Ena a iwo akhala akuphunzira kwa zaka zisanu kuyambira ali mwana, koma apindula pang'ono m'miyoyo yawo. Nyenyezi zina zakumwamba sizigwira, koma zimakula - pitani kwa atsogoleri. N'chifukwa chiyani kuyamba koyambirira kwaunyamata sikunapangitse kuti munthu akhale wamkulu?
WODZAKHALA WOKHUDZA CHIKHRISTU
Chikhumbo chochita chirichonse mu moyo kawirikawiri chimayambira nthawi zambiri ali wamng'ono. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa mawonetseredwe a maximalism aunyamata. Mnyamata wochenjera kapena msungwana wabwino amakula, aliyense amamutamanda, amamuyamikira, ndipo pang'onopang'ono nayenso amayamba kudziyamikira yekha. Amafuna kuchita zonse zabwino kuposa wina aliyense - kapena ayi.
Kotero munthu amakhala mkaidi wa ziyembekezo za anthu ena. Aliyense amayembekezera kuti zinthu zimuyendere bwino, ndipo amayesetsa kuti sangakwanitse.
Koma m'moyo, pali zolephera. Iwo ndi osasangalatsa, koma osati chifukwa chogonjera kuvutika maganizo, kuswa. Komabe, izi zikhoza kuchitika ndi anthu omwe ali ndi matenda a ophunzira olemekezeka omwe alibe chidziwitso chakumana ndi kutayika, kutayika ndi kugonjetsedwa.
Munthu wolemekezeka kwambiri mu moyo wachikulire ndi wochenjera ndipo saopsezedwa kutenga mtolo wa mtsogoleri: iye amakonda kukhala wothandizira mtsogoleri, katswiri, wofufuza. Iye sangathe kupanga zosankha pazomwe akusoŵa kapena kudziŵa zambiri kapena kupotoza kwake: wophunzira wabwino kwambiri ayambe kufufuza zonse, kuganizira izo kudzera ...
Mwana wolemekezeka sangathe kupitirira malire ake, chifukwa amaopa kuthetsa vutolo molakwika. Iye, ngati tram, amayenda pamsewu wopangidwa ndi miyala ndipo sangathe kutembenukira kumbali imodzi kapena ina.
WHO AMADYA CHAMPAGNE
Chinthu china ndi munthu atatu: amadziwa kuchokera muubwana kuti ndi mwayi wotani. Inde, nthawi zambiri sakanatha kuthetsa vuto, koma adaphunzira kuchoka, kuchepetsa nthawi yake, kuthana ndi manyazi komanso kusangalala. Izi zinamupangitsa kukhala wosasinthasintha komanso woganiza bwino.
Troychnik, osadziŵa bwino, amawumirira molimba mtima m'madzi, sawopa kupita kumalo kumene palibe wina aliyense, samayesetsa kuti apite kumalo omwe sangakwanitse, chifukwa sakudziwa kuti umbuli wake ndi wotani. Munthu yemwe ali ndi matenda abwino kwambiri amachititsa zotsatira za gawo lililonse, ndipo posadziwa momwe angathetsere vutoli, satenga chisankho chake.
Mofanana ndi nkhani ya nthano Ivanushka, mwamuna wakale wamwamuna wazaka zapakati akudumphira mukhola yotentha - ndipo amapambana, ndipo wophunzira nthawi zambiri sachita ngozi - samamwa champagne.
Mwana wolemekezeka amaopa kuti alowe mu bizinesi yatsopano, chifukwa ndiye kuti padzakhala kanthawi kochepa kuti azichita masewera, ndipo izi sizikumveka bwino kwa iye. Troitschniku saopa kuwonekera, sakusamala zomwe amalingalira za iye; iye ali wodziimira paokha.
Nazi makhalidwe atatu akulu omwe angapangitse munthu kukhala munthu wopambana: kudziimira mkati mwa maganizo a ena, kusinthasintha komanso kupezeka kwa cholinga.
CHITSANZO CHA BARON WA MUNHAHAUSEN
Kodi mwana wolemekezeka angasinthe kuchoka pa tramu yomwe imayenda pamsewu wopita kumtunda, kupita ku galimoto yamphamvu yomwe ilibe njira zabuksuet pamsewu uliwonse? Mwinamwake, ngakhale sizidzakhala zophweka. Koma ali ndi wothandizira - mutu wake wowala, nzeru zake.
• Chinthu choyamba chomwe wophunzira wabwino ayenera kuchita ndi kugawanika ndikudziyang'ana yekha kuchokera kunja, kuti adziyankhule yekha. Kuti muchite izi, ndizothandiza kusunga diary. Mukatha kuwerenga zolemba zanu zakale, kubwereranso, yesetsani kumvetsa zomwe muli komanso zomwe mukufuna kukhala. Mu psychology, chitetezo chotere kuchokera kwacho chimatchedwa reflexion.
• Njira yowonjezereka ndiyo kuona zithunzi zakale. Ndicho chimene poyamba ndinali, osati ichi. Kodi ndikufuna chiyani, ndalota chiyani? Chifukwa chiyani sizinagwire ntchito kwa ine?
• Njira yachiwiri ndi kukambirana ndi munthu wina za inu nokha. Ndi bwino ngati interlocutor ndi katswiri wamaganizo.
Yesani kulingalira pamodzi chifukwa chake simungadzizindikire nokha.
• Njira yachitatu ndi kudzifunsanso mafunso ofunika: ndi chiyani chomwe chili cholakwika mmoyo wanga; Nchiyani chimandiletsa ine kuchita chinachake chimene sindinachichitepo? Ndipo potsiriza, kodi ine ndikufuna kuti ndidzichitire ndekha mu moyo?
Inde, ngati mutayamba kulingalira za zinthu zoterezi, pali zifukwa zambiri zoti musadzitulutsire mumsasa. Koma ngati muzindikira kuti mantha olephera angathe kutsogolera, ndiye kuti padzakhala mphamvu yowonjezera.