Ndiye momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito bwino mwamuna?
Pafupifupi anthu onse amakonda kutamandidwa .
Okondedwa athu amangokhala mlejut, ngati iwo amamva chinachake mwabwino kwambiri za luso lawo, deta yapadera kapena kupambana. Mwamunayo anapanga chidutswa cha plywood ndi hemp heeled tebulo? Nthawi yomweyo tamandani malingaliro ake anzeru ndi aluntha ndipo mwamsanga mupange tebulo kuti muzimwa tiyi. Kodi mumakhala ndi bauble abwino? Chikondi chachikulu nthawi zonse! Chilichonse, ngakhale kutamandidwa kosafunikira kwenikweni ndi malingaliro abwino, kulimbikitsa ntchito yofanana ya amuna. Zolankhulidwa ndi kutsutsidwa ziyenera kuchitanso, koma chiŵerengero chawo ndi chiyamiko chiyenera kukhala cha 1: 3. Ndi malangizo ena aang'ono - musaiwale kuyamika pagulu, chifukwa pakadali pano zotsatira zake katatu.
Amuna amakonda kukhala oyamba muzonse.
Amakonda kupitirira ngakhale m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Mwamuna wanu basi pa chiwerengero cha majini amafunikira kutsimikiza kuti (iye anapita kutchuthi, kukonzekera ...) izo zinali kwa iye poyamba. Muthandizeni, ndipo adzakupatsani mapiri. "Wow! Sindinayambe ndadodometsa borscht zokoma chotero. Dora, kodi mwakonzeratu izi? "" Kwa nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wanga ndikuwona munthu wowerenga bwino kwambiri. Kodi mwawerengapo izi? "- ndipo pamene mukunena izi muwonjezerani m'malingaliro anu chidwi ndi kudabwa. Kuti musamangokhalira kunena zabodza komanso osabwereza, nthawi zina amasintha "yoyamba" kukhala "osakwatiwa". Kukhala nthawi yoyamba ndi kumangoyamba kwa munthu aliyense kumanyengerera kotero kuti amadzikoka kuti apitirize kuchita zomwezo mu mzimu womwewo. Iyi ndiyo njira yosavuta yothetsera munthu.
Onse oimira gawo lolimba laumunthu akufuna kukhala munthu weniweni.
"Koma mwamuna weniweni sangalole kuti mkazi wake anyamule katundu wolemera" - ngati kuti ndi momwe mumalankhulira ndi anzanu pagome limodzi, pamene onse akuvomereza ndi kuvomereza - pambuyo pake mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu atha Mawu akuti: "Ndiyenera kunyamula thumba langa." Pambuyo pake adzayang'anitsitsa ichi ndikuchotserani chilichonse chomwe chingakhale cholemera kuposa kilogalamu imodzi. Kwa munthu pa msinkhu wamaganizo, nkofunika kuti musaleke amuna angapo enieni, chifukwa ndi ophweka kuti athe kunyamula. Komabe, zofunikira pa khalidwe la amuna awa zimaperekedwa bwino osati diso. Choncho, zimakhala zosavuta kuti mnzanuyo aganizire zina mwayekha ndikuyesera kusintha zochita zake ndi khalidwe lolondola la mwamuna weniweni. Ndipo ngati mwa zochita zake zifika pamapeto, onetsetsani kuti mumutamanda, pomwe simukuyang'ana pamatenda.
Mwamunayo amayamikira kwambiri zopereka zake .
Ndipo koposa zonse, ngati ziri zakuthupi. Kodi mukufuna kuti mnzanu azikuyamikirani kwambiri? Ndiye yesetsani kutsimikizira kuti amakugwiritsani ntchito ndalama zambiri. Inde, izi zikumveka, kuziyika mofatsa, zowonjezereka, koma izi, tsoka, ndizochitika zamoyo - tonsefe timakhala kwathunthu. Iye sakufuna kukupatsani mphatso ? Mubweretseni ku sitolo komanso mokweza kuti aliyense amve, nenani kuti: "Ndizokwanira thumba limeneli lomwe ndalota kale. Kotero inu simukudandaula za zomwe ine ndikugula kwa Chaka Chatsopano, tiyeni tigule izo tsopano. " Poganizira malingaliro a amayi, sangalole kukana. Komabe, musaiwale kutamanda mphatso zimenezo, zomwe akupereka kwa inu nokha.
Zimakhala zovuta kuti amuna avomereze kulakwitsa kwawo.
Mwamuna akukhala kumbuyo kwa gudumu, iwe umadutsa pa pini iyi kachitatu, mitsempha yonse ili pamlingo wawo. Ndipo panthawi ina simungathe kupirira, ndikuyesera kulankhula momasuka monga momwe mungathere, mufunseni funso lomwe lakhala likuloledwa pamutu mwanu: "Mwinamwake tiyimitsa, kodi tipeze kuchokera kumadzulo kumene msewuwu uli?" Ndipo poyankha inu, m'malo mwake Mwachidziwitso, mudzamva chinachake chakukhumudwitsani, mwachitsanzo: "Mvetserani, ndani akuyendetsa galimoto tsopano - ine kapena inu?" Ndibwino kuti muthe kukhala chete, yesetsani kumuletsa. Yesetsani kulipanga kuti musathe kuzibwezeranso, monga: "Mukuchita zonse zolakwika. Iwe ndiwe wopusa. "
Amuna onse amaganiza bwinobwino.
Monga, mwachitsanzo, pali mtundu wa algorithm wa zochitika ndi masitepe a kompyuta, ndipo kuti muchite ntchito zina zapakhomo, mukusowa malangizo omveka ndi omveka bwino. Tiyerekeze kuti mumatumiza wokondedwa wanu kumsika. Ndipo kodi akubweretsani chiyani pamapeto pake? Chips ndi kirimu wowawasa, kusuta nyama ndi zonona. Pazochitika zonse zomwe mungapereke kwa munthu wokondedwa wanu, ndi zofunika kuti mugwiritse ntchito molondola, potsatira zotsatirazi: a) ndondomeko ya ntchito; b) kuwonetseratu zochitika zonse; c) kuyambitsa mayeso (ndipo, ngati kuli kotheka, kukambirana) ndi d) kutumiza "kwaulere".
Nthawi zonse mwamuna ayenera kudziona kuti ndi wopambana .
Anali iye amene adakuwonani koyamba, adagwidwa mwachikondi ndipo anapambana mokondwera. Chigamulo cha mavuto ake onse ndi ake. Kuti mugwire bwino munthu, kulimbikitseni, chikondi komanso musamuchotsere chidaliro chachitsulo kuti ndi iye ndipo ndiyekha yemwe ali wopambana komanso wosatsutsika. Komabe, ndikofunikira kuti musagwedeze ndodo! Zodabwitsa kuti, abambo ndi abwino kwambiri kupeza kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa mkazi wachikondi koma wofunafuna komanso yemwe nthawi zonse amakhala wokonzeka kumunamizira wokondedwa wake poonetsa kuti sanaponye chitsa pamtengo wapamwamba. Kwa oyamba, mwamunayo adzachita zonse kuti apange zabwino, ndipo wachiwiri amangokhala pa khosi lake ndi kuligwiritsa ntchito pa zolinga zake. Ndipo mwamunayo angagwiritse ntchito, osati inu.
Ngati mutagwiritsa ntchito mfundozi, zotsatira zake sizikhala mwamsanga, chifukwa ndondomeko iliyonse ikukula nthawi ndi khama. Ndipo khulupirirani ine, sikuli kovuta kumunyengerera bwino munthu.