Kuwakwiyitsa ndikumverera komwe aliyense amadziwa. Chophweka ndi chosavuta kulamulira, china chimakhala chovuta. Koma ngati simukulimbana ndi anthu akuluakulu, ndiye kuti pamapeto pake mudzangopewa. Choncho, muyenera kuphunzira kuchotsa mkwiyo wanu. Ndipotu, sikovuta kuchita. Muyenera kupeza njira zanu, ndipo zowonongeka zoterezi zidzachitika mocheperachepera. Chotsatira, tidzakambirana za njira zothetsera mavuto akuluakulu.
Phunzirani kunyalanyaza zovuta
Pofuna kuthetsa mkwiyo, sitingathe kupewa kupsa mtima. Anthu ambiri sazindikira kuti zida zitha kuchitika ngati simukulankhulana ndi anthu ena. Mwachitsanzo, ngati muli pakati pa gulu la anthu omwe mumawawona nthawi zambiri, alipo munthu amene amakuchotsani nokha ndipo amachititsa kuti awonongeke. Musamvetsere, ndizo zonse. Mukangomva kuti akuyamba kukupanizani, tcherani khutu kwa wina kapena mulowe mu malingaliro anu. M'kupita kwa nthawi, mudzaphunzira kuti musadzazindikire.
Funsani malangizo
Anthu akhoza kukwiya chifukwa chakuti sakhutira ndi zina, koma sangathe kupeza njira. Pankhaniyi ndikofunikira kulankhula ndi munthu amene mumamuona kuti ndi wanzeru komanso wochenjera. Chifukwa cha malingaliro ake kuchokera kunja, mutha kuyesa mofulumira mkhalidwewo ndikupeza zatsopano, mmalo mogwiritsa ntchito mitsempha yanu ndi mphamvu pa mkwiyo ndi kukwiyitsa.
Pezani chinachake chomwe chimakusangalatsani inu
Munthu akhoza kukhumudwa, mwachitsanzo, ndi robot yake kapena chinthu chomwe chili ndi gawo lalikulu la moyo wake. Mwachidziwikire, mungakulimbikitseni kuti musinthe ntchito kapena mwanjira inayake muchotsere mkwiyowu mwanjira ina. Koma ngati mulibe mwayi wochita izi, yesetsani kupeza phunziro limene lidzakupatsani chimwemwe. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, ngati mukudwala kuntchito, mutapita kuchipatala, kusewera masewera, kuyenda ndi abwenzi, zibangili, kawirikawiri, chitani chimene moyo wanu umakondwera, ndi kupuma kwa ubongo. Mudzawona, posachedwa mutha kukwiya, chifukwa mudzaganiza kuti posachedwa zonse zidzatha, ndipo mudzachita zomwe mumakonda.
Musati mudzifunse mochuluka kwambiri
Vuto lina limene anthu ambiri ali nalo ndilofunikira kwambiri. Pamene mukufuna kukhala wabwino koposa chirichonse, koma chinachake sichikutuluka, munthu amayamba kukwiya kwambiri. Ngati izi zikukuchitikirani, kumbukirani kuti zabwino mwazonse zikhoza kukhala zongopeka. Ndipo amabadwa kawirikawiri. Choncho, ngati suli wanzeru, simukufunikira kukhazikitsa zolinga zambiri. Ikani imodzi kapena ziwiri mmadera omwe inu muli abwino kwambiri ndi kupita pamwamba. Kumbukirani kuti olemba ndakatulo ambiri sanamvetse masamu konse, ndipo osati filosofi yense wa nyukliya akhoza kulemba vesi kuchokera ku mizere inayi.
Musamangokakamiza ena
Anthu omwe ali ndi zofuna zambiri amayamba kufunafuna zambiri kuchokera kwa ena ndikukwiyitsa pamene sakupeza. Kumbukirani kuti timakonda anthu ena osati chifukwa cha zomwe apindula kapena zomwe sizinachitike, koma chifukwa chakuti tili nawo basi. Ndipo ngati mukufuna kupanga wina wachiwiri Bill Gates kuchokera kwa wina, ndipo amakonda kukwera mumzinda ndi galimoto ndikumasula mikate, simukusowa nthawi zonse ndikukwiya kuti munthu sakufuna kukhala zomwe mukuziwona. Inde, mukhoza kumulangiza ndikuyesa kumukankhira kumbali yoyenera, komabe kumbukirani kuti ngakhale atakhala kuti ayenera kukhala, sali woyenera kukwiya, ndi moyo wake, osati moyo wanu .
Musasinthe okondedwa
Mwa njira, ndizo chifukwa tikufuna kupanga okondedwa monga momwe timafunira, koma amakhala okha ndipo safuna kusintha, nthawi zambiri timakhumudwa. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kuphunzira kudziyika nokha pamalo awo. Kodi nthawi zonse amamva kuchokera kwa ife? Kudzudzula ndikukhazikika. Mwachibadwa, izi zimapangitsa kukangana, kapena kungopewera misonkhano. Kumbukirani kuti simuli ana. Ndipo anthu achikulire amapanga umunthu ndi khalidwe, zomwe zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti zisinthe. Choncho lekani kuyesa kusintha anthu akuluakulu. Ingophunzira kuti muwalandire monga iwo alili. Taganizirani izi, chifukwa mudakondabe munthu uyu ndi makhalidwe omwe amakwiyitsani inu. Aphane nawo, ndipo zindikirani kuti ubale wanu udzakhala bwino, ndi zifukwa zokhumudwitsa - zochepa.