Mmene mungapezere chimwemwe m'moyo wanu
1. Chisokero chosangalatsa chingasinthe munthu. Zimakondweretsa bwanji mwamuna kuona mkazi wake akusangalala ndi kumwetulira. Kaŵirikaŵiri amapatsa mwamuna kumwetulira kwake.
2. Khalani chithandizo kwa mwamuna wanu kuti asakayike kukhulupirika kwanu ndi kudzipereka kwanu kwa iye. Tithandizane wina ndi mnzake mu zovuta, chifukwa ndinu amodzi, ndinu banja.
3. Mkazi ayenera kukhala wofooka kusiyana ndi mwamuna wake, musamenyane ndi mphamvu m'nyumba. Perekani kwa mwamuna wanu, khalani anzeru, ndipo mnzanuyo amve ngati mbuye m'nyumba komanso mwamuna weniweni. Mudzapindula ndi izi.
4. Musatenge nsalu zodula m'nyumba. Phunzirani kuthetsa mavuto anu ndi mabanja anu ndi banja lanu. Poyamba kukangana, musathamange ndi sutikiti kwa makolo anu, ingozisamalira makolo anu. Kwa inu nokha, sankhanipo kamodzi kokha, ngati sutikesi ikusonkhanitsidwa, ndiye ichi ndi chisankho chomaliza. Musakweze mau anu kwa mwamuna wanu, makamaka pamaso pa ana, musalole kuti mwamuna wanu akufuule. Ngati muli ndi mkangano, khalani pansi, ganizirani ndi kuyankhula. Izi zidzakhala njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera banja. Pambuyo pake, kaŵirikaŵiri malangizo a bwenzi losakwatiwa a Natasha kapena mnzako Klavdia Petrovna adzakuchitirani "disservice". Sungani zikhulupiliro za banja lanu ndi zinsinsi.
5. Musayese kusintha mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu. Pezani mmenemo zinthu zabwino zokhazokha, ndipo ndi zolakwika za khalidwe yesetsani kugwirizanitsa kapena kuphunzira kuti musamalire.
6. Musamamangirire mwamuna wanu, musayambe kukangana, ngakhale mukulondola. Ndi bwino kupatukira ndikugonjera, ndikukambirana naye momasuka. N'zosatheka kuti mukwaniritse ndi zifukwa zanu komanso kulira kwanu. Ndipo ngati mumayendetsa mwamunayo mwachikondi, mumakhala ndi asterisk kuchokera kumwamba.
7. Musamudziyereze mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu ndi amuna ena, musamuyese aliyense ngati chitsanzo. Iye ndi munthu wanu, wodabwitsa kwambiri, wabwino komanso wabwino kwambiri. Lolani anthu awiri kudziwa za izi, inu ndi iye.
8. Chimwemwe cha banja chanu chiyenera kukhazikitsidwa pa kudalira. Pamene pali chikhulupiliro, palibe nsanje. Nthawi zina mungasonyeze nsanje pang'ono, kuti munthu asamveke kuti simukugwirizana ndi komwe kulankhulana kumachitika ndi amene amamuuza. Musayambe kumenyana ndi abambo pamene mwamuna wanu amawona kukongola kochepa.
9. Pitirizani kuyimitsa. Kuti mupambane, muyenera kukumbukira nthawi zonse kuti ndinu mkazi ndipo muyenera kukhala wokongola kwambiri. Mwamunayo akuwone iwe nthawizonse wokongola, wonyezimira, onunkhira, wovekedwa bwino. Ponena za chisangalalo ndi kumwetulira kumene tanena kale.
10. Thokozani ndikutamanda munthu wanu. Ndiye adzafuna kukuchitirani zambiri. Inu mukhoza kukhulupirira, koma kuyamikira nthawi zina kumagwira ntchito zodabwitsa. Chiyamiko chidzakulitsa makhalidwe ake ndipo adzachitapo kanthu pamtendere.
11. Mu moyo ndikofunika kuyang'ana njira imodzi osati kutsutsana. Mukakwatirana, muyenera kuwona ngati ndinu woyenera wina ndi mzake? Muyenera kukhala ndi nkhani zofanana ndi zokambirana ndi zokonda. Khalani ndi chidwi ndi zomwe mumakonda ndi zomwe mwamuna wanu amakonda. Mkazi wina anakwatiwa, zikuwoneka kuti anali wosangalala kwambiri, koma mwamuna wake anali ndi malingaliro osiyana pa moyo. Ankafuna kupita ku mafilimu ndikuyenda zambiri, ankakonda kusewera masewera a pakompyuta komanso kukhala kunyumba. Tsopano iye akuyenda kwambiri mu dziko, nthawi zambiri amapita ku cinema, mkazi wina yekha amamutsagana. Ndipo pali nkhani zambiri zoterezi.
12. Ngati mwamuna wanu akukukhumudwitsani ndi mawu, tsopano osati m'malingaliro, yesetsani kumumvetsa. Mwinanso amatha kutopa, ali ndi thanzi labwino kapena ali ndi mavuto pantchito. Choipa kwambiri kwa mwamuna chimakhudza mavuto osauka a zachuma m'banja. Ndipo ngati izi zili choncho m'banja, muyenera kumvetsetsa ndi kumuthandiza mnjira iliyonse. Kupirira kwanu kudzabwezeretsanso kambirimbiri.
13. Wokondwa kukumana ndi mwamuna wako kuntchito kuti adziwe kuti akumuyembekezera ndikumuphonya. Makamaka ngati nthawi zambiri amayenera kukhala kuntchito ndikupita ku bizinesi.
14. Mkazi ndi munthu. Kuwonjezera pa banja ndi moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, muyenera kupeza zosangalatsa ndi ntchito yomwe mumaikonda, pindani bwino. Ndipo wokondedwa wanu adzakondwera chifukwa cha inu, ndikuthandizani.
15. Mu mphamvu yanu kuti chikondi chanu pazaka zambiri chisefuke ndikuwonjezeka. Sungani ubale wanu, muwatsitsimutse ndi mtima wabwino komanso wachikondi. Lolani kuti nyumba yanu isasiye chikondi cha misonkhano yoyamba komanso ngakhale zaka 20 za moyo wanu pamodzi. Konzani zozizwitsa zachikondi, kuyenda nthawi zonse pamodzi, kupita pachikhalidwe, kupita ku cinema. Nthawi zoterezi zimapereka mphamvu zambiri kuti zitheke bwino, kuchotsani kukangana tsiku ndi tsiku ndi kukangana.
Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani kuti mupeze chimwemwe pamoyo wanu? Yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito malangizowo pochita, ndipo mwinamwake iwo angathandize kupeza chimwemwe ndi kukhazikitsa mtendere ndi mtendere m'banja. Tikukhumba iwe, kuti m'banja mwako nthawi zambiri munali chikondi, kumvetsetsa, ulemu. Chimwemwe kwa inu m'moyo wanu!