Kukhudzidwa ndi chitukuko chakumayambiriro kwatha. Anthu omwe adatsutsana naye mosagwirizana, adasiya kunena motere. Ndipo omwe adagwirizana ndi mwanayo mofulumizitsa njira zowonongeka kwa nzeru, adachepetsa ndipo adachepetsanso msinkhu.
Zonse chifukwa fashoni ya chitukuko chakumayambiriro yadutsa, ndipo kukambirana za kuvulaza kwake kumayambitsidwa ndi akatswiri a maganizo. Nenani, anthu athu sali okonzekera ana, ndipo mwana, wopangidwa ndi zaka, amapita ku sukulu, amakumana ndi mavuto ambiri: kudzikweza pamaphunziro, mavuto ndi kusintha ndi kulankhulana momasuka ndi anzako. Ndiye inu mumachita chiani? Kodi n'zotheka kusiya kulemba mwana? Ayi ndithu. Ndikofunikira kukumbukira malamulo akulu: choyamba, simungathe kukhazikitsa patsogolo pazinthu zonse - kukula kwa magalimoto, maganizo.
Chachiwiri , njira iliyonse iyenera kusinthidwa kwa mwana wanu, kuganizira zokhumba zake, mwayi ndi msinkhu wa kukula kwa nzeru kwa mwana wamng'ono. Musaiwale kuti mwana wanu amafunikira chikondi cha makolo ake kuposa china chirichonse. Ndipo pambuyo pa izi-zilembo, chidziwitso cha zilankhulo ndi masamu ... Chabwino, za chitukuko cha nzeru zidzasamalira malo abwino, omwe ndi ofunika kuganizira amayi ndi abambo. Malo oterewa amatchedwa zakudya zowonjezera (zimadyetsa zochitika za mwana) komanso zimakhala ndi zinthu zophweka.
Kusisita - mutu wonse
Kodi pali chochita ndi chitukuko cha nzeru, mumapempha. Ndipo iwe udzakhala wolakwitsa! Kulankhulana ndipanso, mwachindunji. Kukula kwa nzeru kumayambiriro kwa moyo wa mwana kumagwirizana ndi kayendetsedwe kake. Dziweruzireni nokha, khungu la mwanayo ndilo lalikulu kwambiri komanso lovuta kwambiri kudziwitsa dziko lapansi. Izi zimaphatikizidwanso ku masomphenya ake, kumva, kununkhiza, mapangidwe omaliza omwe amabwera pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa mwanayo. Pamene khungu limagwira ntchito ya "mphunzitsi" wamkulu - kumapeto kwa mitsempha, uthenga umalandiridwa ndi kupitsidwanso kwina ku ubongo.Zomwe zimakhudza iwe umadzimva wekha, ndipamwamba chidwi chako chimakula. ndi miyendo ya mwanayo, timakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi malo ake oyankhulira. Zodabwitsa ngati zingamveke, ndiko kukula kwa luso lapamtundu wa magalimoto lomwe limapangitsa kuti mwana wanu azilankhula mofulumira komanso moyenera.
Maganizo kuphatikizapo
Cholinga chachikulu cha akatswiri oganiza za maganizo kwa anthu omwe ali ndi chitukuko chakumayambiriro ndikuti pa mpikisano wopindula nzeru za mwanayo, makolo amawasandutsa encyclopedia yoyendayenda, kuphunzitsa kukumbukira mwanayo mwa kukumbukira mosavuta, kukhala ndi malingaliro abwino, komabe amaiwala kwathunthu zokhudzidwa. Choncho zimakhala kuti mwanayo amachulukana mosavuta m'maganizo mwake nambala ziwiri, koma ... samadziwa mmene angamverere ena, mwachitsanzo. IQ maganizo ake amayamba kukhala otsika kwambiri.
