Choyamba, kumbukirani, mawu akuti: "Ndili ndi zaka 17, ndikufuna kupeza munthu," ndizolakwika. Anyamata sali otayika makiyi, samayang'ana ndipo samapambana ngakhale. Mwa njira, abwenzi awo samawakwapula, ndipo samazisunga mwa njira zonse.
Achinyamata akuyenera kukhala ndi chidwi ndi inu, kugwa m'chikondi ndikugwa pamapazi anu. Koma momwe mungakwaniritsire izi, mukhoza kuwerenga m'nkhaniyi.
Pali njira zambiri zoganizira munthu. Koma chifukwa cha ichi muyenera kukhala mkazi weniweni nthawi zonse. Zosangalatsa zathu, zokha, kukongola, nzeru ndi chikazi ndizo zida zomwe mungapambane nazo. Popanda iye, msungwanayo sadzakhala mkazi weniweni, yemwe mnyamatayo akufuna kupembedza ndikumugwira.
Kotero, kuti mukhale monga choncho, musanene nokha, ndi zina zotero, pamaso pa kugonana kolimba. Mwamuna amafuna mkazi yemwe amakhulupirira yekha ndi kudzikonda yekha.
Choncho, poyimirira pagalasi, dzikumbutseni kuti ndiwe wabwino komanso woyenera wokongola. Musayese kupeza cholakwa mwa inu nokha ndikulira pa iwo. Zoonadi, kudzidzudzula ndibwino, koma osati pokhapokha patapita nthawi. Simungakhale wodzikonda nokha, koma kudzidzimvera nokha pamaso pa ena sizomwezo. Ngati mukudziwa za zolephera - tenga nawo ndikuganiza momwe mungabisire, kapena mutembenuke kukhala olemekezeka. Mkazi aliyense ali ndi zest yake, koma sikuti aliyense amadziwa momwe angatsegule izo ndi kuzipereka molondola. Ganizirani mosamala zomwe anthu akukonda mwa inu, kusiyana ndi momwe mungagwirire ndi kudzipezera nokha. Ichi ndi chomwe chiyenera kukhala chida chanu chachikulu. Khalani ndi chikondi ndi kudzilemekeza nokha. Musalole kuti ena adzinyoze nokha ndipo musadzichititse manyazi. Ndipo komabe, kumbukirani: ngati munthu akhoza kukwiyitsa mkazi, kupondereza pa ulemu wake ndi kuseka - uyu si mwamuna. Ndi mwana wosazindikirika, wovuta, wosadziwika, yemwe amadzidalira yekha omwe amadziwa kuti sangathe kusintha. Pambuyo pa anthu otero simungathe kumangirira ndi kuwonetsa mantha. Muyenera kunyalanyaza ndikunyalanyaza ndikuwonetsa kuti simukusamala kuti mumaganiza kuti ndizosafunika. Ngati mumakhulupirira izi, iwo adzamva mphamvu yanu ndipo sadzalola kuti anene chinachake ku adiresi yanu. Musalole wina kukhala ndi zovuta mwa inu, kuwononga chikazi ndikupha munthu. Amuna enieni amakonda akazi amphamvu ndi olimba mtima. Khalani choncho ndipo mutsegula njira yeniyeni yopambana.
Maonekedwe ndi ofunika kwa achinyamata. Koma ngati mumadziwona nokha zovuta, musangopita ku nyumba ya amonke. Pamodzi ndi iwo mungathe kumenyana ndi chithandizo cha zodzoladzola, zovala, thupi, maonekedwe ndi maonekedwe. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho chikhumbo ndi chipiriro. Musamayembekezere kuti chirichonse chidzasintha ndi mafunde a wand zamatsenga. Pali akazi ochepa kwambiri padziko lapansi omwe ali ndi kukongola kwachilengedwe. Ena onse ayenera kugwira ntchito nthawi zonse. Koma palibe chochititsa manyazi mu izi, chifukwa ndife amayi oti tikhale owala, ogwira ntchito, ochepa komanso okonzeka bwino. Inde, kugwedeza sikuyenera kukhala. Tifunikira kufufuza bwinobwino zomwe angathe ndikugwiritsa ntchito zonse mwanzeru. Ngati mumadziyendetsa ku anorexia, kapena mumagwiritsa ntchito masukulu onse a mascara - palibe amene angayamikire. Chinthu chachikulu ndi nthawi zonse kukhala ndi mawonekedwe ndikutha kupanga maswiti popanda kanthu. Zinthu zokondweretsa zingagulidwe mwachiwiri, ndipo kuti mukhale ndi aerobics, sikofunika kugula zolembera ku masewera olimbitsa thupi. Inu mukhoza kuchita zonse nokha, koma pa ichi mukufunikira khama ndi chikhumbo chogwira ntchito nthawi zonse.
