zimabweretsa kusintha nthawi zonse. Ali ndi zolinga zatsopano, zolinga ndi zofuna. Kusachepera kwachinyengo - kuchuluka kwa zochita - kuchuluka kwa kupambana. Pamene akunena, "Ndikuwona cholinga - sindikuona zopinga zilizonse."
Mofananamo, nsanje ikhoza kudya munthu, sangathe kukondwera ndi mnzako wabwino, zomwe zinganene, ngakhale bwenzi lapamtima. "Nsonga" ngati kuti zimasula poizoni zomwe ziwononge moyo, zimaipitsa thupi lonse, zimachepetsa mtendere ndi maganizo.
"Nsanje ndi yoipa, koma ngati palibe chochita nsanje - choipa kwambiri . " Khalani moyo kuti pasakhale nthawi ndi mphamvu yakuchitira nsanje munthu wina, chitani zonse zomwe mungathe kuti muzikuchitirani nsanje.