Nchifukwa chiyani izi zikuchitika? Ndipotu, posachedwa mwakhala mukukondwerera masiku onse okumbukira kubadwa, maukwati ndi maholide ena, kupita kumaphwando okondwa, ndipo mophweka, kuti muthanane. Muthandizana ndi anzanu pa nthawi zosangalatsa komanso zomvetsa chisoni. Mwamva bwino, otentha komanso omasuka palimodzi, chifukwa mudadziwa kuti muli wina ndi mzake. Munali mabwenzi kwa zaka zambiri, ndipo ubwenzi wanu unalimbikitsidwa ndi zokonda, zochitika ndi zochitika.
Koma pali kusintha kwakukulu pamoyo wanu. Mukuyembekezera mwanayo ndipo mukufuna kugawana chimwemwe chanu choyembekezeredwa ndi kuwala koyera! Mukufuna kuuza anzanu za zomwe mumajambula, muwauze za kusintha kumeneku m'moyo wanu. Ndipo kotero, muwauze za "zinthu zosangalatsa" zanu. Kawirikawiri zomwe zimachitika sizikudziŵikiratu, osati momwe mumayang'anira.
Musadandaule! Ngakhale kuti mumakhalabe ndi zovuta kuti muzolowere kuntchito yanu yatsopano, nanga munganene chiyani za anzanu! Makamaka ngati iwowo alibe ana, amamva chisoni mumtima mwanu. Amzanga samadziwa momwe angakhalire ndi inu, ndicho chifukwa amasiya kukuitanani kuti muyendere, kuyenda, kumisonkhano, ndi zina zotero. Amayamba kuopa kuti anganene chinachake cholakwika, sangachite zomwe akufuna, amakuvulazani, adzakupezani ...
Muzochitika izi, simukusowa kukhala chete ndikulola chirichonse chipite. Mudzabisala, ndipo mtunda wa pakati pa inu ndi anzanu udzachuluka kwambiri. Afunseni mwachindunji chifukwa chake akulekanitsa. Ngati izi zikuwopa kwambiri moyo wanu, ndiye auzeni anzanu kuti safunikira kutenga udindo wanu. Fotokozerani kuti inu ndi mwana wanu muli ndi udindo, ndipo mulole abwenzi anu ayankhe yankho lanu zokhazokha.
Zinthu zosiyana ndizo zimakhala ndi abwenzi omwe ali kale ndi ana. Konzani nokha kuti akupatseni malangizo ambiri, kukumbukira ndi zochitika. Adzafuna kukuphwanya inu, osadziŵa zambiri koma osadziwa, mwa maganizo awo, ulamuliro wawo. Iwo sangapemphe ngati mukufuna izi? Kodi mukufuna kuchitiridwa chonchi?
Inde, mudzakhumudwa ndi ulamuliro woterewu. Koma tiyeni tiwone chomwe chimalimbikitsa aphungu awa? Ndipo zimakhudzidwa ndi kusamalira inu ndi mwana wanu wam'tsogolo. Iwo amafunitsitsa kukuthandizani ndikukutetezani ku zovuta ndi zolakwika zomwe anakumana nazo. Musalole kuti muyende pamalo omwewo. Choncho zimakhala kuti chikondi ndi chisamaliro cha anzanu zingaoneke mwa inu "mu bayonets."
Bungwe la Msonkhano muzochitikazi lingakhale lokha: pamene "mlangizi" ataponyera ndodo, mofatsa mumuzeni kuti mumayamikira zonse zomwe akunena kwa inu, koma pakali pano mulibe chikhumbo choyankhula pa mutuwu komanso pamene mukufuna thandizo, inu iyenera kufunsidwa.
Ngati muli ndi "milandu" yambiri, pamene mlangizi akuwona kuti sakukwanira ndipo akupitirizabe kuchita zomwe amamuuza, ngakhale mutamuuza kuti simukufuna kuyankhulapo tsopano, muyenera kuchita zinthu zovuta. Poyankha malangizo othandizira, nenani motsimikiza kuti: "Inde, zikomo kwambiri chifukwa cha uphunguwo, koma ndikufuna (ndikufuna, ndikutha) kuthetsa nkhaniyi popanda kuthandizidwa kunja (ndi mwamuna wanga)." Mwinamwake, pambuyo pa mawu otero inu mudzakhumudwitsidwa ndipo mudzakhala mukudandaula kwa kanthawi. Khalani kosavuta. Iwo sadzakhumudwitsidwa nthawi zonse, koma amvetsetsa kuti ndinu kale mtsikana wachikulire, amene amatha kudzipangira yekha momwe angayesere kuchita.
Ndipo ngati izo sizikuthandizani ... Chabwino, ndiye mozama, mozama, kodi mukufunikiradi abwenzi amenewo?