1. "Zikomo, wokondedwa, kuti mukufuna kundithandiza kuti ndisambe, koma ndikuchita mofulumira kuposa iwe ..."
Mzimayi amene amagwira ntchito ku fakitale kapena malo ovuta amalephera kuyeretsa nyumbayo. Iyi ndi bizinesi yowopsya, kuyesetsa kuchita zonse mwamsanga, si nzeru kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zake. Sikoyenera kukana thandizo la munthu pamene akufuna kukuthandizani, makamaka osakayikira kuti angathe kuchita mwamsanga .. Dr. Casey akuti tsikuli linali lalitali kwa onse awiri. Koma munthu akhoza kuganiza kuti sakukugwirizana ndi njira ina, ndipo kukana kwanu sikumuuza. Ndi bwino kumupatsa chinachake kuchokera kumapangidwe anu otanganidwa, musayimire pa moyo wake, ndipo mugwiritse ntchito nthawi yaulere yokonza chakudya chamadzulo. Koma onetsetsani kuti muthokoze munthu wanu chifukwa chofuna kukuthandizani.
2. "Ndine wosavuta, kuti mutha kukonza phokoso lopumphuka."
Sitikuwonetseratu kudodometsa kwanu pamene adatha kuchita chinachake kwa nyumba popanda kuthandizidwa ndi katswiri woitanidwa.Dokotala Casey akunena kuti kudabwa kwako kudzakuvutitsani kwambiri. Amuna safuna kuti akazi awo azikayikira amuna awo "kusinthasintha." Iwo adzasangalala kumva: "Iwe uli ndi wokongola ndi wanzeru, ndi jack wa malonda onse. Ndikuwona kuti ndine wokwatiwa kwambiri. "Zotamanda zanu zaumunthu wodalirika zidzasonyeza kuti samangokhala pabedi kwa inu.
3. "Ndiwe ndekha amene ndingalankhule naye."
Mwamuna safuna kukhala munthu mmodzi bwenzi lako, mayi wanga istra. Musamamuvutitse ndi zovuta zowopsya kwambiri: "Kukhala yekha chithandizo kwa inu ndikovuta kwambiri kwa iye," anatero katswiri wa chikwati chovomerezeka ndi dokotala wa banja KarinGoldstein. Kuti mukhale ndi mphamvu yaikulu, sikokwanira kuti anene kuti ndiwe munthu amene mumawakonda. Yesetsani kumutsimikizira kuti ngakhale mutakhala ndi mwayi wolankhula ndi amayi anu ndi abwenzi nthawi iliyonse, ndiye womvetsera bwino kwambiri. Ndizosangalatsa kulankhula naye. Chikhumbo chake chokhala chothandiza kusewera pamodzi ndi mawu anu, kuti mumayamikira maganizo ake.
4. "Mphatso iyi siinali m'kamwa kwanga, koma ndipeza ntchito yake."
Muthokozeni chifukwa cha kusamalira. Koma musayese kumuuza iye ngakhale kwa amayi ake mphatso yake yotsiriza - mkanda womwe wasankha kuti Dyusyasvyatat Valentine. Mwamuna amangophulika ndi kunena kuti sakudziwa kukwera. "Icho chidzagwidwa pamaso," akutero Goldstein. "Sadzayesa kukupatsani nthawi ina iliyonse." Zindikirani kukoma mtima kwa mwamuna wanu ndipo nthawi zina amavala chopereka chake. Pambuyo pachidziwitso chotsatira, musabweretse sitolo zomwe mukufuna kuti muzilandile.
5. "Ndimakonda mimba yanu ndi vyalyemuskuly."
Koma ngati mwamunayo dzulo atamva kukhudzika kwanu kwa makina a makina a Ryan Gosling, iye amangosakaniza mukumverera ndipo sakudziwa, kuti atsimikizire. Dr. Brochet akukupemphani kuti muwuze mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu kuti iye ndi woyanjana naye bwino komanso bambo wachikondi wa ana, ndipo kuti ndi iye palibe kuyerekezera "kumangirira" ndi minofu yayikulu, yodalira yekha. Izi zidzamulola iye kumvetsa zomwe ziri zofunika kwambiri kwa inu, kuti zikugwirizana ndi zokonda zanu.
6. "Ndiwe wabwino kwambiri ..."
Mwamuna amakhala ndi inu pabedi, koma sakufuna kudziwa za anzanu omwe mudali nawo kale. Mwadzidzidzi kumbukirani anyamata onsewa ndi kuyamba kufanizitsa. Kuti adziwonetsere bwino paokha, agwirizane ndi zochitika zokhudzana ndi kugonana, kuyanjana ndi iye. Dr. Broch akukulimbikitsani kunena kuti mumakondwera pamene akumva bwino. Kugogomezera mu ubale kumapangidwira kwa wokondedwayo, osati poyerekezera ndi ena.