Chodabwitsa kwambiri, koma, malinga ndi zotsatira za zisankho, kwenikweni anthu onse amanena kuti "malingaliro" ndi omwe amuna amayamikira kwambiri mwazimayi.
Koma, ndi anthu ochuluka bwanji omwe anali oona mu mayankho awo. Malingana ndi zochitika za mndandanda wotchuka wa pa TV, khalidwe lalikulu ndi mtsikana yemwe analibe deta yapadera, koma anali wanzeru kwambiri. Zodabwitsa, ngakhale chifukwa cha malingaliro ake, iye sanakumanepo ndi chikondi chake, ndipo makamu ambiri a mafanizi sankagwirizana nawo. Koma, maonekedwe ake atangomangidwa - apa ndizo, chisangalalo chachikazi - chidwi cha amuna.Kodi mtsikana wanzeru amatanthauza chiyani kwa amuna? Mwinamwake iye akhoza kumvetsera ndi kumvetsa izo mwakachetechete? Wokoma - ndiye kukhululuka, pamene kuli kofunikira? Kawirikawiri mumatha kumva momwe abambo amanenera kuti mtsikana angathe kuonedwa kuti ndi wanzeru ngati amalola munthu kumverera bwino.
Izi zikutsatila kuti amuna amamvetsetsa kwambiri mwazimayi kukhala ndi nzeru kuposa iye.
Nanga bwanji maonekedwe. Ndipotu, amuna sali osangalatsa monga momwe timaganizira. Nthawi zambiri, atsikana okongola amasiyidwa okha, ndipo chifukwa chakuti kukongola kwawo kumawopsya amuna. Funsani chifukwa chiyani? Mkazi wokongola amafunika kusamalidwa bwino. Tsoka ilo, sikuti munthu aliyense ali ndi chidaliro pa luso lake.
Amuna ambiri amayamikira kudzidalira kwa amayi. Maso ake, mukhoza kuwerenga kuti: "Ndine wokongola, wangwiro komanso wodzidalira." Kwa mkazi wotero, amuna amatengeka ngati maginito.
Mundikhulupirire ine, atsikana, amuna samalipira pang'ono. Mu funso la chifaniziro, kwa iwo chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukhala ndi kuchuluka. Mwachidule, chiwerengero chanu chiyenera kukhala chimodzimodzi ngati kapu.
Ndipo zonse zomwe zimagwirizana ndi mfundo yakuti ndizofunika kukhala ndi machitidwe okhwima kuti zikhale ndi maonekedwe oyambirira ndi kuyamba kuyambanso amuna ndizoyenda bwino pamakampani okongola.
Amuna achichepere osachepera onse amazindikira mwa mkazi makhalidwe monga ubwino, chisamaliro ndi chifundo. Amuna amakonda utoto. Ngakhale, munthu wachikulire akukhala, ali ndi chiwawa kwambiri amayamba kuyang'ana mabwenzi okoma mtima, achikondi ndi ofatsa m'miyoyo yawo.
Ndikoyenera kufotokoza kuti muyenera kusamala za izo.
Komanso, ambiri mwa anthu amamvetsetsa mkazi yemwe ali ndi chisangalalo. Chomwe chingakhale chokongola kwambiri kwa munthu kusiyana ndi chiyanjano ndi mkazi wokondwa yemwe ali ndi chiyembekezo cha moyo ndi moyo uliwonse adzabwera ndi kumwetulira pa nkhope yake.
Ndipo, ndithudi, ndikofunikira kwa munthu kuti umaseke nthabwala zake.
Amuna amaona kukhulupirika. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, akudikirira mayankho olondola a mafunso ovuta kwambiri, atalandira mayankho omwe angakhumudwe nawo.
Kotero, asungwana okondedwa, musati muziyika zinsinsi zanu zonse, ngakhale munthu wanu atakufunsani inu za misozi pamaso pake.
Kwa amuna, nkofunikira kwambiri kuti mkazi adzikonzekere bwino. Koma samakonda kwenikweni asungwana omwe sadziwa kuti ali ndi chiwerengero chotani.
Amuna amayamikira atsikana omwe amatsogolera moyo wabwino: osasuta, osamwa, osalumbira mawu. Ngakhale, iwo okha akhoza ndipo amalakwitsa. Koma, ichi ndi maganizo okha a anthu.
Ndi kovuta kufotokoza momveka bwino funso lomwe amuna amalikonda kwambiri mwa amayi, chifukwa kwa munthu aliyense fano la mkazi wabwino ndi losiyana. Chifukwa chake, amai amatha kulangizidwa kuti adzikonda okha, akhulupirire kuti sakuwoneka, amakopeka komanso ali ndi mphamvu.
Mwamsanga mutangokhulupirira kuti ndiwe mkazi amene analengedwa kuti ayamikiridwe. Simudzakhala ndi nthawi yoyang'ana mmbuyo, monga momwe mudzakhalira mfumukazi ya mitima ya anthu.