Monga zisankho zimasonyezera, amayi achichepere ndi okhwima ndi amuna amakhulupirira kuti zaka "Balzac" ili ndi nthawi zabwino kwambiri, osagonjera chilichonse. Atsikana ndi atsikana aang'ono amakonda zaka zino chifukwa cha zifukwa zambiri ndipo angafune kuzifikira mwamsanga.
Malingana ndi zachipatala, anthu ambiri omwe amayankha amakhulupirira kuti ali ndi zaka zoposa 40 zomwe mkazi amamupeza iye weniweni, akudziona kuti ali wokonzeka kugonana, ubongo wake, mphamvu zake zowonetsera komanso mphamvu zake zimafika pachimake. Pa msinkhu uwu, mkazi amadziŵa ulemu wake ndi zolephera zake ndipo amatha kuchita bwino, amapeza nzeru zofunika, chidziwitso chimalimbikitsidwa. Mzimayi amamva kuti ndi wokhwima mwauzimu komanso mwauzimu. Amakhala odziimira okha ndi odziimira okha, pali luso lodziyang'anira nokha.
Malinga ndi kafukufukuyu, pa msinkhu wokalamba ndi chiwerengero cha ntchitoyi, kukula kwa luso komanso chidziwitso. Chidwi chimakhala chokwanira komanso chokhazikika, zomwe zimafunika kuti anthu azitha kukhala ndi moyo, zomwe zimathandiza mkaziyo kuti azichita zinthu zambiri pa moyo wake, kuphatikizapo moyo wake. Iyi ndi nthawi yomwe, kachiwiri, mkazi ali ndi mwayi wodzipeza yekha ndikuzindikira mphamvu yake yamkati.
Mayiyo ali kale ndi "maziko", pogwiritsa ntchito zomwe mungayambe, ngati kuli kofunikira, moyo wina. Pali "chirichonse" cha moyo: ntchito, banja, nyumba. Mkazi wokhwima, monga lamulo, amakhala wokhutira kwambiri, woganiza bwino, wosasamala kwambiri, ali ndi njira yowonongeka komanso yeniyeni ya chirichonse. Iye ali ndi kukongola kwa mkazi wokhwima, chithumwa, iye wayamba kale kupanga kalembedwe kake. Zonsezi zikuwonjezeranso kuti mkazi wa "Balzac" m'badwo akadali wokwanira kugwiritsa ntchito ubwino umenewu ndikukwaniritsa bwino moyo wake.
Koma komabe mkazi pa msinkhu uwu akhoza, ngakhale mosamalitsa moyo wake, samverera kutopa kwathunthu kwa mphamvu zake, zomwe sizinachitike. Kulowa mumsampha wotere, mwachibadwa kwa zaka za nthawi ino, mkazi nthawi zambiri amamva kuti amasiyidwa, amaopa kusungulumwa.
Vutoli likuwonjezeredwa ndi zochitika za "kugwa" pa mtengo wa mkazi wokhwima pamaso pa munthu, monga mwa zaka zapadera, pamene "mtengo" wa munthu wa m'badwo uno mu lingaliro la mkazi ukukula. Pazifukwazi, mkazi akhoza kuchita chimodzi mwa njira izi:
- "Wachinyamata": mkaziyo amakana kuzindikira kukula kwake, amayesa kukhala wamng'ono, kubwerera nthawi, kudzipangira yekha chinyengo cha "mnyamata wachiwiri".
- "Nyenyezi yowonongeka": Mkazi wotereyu amaganiza kuti zaka zabwino kwambiri za moyo wake zidutsa kale - mophiphiritsira, "amadzipachika yekha": "Lolani moto wa moyo utha," akuganiza choncho.
- "Wopweteka": akukumana ndi mavuto a zaka zapakatikati, mkazi wotero amawona njira yopulumukira kuti adzisiye yekha, "I" ndi zofuna zake, zomwe akuwona kuti akuchita nawo ana ndi adzukulu okha.
- "Weniweni": Kuyang'ana mokwanira pa moyo, amapeza zaka zake zoyenera komanso zosangalatsa. Iye akufuna kulandira kuchokera ku moyo chirichonse chomwe chiri chotheka pa msinkhu uno ndi zomwe iye sankakhoza kukwaniritsa poyamba - muzaka zazing'ono.
