Umphaŵi ndi chuma ndizo malingaliro ndi njira yoganiza. Chuma nthawi zonse chimagwirizanitsidwa ndi chimwemwe, kupambana, njira yosasamala ya moyo, ndi umphawi - osakhutira ndi chisoni. Koma izi sizili choncho nthawi zonse ...
Tsopano akatswiri ambiri-akatswiri a maganizo ndi akatswiri a zaumulungu amatsimikizira lingaliro lakuti munthu aliyense akhoza kukhala wolemera. Funso ndi lakuti si onse omwe amafunikira izi. Mwachidziwitso, aliyense wa ife nthawi zina amaganiza kuti: "Koma ngati ndidali wolemera ...", koma chomwe chiri chofunika kwambiri pa izi komanso zomwe mukufuna kuchita - sitikudziwa. Vuto lalikulu silimakhala kosauka kwambiri kwa anthu ambiri monga kusayesayesa kuchita khama kuti iwo asinthe. Anthu amapeza zomwe ali okonzeka kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zawo ndi nthawi yawo, zomwe zimakhala ndi kulimba mtima ndi chiyembekezo. Anthu osauka ngakhale kwa kanthawi sangathe kuganiza kuti akhoza kupeza ndalama zambiri. Pano pali psychology ya anthu oterowo: akudandaula za tsoka lalikulu ndi kutenga umphawi ngati chilango cha moyo. Ndi kosavuta kuti iwo aziimba mlandu aliyense pazochitika zawo zoipa kusiyana ndi kuimirira ndi kuchita chinachake kuti apititse patsogolo maonekedwe awo komanso kukula kwa chuma.
Zizindikiro za anthu osauka, odziwika ndi kusowa kwa chikhumbo chilichonse chosintha. Anthu oterewa amakonda kusewera mosamala - lolani ntchito yochepa, koma yotetezeka. Moyo wawo credo ndi "wabwino kuposa mbalame m'manja mwawo ..." Ndipo ngakhale m'maganizo awo samakonda kupanga chisankho chomwe chili ndi chiopsezo pang'ono, kukhala ntchito yatsopano kapena ndalama.
Ambiri olemera anasiya "malo". Kodi iwo anachita motani izo? Aliyense amene ali ndi psychology ya munthu wosauka adzati: "Inde, anakanikila!" Kapena "Bambo anga olemera, anathandizidwa." Kotero ndi kosavuta kuti osauka adziyanjanitse ndi kuti munthu yemweyo monga iwo omwe adakwanitsa kupambana mu moyo, ndipo adakhalabe umphaŵi. Koma olemera si onse ochita zigawenga kapena ana a makolo olemera. Iwo ndi anthu wamba omwe sankakhala otopa kusintha, anasiya ntchito yawo yotetezeka ndipo adzilola okha kuganiza kuti chirichonse chikanakhala chosiyana. Iwo anayamba bizinesi yawo ndipo sanadandaule nazo. Ngakhale kukhala wosauka, ukhoza kukhala wamalonda wabwino. Ndipo chifukwa cha ichi sikofunika kuti mukhale ndi malingaliro apamwamba - mumangokhala ndi malingaliro apamwamba ndikutha kuzigwiritsa ntchito. Kapena monga njira yotsiriza kuti athe kulimbikitsa anthu omwe angakuchitireni inu. Anthu osauka nthawi zambiri samakayikira momwe lingakhalire ndi malingaliro omwe angapezeke. Zopadera kwa iwo ndi kudzimvera chisoni komanso kudzichepetsa. Anthu okhala mu "malo osungira" samakhulupirira maluso awo, chifukwa chakuti akhoza kusintha njira yawo ya moyo.
Munthu wosauka amayendayenda panopa, osati kufuna kukula, saona kuti n'kofunika kuphunzira zinthu zatsopano. Iye amangochita zinthu zonse. Ndipo ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zazikulu za umphawi wake. Anthu osauka sadziwa kuwerenga ndi ndalama. Iwo amaganiza kuti ndi bwino kugula zinthu zotsika mtengo, ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri zimasokonezedwa ndipo, motero, ndalama zambiri zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kuwongolera. Ndipo mu zinthu zazikulu monga monga, kugula galimoto, izi zingakhale vuto lenileni. Munthu wosaukayo akuganiza kuti: "Ndilibe ndalama zogula galimoto yabwino. Ndibwino kuti ndigule galimoto yotsika mtengo - yokwanira ine. " Ndiyeno mavuto okonzekera, kukonzanso kumayambira, phindu lonse limapita ndipo munthuyo amakhalanso wovutika maganizo ndipo amayamba kudzidandaula yekha. Amatemberera "olemera" chifukwa chakuti ali ndi mwayi wokwera galimoto yabwino, osaganiza kuti iye mwini akhoza kukhala wolemera. Inde, anthuwa akhoza kulandira chimodzimodzi. Zingakhale bwino kupanga khama ndi kusunga ndalama pang'ono, kapena kutenga ngongole, koma kugula galimoto yabwino kamodzi. Izi pamapeto zikanakhala zotsika mtengo pa bajeti ya banja.
Vuto ndilokuti munthu wosaukayo adzakhalabe wosauka ngakhale atapambana mamiliyoni mu lottery. Iye sangadziwe momwe angagwiritsire ntchito mwanzeru, kuchulukitsa, osati kungosiya mphepo. Ndalama ya munthu wosaukayo idzawonongedwa m'miyezi yosachepera sikisi.
Kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa olemera ndi osauka ndi njira yawo yoganizira. Munthu wosauka akufuna kukhala ndi ndalama zambiri, kuti "agwe" pa iye kuchokera kwinakwake. Ndipo olemera adzaphunzira njira zowonjezera, ngati ali ndi phindu, ngati sali.
Osauka amakhala mwamantha. Poopa kutayika. Ngakhale kuti, alibe, palibe chomwe chingatayike. Anthu opambana kwambiri amaika moyo wawo pangozi kuti atengepo kanthu. Iwo adaphunzira kutaya, koma adaphunziranso kuzindikira kugonjetsedwa kwawo monga cholimbikitsana kuti apambane.
Olemera akhala olemera chifukwa akusambira motsutsana ndi zamakono. Amaika moyo wawo pangozi, ngakhale kuti nthawi zonse sakhala akugonjetsa, koma samasiya kuyesera kusintha zinthu. Koma aliyense akhoza kukhala wolemera. Mwachitsanzo, kodi munthu wosauka angachite chiyani ngati mwadzidzidzi ali ndi nyumba zaulere? Iwo akhoza kugulitsa izo pogwiritsa ntchito ndalama pachabe, kapena kuwalola achibale, anzawo kapena abwenzi kupita kumeneko kwaulere. Chifukwa osauka amachita manyazi kuti atenge ndalama pa chirichonse, amachiona ngati chamanyazi komanso osayenerera. Olemera adzayamba kugwiritsa ntchito malowa, pindulani nazo. Kotero mu zaka 2-3 adzakhala ndi mwayi wogula nyumba ina.
Anthu olemera ali ofunitsitsa kwambiri, akufunitsitsa kukhazikitsa mwayi watsopano wamalonda, ndikupanga zinthu zatsopano zomwe angagule. Olemera nthawi zonse amadziwitsidwa ndi oyenerera m'madera ambiri azachuma, bizinesi, ndi zina zotero. Olemera ali achangu ndipo nthawi zonse amayang'ana mwayi wochita zoopsa, nthawi zonse amakonzeka kuti akule.