Kawirikawiri, mafelemu okhala ndi khosi kumbuyo kumasiyana ndi kukongola ndi kukongola. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, kavalidwe kotereku ndi kowopsya, choncho izi sizikutanthauza chithunzi cha tsiku ndi tsiku.
Kodi mungasankhe bwanji chovala chokongoletsa kumbuyo?
Monga tanena kale, kutsegula kumatseketsa chidwi, kotero ndikofunikira kulingalira zenizeni za fanizo lanu pokonzekera chitsanzo choyenera kwambiri. Mwamwayi, opanga zamakono amapereka miyeso yambiri yomwe ingakuthandizeni kuwonetsera mphamvu zanu ndi kubisala zolakwika. Kawirikawiri ndi diresi yokhala ndi silinette yomwe imatha kukuwonetsani kukhala wamtali ndi woonda. Kwa iwo nkofunika kuvala nsapato ndi zidendene zapamwamba kwambiri. Ndipo yesetsani kuyendayenda bwino. Ngati iyi ndiyomwe mumayambira, perekani chitsanzo chotero chidendene, chifukwa chithunzicho chimawoneka chovuta.
Zaka zingapo zapitazi pampando wamakono ovekedwa ndi kavalidwe pansi pa mapewa. Iwo sanena momveka bwino, ndipo ali okonzeka ku zikondwerero kapena kusonkhana. Ngati muli ochepa, perekani madiresi amfupi ndi odulidwa ndi nsalu yowirira. Ndibwino kuti siketi ikhale yovuta kwambiri, kotero kuti muwoneke bwino komanso wochenjera.
Ngati mumakonda chinthu chosakhala cholinganizira, yang'anani zochepetsedwa za mawonekedwe oyambirira. Mukhoza kusankha chovala ndi khosi lamtundu umodzi kapena katatu kumbuyo. Zikhoza kukongoletsedwa ndi nthiti kapena kukongoletsera, nsalu, nsalu.
Bisani zolakwitsa za chiwerengerocho zingapangidwe kavalidwe pakhomo kumbuyo. Adzawonjezera zochepa ndikusintha anthu osakhala ofanana. Kutsika kwakufupi pansi pa m'chiuno kuli bwino kuti muvele aatali, aang'ono akazi. Iyi ndi diresi yodabwitsa yomwe idzakondweretsa anthu omwe akuzungulirani.
Zovala ndi kudula kumbuyo kwa tsiku lililonse
Mzere wam'mbuyo kumbuyo sikutanthauza cholinga chovala. Pali mitundu yambiri ya zitsanzo za tsiku ndi tsiku ndi yotseguka. Kawirikawiri, iwo amachotsedwa ku nsalu zowala, zoyera zikuuluka mumphepo. Mavalidwe amenewa ndi abwino kumayendedwe achikondi. Zoona, ndi bwino kuganizira mozama kuti iwo adzawoneka atsikana omwe ali osiyana kwambiri.