Mkazi wokhwima wanzeru adzatha kupindula ndi msinkhu wa Balzac. Ngakhale zili choncho, theka la moyo wake wakhalapo, ndipo ngati sakukugwirizana ndi chinachake, ndiye kuti pali mwayi wapadera wokhazikitsanso zam'tsogolo zamtundu uliwonse kapena wa padziko lonse, chifukwa zosowa za mkazi wokhwima Wakalala mokwanira.
Mkazi wa msinkhu si agogo okha omwe amamwino zidzukulu zake kapena kupukuta masiketi a ubwana wake pakhomo la benchi - uyu ndi mkazi yemwe akufuna kukonda ndi kufuna kukondedwa. Ndipo ndani anati akazi achikulire sali oyenerera kwambiri kuti palibe chikondi chenicheni ?! Pambuyo pake, anzako-am'nyamata nthawiyo amasangalala ndi zokoma za chikondi m'manja mwa atsikana aang'ono!
Choipa nchiyani kuposa mkazi? Chifukwa chiyani sangathe kuwululira chikondi cha mnyamata wamng'ono, kukhala awalangizi awo kapena azimayi okonda kwambiri? Iwo akhoza, ndipo ngakhalebe momwe angathere! Amuna 30% amakhalanso ochepa, koma mgwirizano wa chikondi ndi mkazi wamkulu mu msinkhu wa.
Balzac uyu, chifukwa chake liwu la "dona la Balzac" likuwonekera tsiku ndi tsiku, anali "mbuye" wokhala ndi "okhwima" - amayi omwe ali ndi ana ambiri ndipo, mwatsoka, mkazi wosakhulupirika m'madzi ake enieni. Honore anali chikole kwa iye, monga iye, mosiyana ndi mwamuna wake-chump, anamvetsa malingaliro ake, malingaliro, zikhumbo zabwino kwambiri.
Amuna ena amasankha kukhala chete za izo, koma ndi zoona. Ndili mwana, ine ndinali ndi wokonda "zaka za Balzac," wamkulu kuposa ine, kotero pa 20 ndi ndowe. Ndipo anandiuza kuti adali ndi mkazi wokhwima mu ubwana wake yemwe adamuphunzitsa zizolowezi zambiri, osati pabedi, koma mu moyo ndi muutumiki ... Sindikuyankhula za bizinesi ya Russia ndi zitsanzo, kuti izi ndi zomwe aliyense amawona pamaso pake ...
Sindikukakamiza kuti amayi onse okhwima azitenga, atenge zisa zawo ndi kuzungulira pambuyo pa anyamata okongola, palibe amene amadziwa chifukwa chake kapena kuti. Ine ndikungonena kuti ngakhale pa msinkhu mkazi ali ndi ufulu wa chimwemwe chaumwini, chikondi, komanso kuti azidzipanga yekha kudziwika muzochita zachikhalidwe kapena zamalonda.
Zili bwino, mayi wokhwima ndi wovuta kupeza osati wokongola komanso wachinyamata, komanso kumvetsa munthu - phemba la munthu wamphamvu kwambiri. Ndipo, ndiwuzeni ine, ndi zaka zingati zomwe ziri zophweka kuchita? Ndicho, chabwino ndikuti palibe ife.
Kafukufuku wouma amanena kuti achinyamata pafupifupi 50% amasankha anzawo, pafupifupi 20% mwa anyamata okhutira ndi okhudzidwa nthawi zonse amasankha atsikana ang'onoang'ono kuposa iwo okha (ngakhale kuti sakuletsa kugonana ndi kukwatirana ndi oimira zaka zina), ndipo pafupifupi 30 peresenti ya anyamata amasankha kudalira kumvetsetsa ndi kusamala, pafupifupi mapewa a amayi, amayi achikulire ali ndi zaka 40, atangoyamba kumene.
Pa nthawi imodzimodziyo, amayi omwe ali ndi katundu wodabwitsa, monga nyanja ya chithumwa, chitsimikizo chokhazikika cha chiyembekezo, chikhalidwe chapamwamba cha anthu, mapiri a golide - mwayi wopanda malire, amayi okongola, aluso, athanzi, enieni ndi akazi ali ndi ulemu wosaganizira pa amalonda awo okhwima. Ngati simukukhulupirira kuti mnyamatayo akhoza kuyamikira kukongola kwa mkazi wamkulu, ndiye kuti mukhoza kuwerenga mabuku a Balzac.
Ndili "likulu loyamba" ndipo mulimonsemo, mkazi aliyense wokhwima akhoza kuyesa kukhala wachimwemwe. Ndipo ngati chimwemwe choterocho chiri mwa mwamuna ndi chikondi, muyenera kusamala kwambiri thanzi, chifukwa nkhani ya thanzi la amayi ndi ofanana ndi nkhani ya kukongola ndi ubwino.