Imodzi mwa njira zowonongeka - kuuza chirichonse pa foni kapena kutaya SMS ndikusangalala ndi zomwe wokondedwa wanu akuchita, chimwemwe cha chifundo. Koma nkhani yokhudzana ndi mimba ndi mbiri yamakono mu nkhani ya chikondi ndipo muyenera kudutsa mwapadera.
Njira yeniyeni, yomwe ingathandize kudziwitsa wokondedwayo za mimba, - kuyembekezera mwamuna kuntchito ndi kuyika moona mtima chirichonse chomwe chiri. Inde, ayenera kuyamba kukonzekera pang'ono, chabwino, kukhala pansi pa sofa yabwino. Ndipo ... musati mubise maganizo anu, fotokozani chimwemwe chanu, kotero kuti wokondedwayo abwere posachedwa.
Ngati mwamuna wanu sangayembekezere, ngati simukudziwa zomwe anachita, yesetsani kuyambira patali. Mwachitsanzo, akudandaula za kunyoza, kunena za kuchedwa, potsiriza, taganizirani: ndi mimba? Konzani momwe mumakonda masiku angapo, nenani momwe zimakhalire ndi mwana, ndipo patapita pafupifupi sabata mudzatha kumuuza kuti posachedwa adzakhala bambo.
Kusiyana kwa "kukonzekera" kwa nkhani zodabwitsa ndizokhazikitse chikondi. Yesani kuitanira wokondedwa wanu kuti adye chakudya ndi kandulo. Zilibe kanthu kuti izi zimachitika: kunyumba kapena ku lesitilanti, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti mlengalenga ndi yosasangalatsa komanso yosangalatsa.
Ngati muli ndi masewero osakondana, koma oopsa, yesetsani kuuza wokondedwa wanu za mimba panthawi imene ali kumbuyo kwa gudumu. Mudzakhala ndi maganizo amphamvu kwambiri ochokera kuntchito yofulumira, kuphatikizapo bampu ili kutsogolo kwa galimotoyo.
Pofuna kuteteza mantha a mwamuna wake kuti tsopano apita kumbuyo, mungathe kumuwonetsera kuti sizomwezo, atavala zovala zonyansa, ndi kumuuza wokondedwayo za mimba mozungulira kwambiri. Komanso, malinga ndi amayi ena, nkhaniyi inachititsa kuti mvula ikhale yamkuntho kotero kuti iwowo ndi anzawo akuyenera kukagona.
Iyi ndi gawo lochepa chabe la malangizo omwe angaperekedwe kwa amayi amtsogolo. Ngati mukufuna mphindi yokhala ndi chisangalalo chokhazikika kuti mupitirize kukumbukira kwa nthawi yaitali, onetsani zongopeka. Mwachitsanzo, bwanji, musapatse mwamuna wanga holide yabwino posakhalitsa posungira positi ndizolemba: "Posachedwa mudzakhala bambo" - iyi ndiyo mphatso yabwino kwambiri kwa iye. M'malo mwa postcard, mukhoza kutumiza telegalamu ya mtundu uwu - zotsatira zake zidzakhala zochititsa chidwi kwambiri.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti izi ndi zopanda pake komanso zowongoka, mukhoza kumupatsa mphatso ndi chithunzi: kapu kapena botolo la mwana. Chithunzi cha nkhope yake panthawi ino simudzaiwala! Mofanana ndi pamene mupita kwa iye mu T-shirt ndi mawu akuti "Wokondedwa, sindikudziwa momwe ndingakufotokozere ..." ndi chithunzi chokongola cha mwana.
Ndipo zingakhale zabwino bwanji kwa mwamuna wako ngati mumamuphikira mkate, ndi kudabwa kwake ndi chimwemwe chake chomwe chidzakhale pamene adapezapo mawu okhutira. Monga mukuonera, pali njira zambiri zomuuza munthu wokondedwa za mimba, muyenera kugwirizanitsa malingaliro anu ndi kusankha zabwino.
Pezani mphindi yoyenera ndi mawu olondola kwa mwamuna kuti posakhalitsa adzakhala atate wa banja ndi ntchito yofunikira kwambiri kwa mayi wamtsogolo. Ndipotu, malinga ndi akatswiri a maganizo, izi zimadalira kwambiri ubale pakati pa papa ndi mwana.