Mono amagwira ntchito mosiyana.
Anthu omwe asiya okha akulakwitsa pamene akunena kuti ali okhawo padziko lapansi. Ndizopusa kunena izi ngati mumakhala mumzinda waukulu. Muzunguliridwa ndi zinthu zambiri zomwe zingasokoneze chisoni, khalani okondwa komanso mutenge nthawi yanu. Mukhoza kupita ku cinema ndikuwonera kanema yomwe mumaikonda, mukhoza kudya mudyera wokondweretsa, kupita kumsika kapena kupita ku gulu. Inde, mulibe awiri, koma mumangoganizira kuti ndi anthu angati omwe akukuzungulirani, kulikonse komwe muli, momwe lingaliro la kusungulumwa kosasunthika kumatuluka nthawi yomweyo. Kodi n'zotheka kukhala wosungulumwa mumzinda kumene anthu zikwi masana pafupipafupi amayenderera bizinesi yawo, amasangalala, amagwira ntchito, amakangana ndi kuthamanga?
Choncho, pamene mukukumana ndi mantha ena, pitani kumisewu. Ndikhulupirire, iwe udzatopa mofulumira kwambiri kuchokera kwa gululo, ndipo kusungulumwa kudzakuwonekera iwe kuchoka kwachabechabe.
Chimodzi mwa mantha omwe amawopa kwambiri ndi mantha okapita ku tchuthi ndi kudzikweza. Inde, kampaniyo ndi yosangalatsa, komanso imakhala masiku angapo popanda abwenzi, ogwira nawo ntchito komanso okondedwa ali ndi ubwino wawo waukulu. Mukhoza kugona mokwanira, ndipo palibe amene angakuletse. Mungathe kubweretsa malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu, ndipo palibe amene angakhale ndi mwayi wosokoneza maganizo anu. Mukhoza kusankha maulendo monga mwa malingaliro anu okongola, simungachite manyazi ndi zomwe mumakonda kugona pa gombe kuyambira m'mawa mpaka usiku komanso osakhala ndi chidwi ndi zipilala zachipembedzo. Mulimonsemo, sipadzakhala wina woti akutsutseni. Kuphatikizanso, tchuthi ndi mwayi wokhala ndi mabuku ambiri omwe amakonda kwambiri ngakhale omwe sakudziwa bwino, ndipo simudzachita manyazi ndipo simungayesetse chifukwa chake mudagona ndi munthu woyamba amene munakumana nawo.
Koposa zonse timachita mantha ndi usiku wosungulumwa kunyumba. Kodi kusungulumwa kumachita chiyani madzulo? Kuwonera mapulogalamu osangalatsa pa TV ndikugona pa nthawi pamene anthu ena osowa mwayi akuyamba kusewera. Koma pali anthu ambiri osakwatira komanso kutali ndi onse monga moyo uno. Zikupezeka kuti mukhoza kudzisangalatsa nokha panyumba. Mwachitsanzo, mukhoza kuyamba kukonza. Pachifukwa ichi, ntchito yanu kwa miyezi yotsatira idzaperekedwa kwa inu - mpaka mutatopa kapena ndalama zitatha. Ngati kukonza sikuli koyenera monga zosangalatsa, gwiritsani ntchito intaneti. Mtumiki wadziko lonse sungakupatseni mpata woti mutengeke. Pano mungathe kuyankhulana, phunzirani zina zatsopano, mafilimu owonera, kuwerenga mabuku komanso nkhani zothandiza. Pamene muli ndi chisangalalo chokhala opanda banja, mukhoza kuphunzira chinenero, kupeza ntchito yatsopano kapena kukhala ndi chizoloŵezi chatsopano. Ndipo mukhoza kuphika mbale yatsopano tsiku ndi tsiku, kukhala ndi luso lophika.
Moyo wosayenerera.
Pazifukwa zina, amakhulupirira kuti kusungulumwa kwa mkazi ndiko kusowa kwa munthu wamuyaya m'moyo wake. Mwina izi ndi zoona. Koma kodi mamiliyoni a amayi omwe alibe chidwi ndi amuna amasangalala? Kodi munganene za mkazi yemwe mwamuna wake amabwera kunyumba pambuyo pa usiku, kuti siye yekha? Kodi anthu amatsitsa nthawi yosangalatsa, kusintha, kutengedwa ndi mpira ndi makompyuta kuposa china chirichonse padziko lapansi? Kodi zolakwa zawo zonse zimapindula ndi zopindulitsa zomwe zimakhala ngati chakudya chodyera pamodzi ndi maulendo osachepera kupita ku cafe kapena malesitilanti?
Mpaka mutakhala muwiri - mumasiyidwa nokha. Inu ndi okhawo mumayendetsa moyo wanu, mutenge bafa kwa maola ambiri popanda kuwopa kudzudzula. Mukhoza kutheka kuti musadzutse pamapeto pa mlungu, muthamangire mozungulira nyumba ndi zobiriwira za algae pankhope panu, mumasewera anu akale ndikuwonera mafilimu omwe mumakonda, osati masewera osatha a mpira. Ngakhale mu moyo wanu palibe munthu, ndinu omasuka kupita ku maphwando onse okondwererani, pemphani anzanu, kukondana, kulandira maluwa komanso osawopa kubweretsa kunyumba. Ngati mukuganiza za izi, moyo wopanda munthu umakhala wosangalatsa komanso wokondweretsa kwambiri kuposa iye.
Tonse timamvera chisoni anthu osungulumwa, ndipo, mwinamwake, mwamtheradi chabe? Mwadzidzidzi tsogolo la msungwana wachikulire, wokhutitsidwa ndi njuchi sizowopsya, monga zikuwonekera kwa ife? Nanga bwanji ngati anthu awa akusankha mosamala moyo wotero ndipo akusangalala nazo? Mulimonsemo, nthawi yathu, kusungulumwa sikungakhale kwathunthu. Aliyense wa ife ali ndi mwayi wambiri wocheza naye, kukumana ndi wokondedwa. Izi zimachitika kuti moyo umatipatsa ife ulemu. Kungakhale kupusa kuti musagwiritse ntchito. Ngati muli nokha tsopano, ganizirani, kodi simukusangalala? Yang'anani mozungulira, ndiye mukumvetsa kuti pali anthu ambiri okondweretsa omwe akukukondani, ndipo kusakhalitsa kwa mwamuna kumangokhala kukonzekera buku latsopano losangalatsa, osati chigamulo.