Ena amanena kuti simuyenera kuphedwa ndikuwonongeka nthawi pachabe kwa munthu amene samayesetsa kuti akhale ndi inu, koma inu mwachikhulupiliro mukukhulupirira kuti palibe wina wabwino padziko lapansi, ndipo moyo wosakhalapo ndi chongopitilira ... Ndikufuna kufuula za chisoni changa chosatha dziko lonse ... Koma, monga akunena, palibe zochitika popanda kuchoka, mwachangu, mwina sakugwirizana ndi inu, kapena simukufuna kuyanjanitsa ndi iye, komabe iye ali. Ndiye momwe mungapiririre chikondi chosagonjetsedwa?
Choyamba, poyamba simukufuna kukhulupirira kuti mnyamatayu alibe chidziwitso chokhazikika kwa inu, mumadzipangitsa tsiku ndi tsiku kuti akuwopa kuti asonyeze malingaliro ake, kapena kuti sanamvetsebe kuti akukondana nanu . Mukuyamba kuyang'ana chifukwa mwa inu nokha ... STOP! NGATI! Mukudziwa, ndizosatheka kupanga chikondi! Kudzinyenga nokha, simungawathandize aliyense, ndipo poyamba. Lekani, ganizirani, ngati zonsezi ziri zoyenera khama lomwe mukuliyika, kuti mukwaniritse cholinga chosadziwika kwa inu. Ndipo yankhani nokha funso, kodi mukufunikira izi? Choyamba, iye si munthu mmodzi pa dziko lapansi, ndipo kachiwiri, aloleni kuti aganize kuti ndi langwiro, koma ali ndi zolakwa zambiri, zomwe mumadzidzimangira bwino, inde, dzivomerezeni nokha, simukufuna kuziwona, , ndipo chofunika kwambiri, kodi mukutsimikiza kuti chikondi ndi ichi?
Choyamba, yang'anani wosankhidwa wanu ndi munthu wosakhudzidwa. Njira yosavuta yochitira izi: kutenga pepala ndi kulemba mndandanda wa makhalidwe abwino ndi oipa a wokonda, koma popanda maganizo, kuwaponya kwa kanthawi. Khalani wotsutsa mwamphamvu kwa iye! Inde, n'zotheka kuti zinthu zabwino zidzakhala zoipa kwambiri. Ngati izi zichitika, ndiye kuti mwagwiritsa ntchito malingaliro anu? Munthu woyenera kulibe. Pozindikira izi, mumangoyang'ana ngati munthu wamba, ndi zofooka zake ndi zofooka zake, osati maso omwe mwakhala mukumuwerengera kwa nthawi yayitali. Koma ngati mulibe zifukwa izi zokwanira, tidzatha kumvetsa momwe tingagwirire ndi chikondi chimodzimodzi.
Muyenera kuchepetsa mwayi wa misonkhano yanu, ngakhale mwachisawawa. Musamuyitane kapena ayi, lekani kukambirana ndi anzanu, koma ingosiya kuganizira za iye. Tayang'anitsitsa, mwadzidzidzi munthu wakuyimilira pafupi ndi iwe akufunikira chidwi choposa, wina yemwe sagwirizana nawo. Yang'anani mmbuyo - dziko ndi lokongola kwambiri, ndipo liri ndi anthu ambiri odabwitsa!
Dzipangire wekha, kudzikweza wekha, chifukwa, kutenga chikondi chopanda chikondi, umangoiwala za iwe wekha. Zitha kukhala chirichonse: kuvina, dziwe, masewera. Mwinamwake mukakumana ndi woyenera chikondi chanu.
Tsopano iwe wakhala, ndipo iwe ukuganiza kuti chisoni chomwe chimakupweteka iwe ndi vuto lalikulu kwambiri mu dziko, koma iwe ukuganiza kuti pali anthu omwe ali osasangalala kuposa iwe. Wina wataya okondedwa, abwenzi, ndipo sangathe kukhala nawo kachiwiri, wina saloledwa kulingalira za dziko lino, kumva zomveka bwino. Phunzirani kuyamikira zomwe muli nazo, chifukwa zingakhale zophweka kwambiri.
Chikondi, ngati mtsinje wachangu, chimathamanga, chimagwera ndi misampha, chimaphwanya penapake, koma nthawi zonse chimakhala ndi gwero-zomwe zimapangitsa moyo wanu kukhala ndi tanthauzo. N'zovuta kuzindikira kugonjetsedwa kwanu, makamaka ngati pali chikondi. Koma inu mukhoza kuthana ndi chikondi, chinthu chachikulu ndi kukhulupirira mwa inu nokha, kuyang'ana pa zinthu kwenikweni. Ndikukhumba inu mwayi mwachikondi.