Achinyamata amamvetsera atsikana achilengedwe, okondweretsa, okondana, omwe amalowa mosavuta ku kampani ndipo nthawi zonse amadziwa zomwe angalankhule. Choncho, musawope anthu. Kumbukirani kuti amakopeka ndi atsikana okondana nawo. Koma muzonse muyenera kudziwa chiyeso. Ngati simukutseka pakamwa panu, ndipo mumayankhula momveka bwino pa chilichonse chimene chimabwera mumutu mwanu, nkokayikitsa kuti wina angakonde. Nthawi zonse ndi bwino kuganizira za mawu anu komanso osakhala opusa, osamva balabolka.
Mwachibadwa, cholinga chanu ndi munthu wodabwitsa, wokondweretsa ndi wosangalatsa. Kotero muyenera kukhala chimodzimodzi. Palibe amene akusowa mkazi wododometsa yemwe salankhula china chilichonse kupatulapo zodzoladzola. Werengani, mvetserani, khalani ndi chidwi. Pangani njira zonse. Chidziwitso sichitha kwambiri. Koma, komabe, n'zosatheka kutembenukira ku botanist, amene adawazidwa ndi mawu. Khalani msungwana amene mungakondwere naye, ndikumapusitsa, ndi kumuphunzitsa, ndikukamba za luso.
Ndipo komabe_musamangidwe pa anyamata. Ngakhale mutakhala ndi chikondi chachikulu ndi mnyamata, musamayang'ane ndi maso ake. Amuna ayenera kupambana, ndipo "ndani adzafuna kukwaniritsa zomwe wapita kale?" Nthawi zonse kumbukirani izi ndipo musalole kuti maganizo amveke pa khalidwe labwino. Musayese kupambana ndi munthu mwa kuvomereza naye muzinthu zonse ndikuchita zonse zomwe akufuna. Ngati atakhala ndi inu, sikukhala nthawi yaitali, monga momwe abambo amavutitsira zidole mwamsanga. Nthawi zonse muyenera kudziŵa kuti ndinu ofunika komanso mumve ngati mfumukazi. Musati mupange chikhumbo choti mupeze mnyamata mu mania. Komabe, kumbuyo kwa zaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi zitatu, amalume ochenjera kwambiri dzina lake William Shakespeare, adanena chinthu choyenera: " Chikondi chimathawa anthu omwe amachitikira, koma kwa iwo omwe amathawa , amatha kupita ku khosi." Ndipo iye anali mwamtheradi molondola. Ngati ndinu anzeru, wodalirika, wokongola komanso wokongola, ngati mumaphunzira kukhala omasuka ndikukhala muchisangalalo - ndiye mu moyo wanu padzakhala munthu yemwe sangakumane naye. Adzakhala m'chikondi. Ndipo zidzachitika panthawi yomwe simukuyembekezera chilichonse. Choncho, khalani okongola komanso okongola kwambiri, ndipo padzakhala wina yemwe mungakhale wosangalala.Ndiyeno mukumvetsa kuti mawu omwe ali kalembedwe: "Ndili ndi zaka 17 ndipo ndikufuna kuti ndipeze munthu wabwino yemwe angandikonde" ndizofukwa chabe kwa iwo omwe safuna kuchita chilichonse kuti akhale osangalala. Koma sichoncho?