"O, nsanje, nsanje! Ndili bwanji bile! .. "- monga momwe akunenera. Ngakhale, pamutu uwu, amayi ambiri akhoza kuchita mosiyana. Winawake amakhulupirira kuti kaduka ndi wotsutsa, wina anganene kuti nsanje ndizochita mwachilungamo, ndipo wina amapempha moona mtima momwe angachotsere. Kodi n'zotheka kukhala ndi nsanje za malingaliro ena olimbikitsa? Zonse! Chinthu chachikulu - kufuna.
Chinthu choyamba choyerekeza ndi moyo chimatidikirira mu chipatala cha amayi omwe ali ndi amayi oyembekezera. "Wowona, ndipo msungwana wathu anali wamkulu kwambiri!" Pambuyo pa mndandanda pali sukulu, sukulu, ntchito, banja. Khalidwe ndi kupambana kwa anthu omwe azungulira ife zimakhala stencil kwa ife, kumene timayesa kudzipukuta tokha ndikukwiyitsidwa kwambiri pamene sitingathe kuchita.
Kuyang'ana mmbuyo tsiku lina, mumapeza kuti mnzanu wa msinkhu womwewo amakhala wopambana kwambiri, akuyenda mofulumira pamsinkhu wa ntchito ndipo chiuno chili ndi masentimita asanu osachepera. Kusanthula mwatsatanetsatane ka njira yake ya moyo sikuwululira chilichonse chapadera mu khalidwe lake ndi khalidwe lake. Kodi adayenera bwanji izi?
Anthu oyandikana nawo ali ndi udzu wobiriwira ...
Chiyeso choyang'ana mu moyo wa munthu wina chimachitika pamene zinthu sizikuyenda bwino kwa ife. Pali malingaliro apadera, zimakhala zosavuta ngati muonetsetsa kuti palibenso mauta a pinki onse. Ndipo ngati sichoncho? Ndiye pali nsanje. Kudzidalira kumachepa mofulumira, pali kukayikira ndi kumverera kosakhutira ndi wekha.
Pakhoza kukhalapo yankho lina: kuvomereza zovutazo ndi kumenyera "kupambana," kutsimikizira kuti simunali oipitsitsa kusiyana ndi omwe mumakhala nawo. Ndiko, pita ukadzigulire chovala chimodzimodzi ndi mnzako. Kujambula makoma ogona m'chipinda choyera, ngati Nadia. Kuphatikiza apo, nthawi zonse mumatha kukweza bar kupititsa patsogolo pang'ono, kumanganso pang'ono ... ndikukhala wokondwa mwini wa dorogusche ndi pulojekiti yosafunikira yofunikira ndi ntchito yopezeka pa intaneti. Mwachitsanzo, bwenzi langa adalimbikitsana maganizo ake ndi munthu amene kale anali naye m'kalasi ali ndi maphunziro apamwamba awiri. Sitifiketi yomwe iye ali woyenera pa sayansi ya sayansi, tsopano ili mu kabati yake. Iye akupitirizabe kugwira ntchito monga wothandizira mu salon yamatabwa. Ndipo kumverera kosakhutitsidwa ndi moyo wanu kumakula ngati snowball.
Nchifukwa chiyani ndikusowa nyumba yachifumu?
N'zochititsa chidwi kuti kufananitsa nthawi zambiri kumachitika "m'thupi lawo lolemera." Wokhala mu "Khrushchev" wakale samakumbukira kuti akumuchitira nsanje Sultan wa Brunei, yemwe amakhala mnyumba yachifumu. Koma iye ali ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi tsogolo la Ninochka kuchokera ku khomo lapafupi ndi momwe adatha kusamukira m'nyumba ya pakatikati mwa mzinda, popanda kukhala ndi amuna olemera kapena kupindula mokwanira pa chumacho.
Zomwezo zimapita kuoneka. Zingakhale zomveka kumanga zofanana ndi zitsanzo zapamwamba zowonongeka, kuyendetsa pamtanda. Koma bwanji osadziyerekezera ndi wantchito kuntchito amene, ndi chiwonetsero chomwecho chokwanira, ali ndi chiwerengero chochepa?
Zili choncho kuti kulingalira komweko kuli ndi chithunzi chobisika: ngati anzanu enieni, abwenzi, odziwa nawo akhoza kukwaniritsa chinachake m'moyo, ndiye mutha!
