Munthu aliyense amene amadzimangiriza yekha ndi zomangira za ukwati amalota moyo wokondwa. Eya, ngati mungathe kufotokoza momwe moyo wa banja udzakhalira. Ndipo kodi mungapeze njira yothetsera chimwemwe m'banja? Mwatsoka, nthawi zina timazindikira mochedwa kuti tikhoza kuchita mosiyana. Choncho, chomwe chikufunika kuti banja likhale lolimba komanso losangalala:
Choyamba, izi ndizolankhulana nthawi zonse. Pa bizinesi yonse, ntchito, ana, kutopa, mantha. Koma pamene ana ali mtulo, khalani ndi nthawi yambiri yocheza bwino (kukambirana za filimu, buku, masewero). Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalimbikitsanso kuti azichita nawo zosangalatsa: Amuna omwe amasangalala pamodzi, amakhala zaka zambiri.
Onetsetsani kuti mumadzikondera. Aromovanna, kupaka minofu, kumacheza ndi mnzanu pa khofi ya khofi m'nyumba yoyandikana ndi khofi - zonsezi ndizomwe zimatulutsa zokondweretsa, kulandira zokondweretsa pamoyo wawo, komanso, kuti phindu la conjugal.
Tithandizane wina ndi mzake pokwaniritsa zofuna zanu komanso zomwe mukuchita pamoyo wanu - banja losangalala lidzakhala lanu.
Ganizirani zambiri za zoyenera za mnzanuyo. Mmalo modziika nokha pa zolakwa, ganizirani mochuluka za zoyenera zake. Ndipo mudzasangalala kwambiri polankhulana ndi mnzanu.
Ndikofunika kuchita ngati kuti munagwidwa chikondi. Ngakhale mutatopa kwambiri, dzipangeni kumwetulira ndipo moyo ukhale wowala. Kunyamuka kumakumbatira mwamuna wanu (ngakhale mutapatsidwa moni ndi mapiri osasamba) ndipo moyo wanu udzadzazidwa ndi chikondi chatsopano.
Musagwiritse ntchito kwa mwamuna wanu ndi malingaliro ake. Pangani ndalama zazing'ono, komanso zikuluzikulu, yesetsani kuonana ndi mwamuna wanu ndikuphatikiza ana okalamba mu bajeti, pofotokozera ndalama zomwe muli nazo ndi zomwe mungagule.
Musakane mwamunayo mu chibwenzi, komanso kumulanga mwanjira imeneyi. Kuti asadandaule kenakake kuti akufunafuna chinachake kumbali. Kwa mkazi yemwe amamvetsa mwamuna mu funso ili, sipadzakhala mavuto ndi wokwatirana naye!
Muzilamulira maubwenzi ndi makolo. Pemphani alendo, pitani, thandizani - koma musalole kuti azichita zinthu zawo, musagwirizane zinsinsi, musadandaule. Yesetsani kuchitira makolo anu mofanana, kwa inu nokha ndi kwa mwamuna wanu.
Chinthu chachikulu ndikuvomereza mwamuna wanu momwe muliri, phunzirani kulolerana ndikukhululukirana zolakwa za wina ndi mzake. Zomwe zimabweretsa chimwemwe m'banja, makamaka zimadalira mkazi, luso lake komanso luso lake, nzeru zake ndi malingaliro ake. Ndipo ambiri angaganize kuti: "Chifukwa chiyani mkazi ayenera kulekerera ndi kutulukira? Ndi chifukwa chakuti ndi mkazi, wolenga banja losangalala, komanso chifukwa cha ichi osati tchimo ndipo adzagwira ntchito. Zikuwonekeratu kuti tsogolo nthawi zina limagwirizanitsa anthu osiyana. Kuyesera kukondana wina ndi mzake, timayenera kupirira zovuta zambiri, mikangano, mikangano komanso kuleza mtima ndi kulemekeza kwambiri anthu omwe akutsata zowonongeka ndi zisankho zabwino, kuti asazimitse malo a banja komanso ngakhale moto wolimba kwambiri wa chikondi.
Banja losangalala silo, kumene anthu amatopa ndikuti amapeza zovuta. Chifukwa cha mikangano, timadandaula tokha, kuwonjezera mafuta pamoto, malingaliro athu, kukumbukira machimo akale. Kusankha zochita kukhululukirana, m'pofunika kuphunzira, kuchita moona mtima, osabwereranso kumbuyo. Kupanda kutero, simungapulumutsidwe ndi zolemetsa ndi zodandaula, ndipo zokangana zanu ndi mikangano m'banja sizidzatha. Ndiyeno moyo wanu wa banja udzasanduka mbiri yakale ndi mofanana, yomwe tsiku lina lifuna kusintha kosatha. Sizomwe zilipo kuti akatswiri a maganizo a alangizi amalangiza okwatirana, musagone popanda kuyanjanitsa.