Ana otero m'tsogolomu amakhala ovuta kwambiri kuyankhulana ndi anzawo, kukhazikitsa ndi kusunga ubale. Zonse chifukwa sadziwa momwe angakhalire ndi abwenzi, kuti azikhala ngati anthu akuluakulu, koma monga ana wamba. Pofuna kupewa izi, m'pofunika kuonetsetsa kuti chitukuko chakumverera kuyambira msinkhu. Ndipo izi zachitika mwachitsanzo. Kodi ndinu wokhumudwa? Fotokozerani kuti zikuphwanyirani chifukwa chake muli ndichisoni. Ndipo musaganize kuti iye samvetsa chilichonse. Mwinamwake sakuzimvetsa zonsezi, koma izi zidzasinthidwa ndipo zidzakumbukiridwa panthawi yake. Pamene mwanayo akukula, mukhoza kusewera naye "Masks": kutseka nkhope yanu ndi manja anu, ndi kuwachepetsa, kusonyeza mwana wanu malingaliro osiyanasiyana (chimwemwe, chisoni, kudabwa, kusasangalatsa, mantha, ndi zina zotero.) Mwanayo adzasangalala ndi Kusuta kwanu ndi kutenga nawo mbali pa zosangalatsa zoterezi. Masewerawo "Masks" ayenera kutsatiridwa ndi kufotokozera ndikubwereza mafotokozedwe angapo, motere: "Tawonani, amayi anga okondwa, (okhumudwa, etc.)!" Mwa kuyankhula kwina, sikuli koyenera ndikuyembekeza kuti mwanayo adzakulira ndi "kukhudzidwa" mukumverera TH kulankhulana, m'pofunika kuphunzitsa komanso china chirichonse, - kukwawa, kuyenda, kuwerenga, kusewera ...
Kodi ndi buku lotani?
Choyamba, nkofunikira kumvetsa kuti malingaliro osazindikira (omwe, chifukwa cha iye timamvetsetsa zomwe timawerenga) amakula patapita nthawi - mpaka zaka zinayi. Ndipo ngakhale mutaphunzitsa mwanayo kuti azindikire chilembo A mwa ena mwa mawu otsekemera, kwa iye ziganizo ziwirizi sizili zogwirizana: pali kalata A ndipo palivwende, limene, malinga ndi amayi anga, liri pakati pawo mwachiyanjano china. Zonsezi ndizofunika kuziganizira ndikumvetsetsa kuti mukamaphunzitsa mwana kuwerengera kuchokera ku chithunzithunzi, mumangophunzitsira chikumbukiro chake cha zithunzi. Pa chifukwa chomwecho, zimakhala zovuta kuti mwana azilemba makalata, mwa njira, chifukwa cha kumvetsetsa, njira zonse zophunzitsira poyambirira zimagawidwa mu mitundu itatu : ndi makalata, ndi zilembo (njira ya Zaitsev), yonse mawu (njira ya Glen Doman) ndipo, chirichonse chimene mungasankhe, ngati chikhumbo chotero chikuchitika, kumbukirani kuti kalata, syllable kapena mawu kwa mwanayo ndi chinthu chophweka, chizindikiro chomwe angathe kukumbukira ndi kubwereza mobwerezabwereza. ngati mungayesetse kuti pakufika msinkhu mwana wanu adziphunzira masabata angapo - ndi zophweka komanso zopangidwa ndi organic? Ndizofunika! Koma nditangonena ndekha kuti: "Sindimphunzitsa mwana kuti awerenge, ndikuzidziwa ndi zilembo (nambala)." Tengani izo ngati gawo la dziko lalikulu limene inu mukulidziwira ku crumb. Pano pali kitty, apa ndi galu, koma kalata A.
Ndipo kumbukirani kuti katsamba ndi galu zimamveka bwino kwambiri kwa mwana kuposa makalata ndi manambala, chifukwa zinthu zophunzira zimalumphira, kuzidya kapena kuzila, kudya, kuthawira ku ngozi ndi kuyanjana. Zimakhala zosangalatsa komanso zomveka. Nanga bwanji ndi manambala ndi makalata? Chitani ichi ngati gawo lokonzekera kuwerenga. Lembani pazipinda mafano (zilembo, mawu) ndi manambala - muzolemba zazikulu, zofiira zoyera. Mwanayo adzawakumbukira monga mbali ya dziko lake, ndipo chidziwitso chake chidzapita ku malo osungirako zinthu. Ndipo pamene mwanayo ayamba kuwerenga kuwerenga atakalamba, adzakhala wokonzeka kulandira makalata ndi manambala, popeza adziwa kale.
Tchulani izi!
