Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kuntchito, ndi zachibadwa komanso zosapeweka. Tsiku liri lonse kuyambira m'mawa mpaka madzulo, nthawi zina maola asanu ndi atatu kapena oposa, ndiye kuti mumayamba kuyang'anana mosiyana, kuti muyese maonekedwe abwino ndi apakati. Kwa mkazi, izi ziyenera kukhala zolimbikitsa kuti muwoneke bwino, khalani okondwa nthawi zonse. Ngati gulu lanu limangokhala la amayi okha, ndipo posachedwa mwakhala ndi mwamuna mu timu, ndiye mwamsanga mukuwona momwe asungwanawo amasinthira, anayamba kuyang'ana bwino, ayamba kumanga maso ndi kusintha. Ngati muli ndi mwayi ndipo mumagwira ntchito mu gulu la amuna, ndiye kuti muli ndi mwayi wokhala wokongola weniweni, wa fashionista komanso ofunika kwambiri. Ndiye ndi zabwino bwanji zowonongeka kuntchito? Kodi izi zingathandize bwanji kayendetsedwe ka ntchito? Choncho, taganizirani nthawi zabwino zowonetserana kuntchito.
Kugonana kuntchito kumapangitsa munthu kukhala wokondwa, wokondwa, wokonda thupi komanso maganizo. Chikhumbo choyang'ana pa inu ndi kuyamikira, kulemekeza ndi kunjenjemera. Kuti ulemu wanu umayamikiridwa ndi zolondola, ngakhale muzochita zaluso.
Kafukufuku ambiri asayansi a asayansi a ku America amasonyeza kuti anthu omwe amanyengerera kuntchito, sadzichepetsanso kupsinjika maganizo, kupsinjika maganizo, kukhumudwa kuntchito komanso patsiku la ntchito. Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kumawonjezera kudzidalira, kumangokhalira kusangalala. Ndibwino kuti mukhale wokongola tsiku lililonse, wokongola komanso wofunikira. Pamene, malingaliro pantchito ndi abwino, ndiye kuntchito kukuchitika mofulumira, mochuluka kwambiri komanso mochuluka. Kukhala okondana komanso okondana ndi anzanu kuntchito kumabweretsa kuwona kuti ntchito yaikulu ya ntchitoyo imachepetsedwa ndi nthawi yokondana yowonana. Pambuyo pake, zimadziwika kuti anthu akamamwetulira, zosavuta zimakhudzana ndi ntchito ndi ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku. Tangoganizani kuti ndinu wogulitsa malonda mu kampani yaikulu. Ndizosangalatsa kwambiri kukwaniritsa ndondomeko, kuitanitsa makasitomala, kupereka mautumiki atsopano, kukamba za kukwezedwa, pamene bwana wanu akumwetulira mokoma mtima, amawombera pang'ono ndi kukufunsani kuti mukwaniritse ndondomeko, kuposa ngati bwana wokwiya ndi wokwiya adzakuuzani ndikukudziwitsani ntchito yanu yoipa. Chisangalalo kuntchito, mu ofesi chimabweretsa kuwona kuti chiwerengero cha makasitomala chikuwonjezeka, kukolola kwantchito kumawongolera, ndipo, ndithudi, maganizo amayamba!
Kugonana kuntchito sikungangokhala ndi zotsatira zabwino, kukondana ndi anzanu kapena makasitomala kungasinthe nthawi. Choyamba, munthu yemwe mukuyesa kumuyesa sagwirizanitsa masewera anu ndi maso, nthabwala zanu ndi kumwetulira. Zomwe zimasokonekera, simukumva bwino. Ngati wogwira ntchito wina wachinyamata wanu akusewera kuntchito ndi mnzako, izi zingachititse nsanje, mzimu wa mpikisano. Ndiye, tsiku logwira ntchito limasanduka nkhondo pakati pa inu, osati ntchito yobala zipatso. Mavuto oterewa amachititsa kuti mukhale osokonezeka kuntchito, ndipo mutha kudzudzulidwa. Zowonjezereka zowonjezereka, mawu okondweretsa, kumwetulira pang'onopang'ono kumayamba kukhala chizoloŵezi cha kulankhulana tsiku ndi tsiku ndi mnzako, mwa kuyankhula kwina, ponyenga. Ngakhale simukumva ngati mukukambirana, kukondana ndi kumwetulira, mudzafunikanso kuchita mwanjira imeneyi, chifukwa mnzanuyo akuyembekeza khalidweli kuchokera kwa inu. Kugonana kuntchito kungayambitse chikondi. Ndizotheka ngati chinthucho chikuyankha, ndipo mukhoza kupeza ubale. Ndipo ngati muli okwatira kapena mwamuna wakwatira kapena amakumana ndi mtsikana? Kenaka, kukwatulira kuntchito kumabweretsa mavuto, ndipo kudzakhala ndi zotsatira zovuta.