Chifukwa chiyanjano chimang'ambika. Zifukwa zikuluzikulu ndi kuperekedwa kwa wina ndi mnzake. Inde, ngati titasintha, ndiye, kupatula kulakwa kwakukulu, tikuzunzidwa ndi mantha oti sitigwidwe. Koma ngati wokondedwayo asintha, ndiye izi zimatchedwa kutonkhanira komanso pamodzi ndi lingaliro la ulemu, zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zosiyana. Kodi n'zotheka kuti pakhale mpumulo chifukwa chotsutsana ndi kubwezeretsa chikondi. Kuti, ngati chinachake kapena winawake akukukakamizani kuti mupereke. Zingatheke bwanji - nthawi zambiri ndizosakondweretsa kugonana.
Ambiri a abwenzi anga, sankhani chikondi pambali pa mfundo - ndi mwamuna wanga ndine womasuka, koma ndikugonana m'njira iliyonse. Mwachibadwa, chinsinsi chonse chimaonekera bwino, koma kupatula kuti chidzasintha moyo wanu, chidzatha kuthetsa ubale ndi mnzanuyo. Inde, nthawi zonse pali yankho limodzi kwa iye - ndiye kuti amadziimba mlandu yekha. Inde, tikhoza kuyesa, kugonana komweko kumabweretsa chisangalalo kwa aliyense, koma sakanatero. Zikatero, kuti mupitirize kukondana kumangotanthauza kuti munthu amene mumakonda kubwerera kapena wopanda mfundo, kapena amakukondani kwambiri, kapena kuti iyeyo ali ndi inu, nayenso, ali omasuka.
Ngati chifukwa cha kupumula chinali kuperekedwa kwa wokondedwa. Eya, chikhalidwe cha kugonana kwa amuna sichigwirizana ndi maso a akazi. Kuti mudziwe ngati n'zotheka kubwezeretsa chiyanjano, choyamba ganizirani za chiwonetsero chanu. Kapena kodi ndizogonana, monga amuna nthawi zambiri zimachitika - kumwa, kumasuka, kukhutira. Kapena kuwonetsera komweko kwa moyo ndi kukhalapo kwa mbuye wamba. Ngati, mwachinyengo, adakwaniritsa zosoŵa zake, ndipo mwina iye mwini adavomereza kapena iwe unauzidwa ndi "abwenzi", ndipo mwamsanga munadzudzula chitseko. Kenaka kumbukirani nthawi zonse ponena kuti palibe munthu padziko lapansi amene kamodzi kamodzi pa moyo sangagone naye kumbali. Kodi mukudziwa ngati mukuganiza kapena simukufuna kukhulupirira chinachake, ndikukuuzani molunjika - ichi ndikumadzutsa. Kokha, izo kwa ife ndi iwe, dona wamakono kale.
Ngati, mwinamwake, mkazi wina amafuna kukhala zinyalala kwa maola awiri, ndipo iye sanaganize. Kodi sakukukondani kwambiri, sindikuganiza choncho. Adangobwereka kufooka kwa thupi ndipo izi sizomwe zikuyenera kudziwa, muyenera kukhala pamwamba pake. Zomwe mungachite pamene wosankhidwa wanu ali ndi ambuye. Choyamba, tidzakumbukira zomwe simunamupatse. Ponena za kugonana, tikufuna ndi kukhudzika ndi chikondi, dzulo chabe tinkafuna kuti tichite pabedi, ndipo lero tikuyembekezera nthawi yomwe imadzutsa patebulo. Kodi anali nazo zonsezi? Chabwino, ndiye tiyeni tipite patsogolo.
Amuna, ali ngati ana, amakonda kuti amvetse chisoni. Poyankhula, madzulo iwo akufuna kuti awone amayi awo mwa inu. Kodi mumamusamalira? Mkulu. Tsopano tiyeni tione ulemu wathu, zoumba zathu ndikuziyerekezera ndi mbuye wake. Ndiye ife timangodziwa ngati ziri bwino kwa inu kapena moyipa. Ngati zili bwino, poyamba, tikudziwa komwe tikufuna, ndipo kachiwiri, n'chifukwa chiyani timachotsa chipewa chathu ndikuti "Ndikukhumba iwe chimwemwe". Ngati mbuyeyo akukuipirani - ingosankhira zomwe mumakonda, monga ena adayendera. Nchiyani chomwe chiripo kuti udzizunzire wekha, mwayi kwa iye pa njira yake, koma ife tikupita patsogolo ndi inu, ndipo ubale uwu susowa kuti ukhale watsopano.
Njira yachiwiri yothetsera ubale ndikuti anthu samamvetsetsana. Izi zimachitika kuti, popanda iye sangakhoze kuchita, koma ndi iye pachabe mwa njira iliyonse. Zimene muyenera kuchita mutatha. Zikatero, n'zotheka kuyambiranso kugonana, koma chifukwa cha izi, kupatulapo mawu akuti "Ndikufuna kukhala ndi inu, wokondedwa wanga", ndiyenera kunena mwamsanga kuti "Ndiyesera kukumvetsani." Kumvetsetsa ndi kuyesetsa wina ndi mzake ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri mu chiyanjano. Ndondomeko yomanga kumvetsetsa mu ubale ndikumakumbukira za kuwonongedwa kwa Wall Berlin. Chododometsa, sichoncho. Zambiri, ngati sizinanso, munthu ayenera kulankhula ndi kufunafuna zotsutsana, monga momwe wina ayenera kumvetsera mfundozo ndikuphunzira kupirira. Koma mukhoza kuyambiranso ubale wanu.
Ndipotu, sitinaganizire zochitika zonsezi, komatu pamapeto pake, pali chimodzi chokha - Ngati mumakonda, mumadziwa komanso mungakhululukire, ngati muli okonzeka kupereka chirichonse osapempha chilichonse m'malo mwake - mukhoza kubwezeretsana, kubwereranso chikondi chanu chakale, zonsezi ndizotheka.