Chinsinsi choyamba cha kupambana ndi pafupifupi akatswiri onse azachipatala amatcha kudzidalira. Kudzidalira - mbali ina pulogalamu ya moyo ndi cholinga chake. Ngati mukuganiza kuti simukuyenera kukhala osangalala, ndiye kuti simungatengepo kanthu kuti mupeze chimwemwe. Ndipo mosiyana.
Gawo lotsatira ndi kusankha kwa zolinga zomwe zingakwaniritsidwe. Zimatsimikiziridwa kuti munthu apindula bwino ndipo amagwirizana ndi maganizo ake kuti akwaniritse zolinga zomwe sizidzakhala zolemera kwambiri kwa iye kapena zosavuta. Mumasankha udindo wa maganizo wa "wopambana" ngati zolinga zanu zili pakati panu. Ngati cholinga chiri chosavuta - poyamba munachiyika kuti musapewe kulephera, komanso kuti musapambane. Ngati ndizovuta kwa inu - poyamba mumagonjetsedwa.
Koma nthawi zambiri miyoyo yathu imasintha zokhazokha pa zolinga zathu. Mwachiwonekere, kuti tipeze kupambana komwe tikukufuna, zolinga zathu ziyenera kukhala zochepa kuposa zomwe tingakwanitse. Choncho munthu amene akufuna kusambira mtsinjewu kuti afike kumalo ena akutsidya lina, samasambira molunjika pazomwe akufuna, koma ku malo ena othawa kwawo. Koma popeza kuti pakali pano ikuwombera, imagwa pomwepo.
Malinga ndi akatswiri ambiri aza maganizo, ndikofunikira kuti mkazi, makamaka munthu wamkulu, akhale ndi chizoloŵezi chogwira ntchito mwakhama ndi kuchitapo kanthu ku mavuto ndi zoopseza ndi nthawi zonse, zilizonse zomwe zimachitika, khalanibe maso pa cholinga chomwe mwasankha. Khalani ndi malingaliro muzochitika zonse za moyo. Chitani molimba mtima ndi mwakhama mukakumana ndi zovuta, muthane ndi mavuto popanda kudzikuza, kupeŵa iwo ndi kusalongosola zomwe zingatheke kuti mutha kulephera, ndikumenyana, kuthana ndikuchotsani zopinga mwamphamvu ndi luntha, ndikuwongolera mphamvu zanu ndi luso lanu.
Pambuyo pokambirana ndi amayi opambana muzochitika zonse za moyo, akatswiri a maganizo apeza, popanda chosiyana, chimodzi chofanana, khalidwe la iwo: khalidwe labwino, kuthekera kuwona momwe angayang'anire ngakhale pazooneka ngati "zakufa". Malingaliro awo, iwo apambana mu moyo chifukwa chakuti, pofika mu zovuta zosayembekezeka, iwo anasankha njira ya kudzipatsa mphamvu, kudzikuza, kuyang'ana pa zinthu monga kuwapangitsa iwo kukula ndi kukula, osati kukhumudwa ndi kugwetsa manja awo.
Ndipo chinsinsi chofunika kwambiri kuti chipambane: malinga ndi akatswiri a maganizo, kuti mupambane, muyenera kudziyesa nokha malo ofunikira kudzidziwitsa nokha. Munthu aliyense alibe zambiri - zosapitirira khumi, koma ayenera kumvetsetsa bwino. Ichi ndi chofunikira kwambiri kwa mkazi wachikulire, pamene kusintha kwakukulu kumachitika mmoyo wake. Zambiri zimadalira m'mene mungakhalire zolinga zowonjezera moyo ndi momwe mungamvetsere zomwe zili zofunika tsopano.
Kotero, kukhulupirira mwa iweeni, mwa kuthekera kwa kupambana; mokwanira, koma weniweni kwa zolinga zanu; kukwanitsa kusangalala mu nthawi zovuta ndi chidaliro pa zomwe ziri zofunika kwambiri kwa inu tsopano - musalole kuti muzisiye, ndipo kupambana mu moyo kumatsimikiziridwa kwa inu pa msinkhu uliwonse.