Pachifukwachi, timagwiritsa ntchito lingaliro la Cecil Lupan kuti apange encyclopedia yapamwamba ya mwanayo. Sichifuna luso lapadera, ndalama komanso nthawi. Kuti tipeze, tikufunikira kudzipangira okha ndi magazini akale, zithunzi zosafunika ndi mabuku. Ndipo phindu ndi lofunika kwambiri! Ndipotu, kumene ana athu akuwona mbuzi kapena ng'ombe, ndege ndi oyenda. Pano ife tikusowa ma-encyclopedia. Zingathe kuchitidwa pa mutu uliwonse: "Zinyama", "Mvula", "Maluwa", "Njira", "Capitals of the World" ndi zina zotero Pansi pa chithunzi chilichonse, ndizofunika kupanga chikwangwani m'malembo akuluakulu Yesetsani kusankha mafanizo, pomwe padzakhala chinthu chimodzi, Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukuwonetsa chanterelle, ndiye pa chithunzi kapena chithunzicho chiyenera kukhala chokhacho - chachikulu komanso chosadziwika. Palibe zithunzi ndipo mumatenga zithunzi za mabuku a ana akale? chifukwa chenichenicho chimapangitsa, sitimayenera. "Zithunzi" ndi "nkhope" ndi "magalimoto odyetserako", ndi zina zotero. Kwa kafukufuku wodziwika bwino, mukufunikira pafupi kwambiri ndi moyo momwe mungathere. Kuti encyclopaedia ikugwiritseni ntchito ngati momwe mungathere, masamba omwe ali ndi tepi yowonekera bwino kapena kupanga encyclopedia osati mu kalasi kawirikawiri kapena bukhu la sukulu, ndi zithunzi zapadera, zomwe zilizonse zimapukutidwa.
Lolani phokoso
Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa kulengedwa kwa sing'anga yam'mimba kuti chitukuko cha mwana chikhale chophunzitsidwa mwachidwi ndi zinyenyeswazi molingana ndi njirayo? Ndipotu, chilengedwe ndi chimene mwana amakhalamo, kuphunzitsa nthawi sizimachokera ku chithunzi chodziwika bwino cha moyo wa mwanayo, koma amachotsedwa mu miyambo ya tsiku ndi tsiku - kuyenda, kudyetsa komanso kusamba. Chinthu chokha chimene chofunikira kwa amayi anga sichikhala chete. Izi zimaperekedwa mosavuta ku mauthenga okhudzidwa ndi mauthenga ndipo nthawizina zimayambitsa mavuto muzomwe zimakhala zakukhosi. Koma pano, inenso, chilengedwe chimabwera populumutsa. Pakubadwa kwa mwana, mkazi amasintha pansi pa mphamvu ya chibadwa cha amayi. Asayansi azindikira kuti amayi achichepere amatembenuza ngakhale mawu awo - amakhala wamtali, mochepetsetsa, ndipo zizindikiro za mawu zimakhala zovuta, zachifundo. Mahomoni amachititsa ntchito yawo yabwino, ndipo mkazi samangokana komanso amanyazi.
Kumbukirani : tsopano mdani wanu wamkulu ndi chete. Ndipo izi zimatsimikiziridwa ndi zowona za sayansi. Panthaŵi ina, asayansi anayesera kuyesera m'magulu awiri a ana oyamwitsa. Mgulu limodzi, amayi ankachita mwachibadwa: adagwidwa ndi kuyamwitsa ana awo, ankaimba nyimbo zowonongeka, kunong'oneza bondo m'makutu. Ndipo mulimodzi - ntchito ya amayi inali kungochita zofunikira pa chisamaliro cha ana: ana adadyetsedwa mwakachetechete, kusinthidwa, kugona. Malingana ndi zotsatira za phunziro lopanda nzeru kwambiri, anawo adachokera ku gulu la "chete" linayamba kukhala losazindikira komanso losasamala, ndipo nthawi zambiri ankakhala akudwala, ndipo potsiriza anayamba kuwapereka kwa "anzawo" omwe anali achimwemwe kuchokera ku gulu loyamba malinga ndi chiwerengero cha kukula kwa thupi ndi nzeru. Patapita nthawi anayamba kulankhula, kenako anapita.
Zoonadi, sitimakulimbikitsani kuti "muzitha" mosalekeza, gwiritsani ntchito mphindi iliyonse kudzutsa nyenyeswa kuti mudziwe zambiri.Inu mukudziwa kuti ngakhale mutayimba mwana wanu, zimakula mukamayankhula za mitengo ndi magalimoto, - Zimayamba pamene mukuyamwa - zimathandizanso kuti mwanayo akule bwino.
Khalani achibadwa ndipo mumvetsetse kuti mumvetsere zomwe mwana wanu akufuna ndikukonzekera. Nthawizonse khalani pang'ono pokha patsogolo pa ndandanda. Kodi mwana wanu amasangalatsidwa ndi galimoto ataimirira pafupi ndi nyumba yanu? Kotero, ndi nthawi yoti muyambe kuwerenga kafukufuku wopanga nyumba pa "Transport", ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo kuti muwerenge mitundu, chifukwa makina onsewa ndi osiyana kwambiri!
Phunzirani mwachikondi, ndipo maphunziro anu adzabweretsa zipatso zoyembekezeka!