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Zambiri zanenedwa zokhudzana ndi kugonana. Mungathe kunena momwe angakhalire "kudya" ndi chiyani. Ndipo palibe chirichonse chimene chimadziwika pa apochemus monga choncho? Koma kwenikweni, chifukwa chiyani kuchokera pazochita zonse zomwe angasankhe, mwachitsanzo, mmishonale? Ndipo pamene akumutcha iye posvoemu mwanjira ina! Ngati, ndithudi, amalankhula mosapita m'mbali, ndiye chisangalalo chanu chovomerezeka chaperekedwa ... komabe, ndi chiyani chomwe chimakangana pa zonsezi?
Katswiri wodziwa za kugonana angapangitse kuti asokoneze mapewa ake ndipo afotokoze izi mwa kunena kuti "zokhudzana ndi kugonana zimasankhidwa malinga ndi kukhutira kwakukulu komanso chifukwa cha zinthu zomwe zimachitika ndi abwenzi onse" (mwa njira, ngakhale zolemba zambiri zogonana zimatanthauzira izi posachedwapa kuchokera pa izi) . Mwa kuyankhula kwina, ngati "physiology" yagwirizana, ndiye chirichonse chiri bwino - bulamu chimaperekedwa. Koma kodi wina "koma" amabweranso?
Ndipo pakadali pano, katswiri wa zamaganizo anganene kuti muyenera kumaganizira nthawi zonse zamaganizo! Monga momwe chiwonetsero chimasonyezera, chojambula chilichonse chimakhala ndi chidziwitso chobisika chomwe chimawerengedwa kuchokera kumalingaliro a lingaliro la maganizo. Mikangano yonse ndi zovuta zikhoza kuchitika panthawi yomwe aliyense wa iwo ali ndi malo omwewo omwe amadziwika m'njira zosiyana komanso ali ndi kafukufuku wake wa "chikhalidwe".
Fufuzani zamakono!
«Zambiri za mtundu»
Kwa zaka mazana angapo omwe amatchedwa "mmishonale" akukhazikika kuchokera ku zipembedzo zonse ndi makhalidwe abwino ovomerezeka kwambiri. Koma chotsatira chake, nthawi zambiri chimakonza udindo wa zowopsya, komanso "osasintha".
Icho chiri chinsinsi . Monga lamulo, izi ndizovuta kwambiri kusankha "eni nyumba". Ngati ndi bwino kufinya mnzanuyo, ndiye kuti sizitha kusunthira, koma sichidzatha kulankhula. Ndipo ndikofunikira kuti bwenzi sangathe kusuntha pamodzi, koma momveka bwino anapereka chinsinsi chomwe kwenikweni ali "mbuye m'nyumba"!
Chinsinsi chanu . Vynavnjaka sanaganizepo chifukwa chake mumavomerezera kuti mukugonana? Ndipo mwinamwake, mukufuna kuti mukwaniritse nokha? Kapena ndinu chabe wosakhutira ndi chinachake ndipo chifukwa cha kusasamala kwanu kuyesera kunena za izo?
Chiphunzitso china
Malingana ndi anthu omwe amagonana ndi amuna okhaokha, momwemonso, akazi omwe amadana ndi amuna awo amangofuna kuchita zinthu zosangalatsa zakuthupi: choyamba, sikuti amapereka mpata wosonyeza kuti amachita nawo mbali, ndipo kachiwiri, ngati mukupanga mankhwala oyenera , ndiye kuti alibe mphamvu pa nkhaniyi.
"Bodza kumbali yako ..."
Mpukutu wa "classic" wolemekezeka, umene unali "wamakono": ndizotheka kugonana ndi abambo. Udindo umenewu, ndithudi, suli wachikumbumtima, koma ndi kosavuta kwa mwamuna ndi mnzake.
Icho chiri chinsinsi . Zoposa zonse zimakondweretsa omwe amatchedwa "ana aamuna aamayi" - popanda "chilakolako cha chilakolako", wokondweretsa panyumba ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, panopa, n'zovuta kuti mutuluke mwamsanga. Mwina mwinamwake kamodzi, koma ndinamva kuchokera kwa "wotchuka" mawu omwe mu maubwenzi, kugonana sikofunika kwambiri! Ngati sichoncho, zonse zilipobe. Chifukwa, malingaliro ake, maubwenzi amachokera kumvetsetsana, kupumula kwapabanja ndi pies pa mankhwala a mayi anga.
Chinsinsi chanu . Mukufuna kupanga chisa, ndipo mumavomereza kuphunzira maphikidwe onse a amayi ake!
Chiphunzitso china . Etapoza ndi otchuka pakati pa mabanja omwe ali ndi zaka zambiri akukhala kwawo. Iwo sangadzitamande chifukwa cha zovuta zogonana, ndipo kutsanzira chilakolako chakhala chitatha kukhala chizoloŵezi chawo - amadziwa bwino bwenzi la bwenzi. Ndi chifukwa chake kugonana kwa iwo ndiko kutuluka kwa thupi!
"Msungwana Wamphepete"
Amayi amakonda chikondi ichi, tk. Amatha kuyendetsa kayendetsedwe ka kayendedwe kawokha komanso mawonekedwe a matupi okhaokha. Komanso, ambiri omwe amaimira kugonana okongola amachititsa chidwi "wokwera" chifukwa cha ulamuliro.