Nthawi zonse wina ndi wabwino
Nsanje ndi chizolowezi chodziyerekeza ndi ena zingayese nthabwala yoopsa: zochitika zapamwamba kwambiri za munthu zomwe zidzawonongeke patsogolo pazochita za ena. Poyerekeza tokha ndi munthu wina, timayesetsa kuchita khama lathu, ndikudzipatula tokha. Kodi ndi chinthu chiti chomwe chidzachitike ngati chibwenzicho chikuyandikira? Ndipo zikuwoneka kuti m'moyo mulibe malo a chilungamo.
Koma ngakhale munthu atapambana mobwerezabwereza, amafika mumsampha wonyenga. Posakhalitsa amayamba kukhulupirira yekha ndi kusankha kwake. Komabe, moyo ndi wotere kuti nthawi zonse mumakhala munthu wabwino. Ndipo ngati mumakonda kudziyerekeza nokha, mumakhala ndi maganizo ovutika maganizo.
Kodi mungachotse bwanji chizolowezi chodzifanizira nokha ndi ena?
• Dziwani zofuna zanu ndikuzigwiritsa ntchito. Pamene tikuchita bizinesi yomwe timakonda, tilibe nthawi (ndi zofuna) kuti tidziyerekeze ndi ena.
• Yesetsani kuchita zonse zomwe mungathe kuti mukwaniritse zolinga zanu. Chidziwitso chomwe mwawapatsa pulogalamu yonse chidzakupatsani chifukwa chodzikuza nokha, ngakhale zotsatira zake sizikugwirizana ndi zonse zomwe mukuyembekeza. Kuphatikizanso apo, mwalandira kale mpikisano wofunika kwambiri - ndi ulesi wanu.
• Lolani nokha kukhala opanda ungwiro. Ndipotu, ndani amene amati nthawi zonse ndi kulikonse muyenera kukhala wabwino kwambiri? Phunzirani kukhala wokondwa ndi inu nokha, mudzathetsa chifukwa chokayika.
• Musagwirizane ndi anthu ena, kapena mutayika kugwa muzunguliro: mukamayerekezera ena, amakufananitsani kwambiri. Kuyesedwa mwakuchita.
• Nthawi yotsatira mukakhala ndi chiyeso choyamba kuyang'ana kumbuyo kwa wina, mutenge mpweya wabwino ndikuganiza kuti khumi. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kudzigwira nokha pachiyambi cha chiwonongeko chowononga.
Chitsanzo cha kupambana
Popeza timapatsidwa mphamvu yodzichitira nsanje, lolani izi zikhale zolimbikitsira kudzikonza nokha. Kuyankhula za kaduka "ichi ndi chilungamo chapadera" sikungathandize. Simudzatha kuyerekeza ndi kuzunzika. Ndikofunika kuti mudziwe momwe mungayesere kusintha zosiyanasiyana pa moyo wanu. Mnzanga adatsegula studio yake? Palibe chifukwa chochitira nsanje kapena kuyesa kutsatira mapazi ake. Ndi bwino kukumbukira ntchito yomwe ikukukozani. Mwinamwake muli ndi nthawi yowonetsera kapena ndoto? Samalani ndi bizinesi iyi, ganizirani njira yothandizira, ndipo phindu lidzabwera palokha.
Ngati mwadzidzidzi, zofuna zanu zimagwirizana ndi zomwe bwenzi lanu anachita, sonyezani chidwi chenicheni ndikumufunseni za momwe adakwanitsira kukwaniritsa kupambana kotereku. Funsani malangizo. Kawirikawiri kusinthasintha koteroku kumatilimbikitsa kutenga zofuna zathu ndikukhazikitsa maluso athu.
Kuti muzisankha bwino malangizo anu, ndizothandiza kuyesa moyo wa wina, ngati zovala mu sitolo. Yesetsani kuchita nawo masewerawa: ganizirani nokha mu "khungu" la munthu yemwe ali ndi nsanje. Musaope kukwera, m'maganizo, kulawa moyo wawo, njira za banja, maubwenzi anu, ntchito - mumakhala omasuka, musamangokhalira kukakamiza chirichonse, musati mutenge? Mwinamwake zomwe mumasilira, pakuyang'anitsitsa, simudzawoneka wokongola. Chabwino, ngati chithunzi "kuchokera mkati" chikhalire mukuchikonda, chitani mosamala pokwaniritsa maloto anu. Ndipo musayang'ane wina aliyense!