"Zikutha ngati ngalawa m'nyanja"
Njira imeneyi ikuphatikizapo kusokoneza chitukuko chakumenyana mwa kuchotsa maphwando kapena kupatukana magulu otsutsana mothandizidwa ndi akunja. Mwachitsanzo, kumvetsetsa kwakonzeka kukamenyana ndi anthu kapena kusudzulana.
Poyamba, kuthetsa kusagwirizana kotereku kumakhala kovuta, chifukwa kumatha kuthetsa mkangano mwamsanga. Komanso, izi zidzatsogolera ku kupititsa patsogolo kosalephereka kwa mkangano, womwe ukhoza kutulukanso pambuyo pa mwayi woyamba. Choncho, anthu omwe ali okonzeka kumenyana amalingalira njira zoyenera kulanga ozunza awo m'tsogolomu kapena patapita nthawi, ndipo mwamuna ndi mkazi wake, ngakhale atatha kusudzulana, nthawi zina amafunika kukomana ngati akugwirizana ndi ana wamba. Ndipo ngati iwo adasiyanitsa osakhala achifundo, ndiye kuti misonkhano siidzawabweretsera chisangalalo chapadera.
Mtendere, ubale, kutafuna chingamu
Zotsatira zamtendere za mkangano zikutanthauza kutenga chisankho chomwe chimaganizira zofuna za magulu awiri otsutsana pokhudzana ndi zotsatira zabwino kapena zofanana.
Chiyambi chakumenyana kulikonse ndikumasulira mawu, ndipo ngati mbali iliyonse singathe kutsimikizira mdani wake, ndiye kuti izi zikuwongolera kuwonjezereka kwa mkangano, mwachitsanzo, kumenyana. Choncho, kukambirana ndi njira yodalirika yothetsera mavuto a kumvetsetsa pakati pa anthu ndi mayiko. Chifukwa cha zokambiranazo, kuthetsa kwa mikangano yomwe yakhala ikuwonekera ikuwoneka njira yothandiza kwambiri, yomwe siimachedwa mochedwa kupita.
The Justice of the Peace
Mapeto otsutsana angaphatikizepo gawo lachitatu, momwe woweruza, akulu kapena phwando losakondwera angachitepo, kuthetsa mikangano yomwe yakhala ikuchitika. Nthawi zina, kugwiritsira ntchito mphamvu yachitatu kungabwere kuchokera kumbali yotsutsana ndi cholinga cha kuthandizira mphamvu zawo ndi kukakamizidwa kwa otsutsana.
Nkhondo
Kukonzekera kwa mikangano mwa kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu ndizosavuta komanso zotsatira zake zimakhala zosayembekezereka, koma sichidziwikiratu okha.
Ndiponsotu, ngati zikukhudza gulu la anthu omwe amatsutsana, ndiye kuti izi zidzathera pomenyana, ndipo ngati mkangano uli pamtunda, ndiye kuti njira yothetsera vutoli ikugwiritsiridwa ntchito kwa zida za mayiko awiriwa ndi zotsatira za zochita zoterezi.
Nthawi yabwino yothetsera mikanganoyi ndi imodzi yokha - iyi ndi mapeto a nkhondo pano ndi tsopano. Koma izi ndizomwe zili pamphepete mwa nyanja, ndipo sizikuwoneka kuti mbali yotsalira idzavomereza mbali ya "mbali yolakwika". Wopweteka yemwe sanathe kumangokhalira kukangana sakanaleka kuyesetsa kukwaniritsa kudzikuza kwake ndipo kuyesa kubwezeretsa malo ake otayika sikungatheke kuchoka. Chotsatira chotsatira cha njira iyi yothetsera kusamvana, monga lamulo, siwothandiza kwambiri ndipo idzabweretsa mavuto ambiri ku mbali yopambana ndipo idzafuna mphamvu ndi chuma kuti zikhale zogwirizana m'tsogolo.
Kulimbana ndi munthu wina
Njira yowonongeka yothetsera kusamvana kwa wina wa maphwando kuti athandizidwe ndi mphamvu yachitatu sizodziwika bwino pakati pa anthu, popeza nthawi zonse zimatanthauza kuswa lamulo. Koma, komabe, chodabwitsa ichi chiripo. Mwachitsanzo, chipani chotsutsanacho chikhoza kufunafuna thandizo kwa anthu ophwanya malamulo kuti athetse mdaniyo.
Themis
Kusanthula kwa mikangano ndi kuthandizidwa ndi a milandu kuli ndi mfundo zabwino komanso zolakwika. Nkhondo yomwe yawuka idzathetsedwa mogwirizana ndi lamulo lovomerezeka. Komabe, izi sizikutanthawuza nthawizonse chisankho cholondola chovomerezeka kwa mmodzi wa maphwando. Popeza palibe malamulo omwe alipo amatha kufotokoza mbali zonse za maubwenzi aumunthu mwachidule. Njira zowonongeka zosavomerezeka zimakhala zogwirizana ndi luso la alangizi a maphwando ndi maganizo a anthu.
Khoti Lalikulu. Njira yothetsera mkanganoyo imayikidwa mwa njira iyi kwa munthu wina, yemwe ali ndi maganizo omwe adzatsatiridwa ndi kuvomerezedwa ndi mbali zonsezo. Pa udindo wa mkangano, munthu kapena gulu la anthu akhoza kuchita.
Nkhondo iliyonse imathera posachedwa. Koma chigonjetso mu mkangano, komanso kugonjetsedwa, sizomwe zimakhala zotsatira zokha.
Kugonjetsedwa komodzi.
N'chilendo kwa mbali imodzi yotsutsana, pozindikira kuti n'zosatheka kuti zinthu ziwayendere bwino, zimayesa "kuumitsa" otsutsa pamaso pa anthu kapena kuchita zinthu zina zovulaza mwachindunji kapena mwachindunji.
Kuyanjana.
Zotsatira za vutoli zimatanthauza kukwaniritsidwa kwathunthu. Maphwando amayesera kubwera ku lingaliro, zotsatira zake sizikuphwanya ufulu ndi udindo wa mbali iliyonse yotsutsana.