Icho chiri chinsinsi . Ichi ndilo loto la munthu wamalonda wotopa: womasuka, kugona pansi, ndipo ayesa! Ndipo zomwe zimatchedwa "mavidiyo" patsogolo panu zimabweretsa zokondweretsa ...
Chinsinsi chanu. Chidziwitso cha mkango weniweni, yemwe ali kale ndi mawu okhudza kuti munthu kulikonse ndi chirichonse ayenera kukhala woyamba!
Chiphunzitso china . Uwu ndiwo malo omwe amavomereza kuti "mkazi + wokondeka": mkazi amadzimvera yekha ndikuyesera kukopa mwamuna ndi chiwerewere, ndipo iye amalandira chithandizo cha kugonana monga "wokha".
«Mphaka pamtengo»
Malingana ndi kugonana kwa amuna, kugonana pa malo oimirira kumakhala ndi vuto lovulazidwa ndipo kumafuna kuphunzitsidwa bwino. Koma ngakhale zili choncho, amakhala ndi malo olemekezeka achinayi.
Icho chiri chinsinsi . Ambiri mwa oimira za kugonana amphamvu amakumbukira izi: ndizovomerezeka kwambiri pazochita zademokrasi: zosakwera komanso zofulumira. Choncho ngati munthu akupitiriza kunena "kukonda", muyenera kulingalira: pa msinkhu wake wapamwamba amakuuzani kuti ubale wanu suli woopsa ndipo ukhoza kutha msanga.
Chinsinsi chanu . Nthawi zonse zimakhala zosangalatsa kumva chisomo chanu m'manja mwamphamvu a mzimayi wapamtima Wopambana. Mwachidziwitso amayamba zomwe angateteze ku zovuta zonse za moyo. Pano pali kusiyana kwachisokonezo cha kugonana pakati pa kugonana ndi maganizo!
Chiphunzitso china . Kutaya, ndithudi, ndibwino, koma musaiwale kuti katsamba kalikonse kamene kali kofewa kamakhala ndi ziboda zake ndipo sikuthamangira kwa wina aliyense!
«Mastiffs»
Akatswiri amachitcha kuti "knee-elbow" mwamphamvu, koma misala yake imatchedwa "galu-ngati." Mphuno yochuluka kwambiri: ndiyo yeniyeni mdziko. Ndipo pano kuvomereza kwa wokondedwayo kulibe tanthauzo lapadera, chinthu chachikulu ndikumusunga mwamphamvu "ndi scruff". Mudziko la anthu, anthu ena amagwiranso ntchitoyi.
Chinsinsi chake ndi "kuwerenga" kwa anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi - wokondedwayo ndi wochepetsedwa kwambiri. Inde, komanso za khalidwe la kugonana sichiyenera kudandaula - maso ake sawonekera konse!
Chinsinsi chanu. Zodziwikiratu kuti izi zikutanthauza kusadziwika kwa kukhudzana, choncho zimamuthandiza mkazi kuti adzimasule yekha ndikuyika maganizo ake. Kuwonjezera apo, ulamuliro waukulu wa amuna umapereka kugonana ndichinyengo chapadera.
Chiphunzitso china . Kawirikawiri izi ndizofala kwambiri pa nkhani yogwiririra. Zambirizi zikugwiritsidwa ntchito pa milandu imene wogwiririra sali ogonana, monga chochititsa manyazi cha wogwidwayo.
"Makina a Camasutrene"
Ziribe kanthu kuti zimadabwitsa bwanji, anthu ogonana a popsychology amagwira ntchito yonse "Kamasutra" ngati imodzi yokha, yomwe siidali yovuta kwambiri. Mankhwalawa ndi abwino mkati, njira ndi nyumba, ndipo malingaliro ndizolemba. Koma osati katswiri aliyense, komanso amatsenga anganene mosapita m'mbali kuti mwachikondi, chilakolako ndi kudzipereka zimayenera kutenga malo amodzi.
Chinsinsi chake: Chilakolako cha munthu chofuna kubwereranso nthawi zonse ndi chophweka: amayesera kuchotsa zina mwazovuta zake.
Pankhaniyi, kugonana ndi "luso," ndipo ndinu "chida cha dzanja." M'mawu, ndiwe wopanda pake komanso wopanda pake.
Chinsinsi chanu . Khalani okondwa ndi kukonzekera kwanu ndi kukoma kwake, ndipo ngakhale pokhapokha, musaganizire pagalasi? Ndikhulupirire, si chikondi konse!
Chidziwitso chachikondi ichi chiyenera kusokoneza moyo wathanzi, komatu musakhale chizoloŵezi chokhazikika.
Chilakolako cha lotus
Chimodzi mwa malo osamvetsetseka kwambiri: Mayi akukhala maso ndi maso ndi mzake. Kusasunthika pang'ono kwa chiuno, koma kupsompsonana kwakukulu ndi kukumbatirana. Sizomwe zimakhala zosavuta kwenikweni, koma ndi maganizo omwe amachititsa chidwi.
Chinsinsi chanu chogawana. Mwachiwonekere muli mwayi kuti mupeze mgwirizano umodzi wodziwika ndikusintha.
Kumayambiriro a Kummawa, malowa anali oti "okwatirana okondedwa omwe anali ofanana mu maphunziro, kukongola ndi mzimu."