Pali nthano zambiri zokhudzana ndi mphatso zopereka! Ambiri a iwo amakhala amphwando chabe, koma anthu ochepa amaganiza momwe zolingalira zina zakhalira.
Mtengo wa mphatso palibe kanthu
Izi kawirikawiri zimatsimikiziridwa poteteza zopereka zotsika mtengo ndipo, mwa lingaliro langa, zonyenga kwambiri. Mtengo wa mphatso umadalira pazinthu zambiri: chifukwa chomwe chimaperekedwera, chikhalidwe cha eni ake ndi miyambo yotchedwa donee, yomwe inakhazikitsidwa. Ndi chinthu chimodzi pamene zibwenzi (ophunzira kapena sukulu) amapatsana wina ndi mzake Chaka Chatsopano botolo la shampo lachabechabe kapena cholembera, ndipo wina - pamene muli ndi mphatso zomwezo (akulu) mumabanja a mnzanu kuti mukondwere.
Musapereke mphatso zodula kwambiri
Ngati mukusankha mphatso sikumakhala ndi vuto la kusowa ndalama - shikuyte kukhala wathanzi! Inde, mumapereka mphatso yamtengo wapatali pokhapokha mukakhala otsimikiza kuti chizindikiro chanu chachikulu chidzapangitsa chidwi chanu, ndipo musamupangitse chisokonezo. Ngati mukufuna kuchita zonse kuti mukhale naye pamtunda wofanana, yesetsani kupatsana mphatso.
Simungapereke mphatso ndi "zizindikiro"
Chifukwa chiani? Ngati donee akufuna zakuti - mungathe komanso muyenera kupereka.
Pali zinthu zopatsa zomwe sizili bwino
Chirichonse chimadalira pa munthuyo komanso mmene ubale wanu ndi iye uliri. Ndipo ngati wina wachita muchitini cha kasupe wa banal akuwona chifaniziro cha kugonana ndi wokhumudwitsidwa, ndiye wina adzaseka mwamtima ndi mphatso yowopsya kwambiri.
Mphatso sizipereka
Zojambulazo, "kumagona" kuchokera ku phwando lotsatira, mwinamwake, likhoza kusungidwa pokhapokha ataitanidwa mwadzidzidzi (koma, ndithudi, sayenera "kugwiritsidwa ntchito"). Izi, ndithudi, si mphatso yabwino, koma zosiyana ndizo.
Chofunika si mphatsoyo, koma tcheru
Ndipo ndi chiyani, chochititsa chidwi, kodi chidwi cha woperekayo chikuwoneka, ngati sichiri mu mphatso yosankhidwa bwino? Ngati mukufunadi kusonyeza chidwi chanu, musamachotsere mabwenzi anu ndi zolemba zanu zamagulu (makampani, mabungwe), zomwe amati "musaganize kuti adabwere - anabweretsa kuntchito."
Mphatso yangwiro
Ndipotu, kodi pali chinthu choterocho? Kodi pali mphatso yamtundu wapadziko lonse yomwe "yapangidwa kuti ipambane"? Kodi mukuganiza kuti funsoli ndilolondola? Ndipo apa ine ndinapeza olemba a Chipolishi okongola koposa nthawi yomweyo, mwa lingaliro langa, ndondomeko yangwiro ya mphatso yabwino.
- Mphatso yabwino ndi yomwe timafunikira, koma zomwe sitinayembekezere kulandira.
- Zomwe ife eni eni sitidagula.
- Kotero sikofunikira zomwe ziri za zinthu zapadera, zothandiza kwambiri zomwe zimatitumikira ife tsiku ndi tsiku.
- Zamtengo wapatali - koma osati mochuluka, osati kusokoneza.
- Wokongola koma komabe ali wokwera mokweza, koma wodzichepetsa kwambiri kuti pepala si lokongola kuposa zomwe zili.
- Ndipo, potsiriza, amapereka popanda chifukwa, pa nthawi yoyenera ndipo popanda cholinga chobisika.
Ndikuganiza, simungagwirizane nazo zonsezi. Mphatso yotereyi ndi yovuta kupeza, koma ngati zinali zophweka - kodi mphatsoyo ingatengedwe ngati sakramenti? Musanyalanyaze misonkhano ikuluikulu yotereyi, monga kufunafuna chinsinsi ndi mphatso yake. Mu moyo muli maholide ochepa, musakhale aulesi kukondweretsa okondedwa anu! Munthu wosawerengeka sakulota tsiku limodzi kuti alandire monga mphatso zomwe akufuna moyo wake wonse.
Chilichonse cha moyo
Inde, mphatso, zomwe munthu amadumphira padenga, timapereka, mwinamwake, kamodzi kapena kawiri m'moyo. "Pa ntchito" zopereka, tsoka, zimachitika kawirikawiri. Koma nthawi zambiri timayesabe kupeza mphatso yomwe ili yofunikira komanso yoyambirira. Momwe mungakwaniritsire zolingazi, mukuganizira za ndalama zochepa, ndi kusowa kwa nthawi ya kufufuza kwanthawi yaitali, komanso kuti zinthu zambiri zokongola, zovuta, zimadziwika pa ngodya iliyonse?
Kotero, iwe wapereka mphatso kwa ndalama zina. Kuphatikiza komwe mukupita kuli kochepa, simungakwanitse kugulitsa zinthu zokhazokha, ndipo pali mavuto ochulukirapo pambali pa mphatso yomwe simungawononge malingaliro anu. Chabwino, lolani mphatsoyo ikhale yamba - koma ingopatsa dzinali bokosi lonse! Chimodzimodzi? Eya, siwongolengeka, ndithudi, koma madzi a lalanje - ndi zachikondi kwambiri. Ndipo kuti mphatso yanu sichifanana ndi chithandizo chaumphawi, khalani ndi duwa mmenemo (mungathe kuwonanso maluwa ena).
Wokongola kwambiri Ndikuganiza kuti mphatso ili ngati mulu wa matikiti a lotoloti. Chodabwitsa pa nkhaniyi chidzapitirira atatha kubereka, ndipo ngati donee sadzapambana kalikonse, sadzakhumudwitsidwa - sanagule yekha ndalama. Zoona, mungakhale ndikumverera mu nkhaniyi kuti mudabwera ndi manja opanda kanthu.
Kuchokera ku "toyese", ulonda kapena kamera (ya zitsanzo ndi mitengo - mitundu yosiyanasiyana), chotsalira cha zodzoladzola "kuchokera" ndi "kupita" kwa kampani imodzi, kanyumba kakang'ono ka wailesi, kulembetsa kwa magazini yabwino kapena nyuzipepala amaperekedwa ngati mphoto yopambana.
Musapereke : - kujambula ndi zinthu zapakhomo (kupatula ngati muli ndi abwenzi awiri-antiquary ndi kukoma komweko);
- zinthu zosafunika (monga masewera a tenisi kuti atha kugona pabedi);
- mabuku osasintha;
- zinthu zomwe muyenera kugula zambiri (pompopu dzanja, mwachitsanzo, muyenera kugula njinga);
- zinthu zomwe unaziwona panyumba zikukhala ponseponse;
- zinthu zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi kalembedwe ndi zakuthupi za donee (mwachitsanzo, mtengo wapatali kapena wotsika mtengo kwa maubwenzi ake);
- chirichonse chimene mukukayikira.
Ndipo kulola kuyitanidwa kwa alendo sikukugwiritseni ntchito, monga phunziro la ophunzira oipa. Kumbukirani kuti kupatsa mphatso kumakhala kokondweretsa monga kuwapeza. Apo ayi inu ndinu munthu wadyera.