Makhalidwe abwino ndi njira yosonyezera ulemu kwa munthu, kuti akwaniritse chifundo chake. Ndipo ulemu wa mtsikana wokhudzana ndi mnyamata ndi njira yokhala mu mtima mwake pa moyo.
Tidzaphunzira malamulo a chikhalidwe, kapena kuti, momwe tingakhalire chikhalidwe. Mwachindunji, ntchentche, awa ndi amayi omwe amakopera amuna (mwa ichi iwo adavomereza).
Kuwotcha ndi mkazi yemwe ali ndi nthawi ya moyo wake waumwini, osati kungomangirira ndi mwamuna wake wokondedwa. Nthawi zonse amakhala wokonzeka bwino, wokongola, wodzidalira. Ngati akukonzekera chinachake, mwachitsanzo, kukomana ndi abwenzi, ndiye kuti palibe munthu mmodzi yemwe sangakhoze kumulepheretsa kuchita izo. Pa nthawi yomweyi, mwamuna wake samanyazitsidwa komanso amakhumudwitsidwa. M'malo mwake, iye ndi wonyada wa wosankhidwa wake ndipo ali wokonzeka kuchita zinthu, ngati iye anali ndi nthawizonse naye.
Musagwirizane ndi mwamuna usiku uliwonse. Amasankha kuti ndinu opambana ndipo simungapezeke kulikonse. Musakhale ndi nthawi yoti muyang'ane mmbuyo, ngati nthawi yanu yochepetsedwa idzabwera kunyumba nthawi zonse. Ndipo kugwira ntchito kuti asatuluke ngakhale kuwala, kapena kucha. Chifukwa chiyani? Inu simunamufune iye. Simulinso chipatso choletsedwa kwa iye.
Mwamuna ndi msaki mwachibadwa. Mkazi wosafikika ndi nyama yabwino kwambiri. Kufikira mosavuta kwa mkazi kumapangitsa munthu kukhala wodandaula, komanso kugwirizana kwathunthu ndi malingaliro ake pa gawo la mkazi.
Ngati mwadzidzidzi munthu wanu wochenjeza kuti amakhala mu bar ndi abwenzi, musamamuyang'ane. Kufufuza ndi chikonzero cha munthuyo. Muli ndi zinthu zambiri zofunika kuti muthamangire mzindawo mukufunafuna mnyamata wanu.
Musawope kumuika munthuyo pamalo. Nthawi zina ndizofunikira kwa iwo. Kupanda kutero, iye adziganizira yekha mopanda chilango, ndipo iwe, iwewekha, udzamasula manja ake.
Fotokozani malingaliro anu, chifukwa, kutsimikizirani kulondola kwanu. Mwamuna ali ndi chidwi chowona mnzake woyenera pafupi naye.
Pewani lexicon mawu awa: "Bwanji osandiitana?", "Kodi mumandikonda?". Kodi mwaiwala? Ndiwe mkazi wodalirika, yemwe moyo wake ndi wowala kwambiri komanso wosangalatsa kuti ngati munthu sakukuitanani, ndiye kuti simudzazindikira. Zosokoneza ndi kukulitsa chilakolako chake, chifukwa chosadziwiratu ndicho chinsinsi choyambitsa ubale wolimba.
Pamene mukuyesera kukhala phokoso lenileni, musaiwale kuti mudakali mtsikana wachikondi. Ndipo wokondedwa wanu ndi woyenera kusonyeza chikondi ndi chikondi pa inu. Muzomwe mukuchita, simuyenera kugonjetsa ndodo.
Muzilemekeza munthuyo. Inu ndinu ofanana nawo mu chiyanjano chanu. Aliyense wa inu ali ndi ufulu pa malo ake, zokonda zanu ndi zokondweretsa.
Musamunyozetse mwamuna ndipo musamukakamize ndi mphuno yanu, ngati mwana wamphongo wamba. Choncho, mumachepetsa kudzidalira kapena kukhumudwitsa.
Musalole kuti zosangalatsa zisanene kwa mamembala a banja lake. Amalipira kwambiri kuposa makolo ake, iye alibebe. Ndipo inu mwinamwake muli ndi zofunikira kwambiri mu moyo wake.
Kodi nthawi zambiri mumalota za momwe wosankhidwa wanu akufunira? Ndipo inu simunaganize kuti mwamuna wanu, nayenso, maloto a zinthu zomwezo? Bwanji osakhalanso ndi munthu wa mnofu ndi mwazi, mu chifuwa cha chifuwa chake, kumenyana ndi chikondi komanso chikondi ndikumva ululu uliwonse.
Chikondi ndi kukondweretsa mwamuna wanu. Mupatse chidaliro kuti iye yekha ndiye wabwino kwambiri pa moyo wanu. Mulole iye akhale wotsimikiza kuti mumamukonda. Koma pa nthawi yomweyo, musamulole kuti azisangalala. Mwamunthu mkulankhula kwake - zomwe zingakhale zokongola kwambiri.