Lamulo lalikulu, ndithudi, ndi kumasulidwa kwa abwenzi onse pa nthawi yogonana pabedi. Ndipo panopa sizilibe kanthu kuti chirichonse chimene chili pabedi chidzakhala ndi tanthauzo lina kapena ayi, chifukwa kuti kuvomereza zochita za wokondedwa kapena kufotokoza malingaliro awo ndikwanira kugwiritsa ntchito mawu amfupi kapena mawu, mwachitsanzo, "zambiri", " mmm ... "," inde! ". Muzinthu zoterezi, simungamve bwino kokha chilakolako cha kugonana, komanso chikondi kwa wokondedwa, chisangalalo ndi kuleza mtima kuchokera kumtima wake.
Kenaka, mwina mukufunika kukambirana momveka bwino chifukwa chake "chiyankhulo" pa kama. Zifukwa zokhutira zomwe abwenzi angakhoze kulandira akamva panthawi yogonana zimasiyidwa kale. Moyo wovuta umakakamiza anthu pamenepo kuti asamangopereka chisamaliro chapadera pachisokonezo pa nthawi yogonana. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, anthu ankakhalapo pa mfundo imodzi ndi yaikulu: anabwera-saw-won. Iwo sankaganiza za zomwe anganene pa kama, iwo sanali chabe kwa izo. Ndipo ndi chifukwa chake amuna pa nthawi yogonana sangathe kudziletsa okha ku mawu amphamvu, omwe amalankhula molimba mtima komanso mwachidwi, ndipo akhoza kukhala okondweretsa mkazi. N'zotheka kuti onse awiri ophatikizana ndi lexicon amachititsa kuti chilakolako chogonana chikule kwambiri, kotero kuyankhula pabedi ndi zomwe mumawakonda onse awiri.
Ndipo tsopano, muyenera kukumbukira kudandaula ndikufuula panthawi yogonana. Pankhaniyi, kuyankhidwa kokwanira kwa anansi ndikwanira. Muzinthu zina zonse, abwenziwo adzatha kuchita chirichonse. Mwa njira, sikofunikira kuti panthawi yogonana, kubuula kunamveka kokha ndi mnzanuyo, pamene wokondedwayo, atagwira milomo yake molimbika, angakhale chete, monga azimayi akufunsana. Palibe amodzi omwe akufunika kuti azidziletsa okha. Onse awiri mkazi ndi mwamuna akhoza kuchita chilichonse chimene akufuna kuchita pabedi, kutanthauza kulira ndi kuseka kapena kungokhala chete. Zindikirani kuti pa nthawi yogonana, osati ndi wokondedwa wanu, muyenera kumamuuza zakufuna kwanu. Apo ayi, mungathe kumuopseza. Ndipo, mwinamwake, kudzakhala chikondi cha moyo ndi wokondedwa wanu? Ndipo khalidwe lanu limangopseza chimwemwe chenicheni?
Ndi funso lina lovuta lomwe limakhudza ngati mungathe kudziwa zofuna zanu za kugonana, pogwiritsa ntchito mawu ndi mawu pa izi, mwachitsanzo, "Ndikukufunani pakali pano!". Choncho, kuyankhula pabedi mawu amenewa sangathe kokha, komanso amafunikira. Komabe, nkofunikira kuchita izi, ndithudi, osati tsiku loyamba msonkhano utatha. Koma nthawi zina mungathe kufunsa, ngati mukufunadi.
Amuna sayenera kuiwala kuti funso lawo lofunikila "kodi ndinu oyenera?" Akuyenera kukhala a iwo ngati taboo kamodzi. Mnyamata ayenera kudziyesa yekha ngati mtsikanayo wokhutira naye pabedi. Pano pali mkazi, mwachitsanzo, akhoza kumvetsa popanda mawu omwe atchulidwa, ngati wokondedwayo amamukonda pabedi, komanso ngati amamukonda. Choncho, amuna ayenera kuyesetsa kwambiri!