Siyani munthuyu malo
Mkangano wa mkango pakati pa okwatirana umayamba chifukwa cholamulidwa kwambiri ndi mnzanu mmodzi komanso kusamalidwa bwino kuchokera kwa ena. Monga lamulo, mwamuna amakhala ndi chilolezo chokwanira kwa wokondedwa wake, ndipo mkazi amakhumudwa pamene sakupeza mphindi iliyonse pa theka lake. Atsikana amamva kuti alibe chidwi, monga kusowa chikondi.
Iye ndi mkazi wake amatha kuzindikira maubwenzi apabanja. Mosasamala kanthu za mphamvu ya malingaliro kwa inu, mwamuna sangayambe konse kukana kukhala ndi anzanu ndikupita ku mpira. Akazi, mosiyana, amayamba kuthamangira kuyanjana ndi mutu, kuiwala za abwenzi ndi zosangalatsa, kumene wokondedwa samagwira nawo mbali. Chifukwa chaichi, kuwuka kwachisoni kumachitika.
Lamulo loyambirira la golidi: kupeĊµa mavuto - kuchepetsa ndi kuphunzitsa. Musamangoganizira za munthu wanu maola 24 pa tsiku, bwino kuti mudziwe zosangalatsa ziwiri kapena zitatu zomwe zingatenge nthawi yanu yaulere. Pamene mwamuna wanu akukhala mu bar ndi abwenzi, mumapita ku masewera, kupita ku salon, mukakumane ndi anzako, nimulembereni maphunziro opititsa patsogolo, maphunziro ... Kotero musangomusiya munthu maola angapo patsiku laulere popanda mafoni ndi mafoni, komanso kudzisintha nokha kunja ndi mkati. Ndikhulupirire, mwamuna sangafune kutayika mkazi wokongola wokwanira.
Thandizani
Ubale uyenera kukhala wololera ndi mgwirizano, choncho usathamangire mopambanitsa. Takuwonetsani kuti simukusowa kuti mum'gonjetsere munthu wanu? Ndibwino, koma musaiwale kuitanitsa (osati kawirikawiri, kamodzi patsiku!) Ndipo ndikudabwa momwe akuchitira ndipo kodi akufuna kukupanga kampani, mwachitsanzo, ku masewera olimbitsa thupi? Tsopano - ndinu ofanana nawo, magawo a limodzi. Funsani za kupambana kwake ndi zolephera ndipo, ngati kuli kofunikira, kuthandizira. Amuna sadzagawana zolephera zawo ndi abwenzi, chifukwa chake nthawi zina amafunikira thandizo la okondedwa awo.
Lamulo lachiwiri la golidi: khala pafupi ndi wokondedwa wanu panthawi ya kupambana ndi kugonjetsedwa. Amuna sadzafuna kutayika mtsikana amene amawamvetsa ndikuwalandira monga momwe alili.
Khalani okongola
Amayi ambiri atatha kukwatirana amasiya nthawi yokwanira kuti azisamalira okha. Dzikumbutseni nokha pa nthawi yomwe mudali kufuna kukopa chidwi cha wosankhidwa wanu. Kodi ndi madiresi angati atsopano ndi mabalasulo omwe tawoneka mu zovala zanu? Zoonadi pafupifupi tsiku lililonse mumachita zojambulajambula pamutu, kuvala zidendene, kupereka nsembe mosavuta chifukwa cha kukongola? Ngati mutayima pagalasi tsiku lililonse kwa ola limodzi, simuyenera kudandaula, koma ngati nthawi yomwe mumadzisamalira mukupita kukachapa, kutsitsa ndi "amai azimayi" - pang'onopang'ono. Sinthani zochita zanu za tsiku ndi tsiku. Mwamunayo, ndithudi, adzayamikira, koma iye, choyamba, akufuna kukuwonani ngati wokongola monga kale.
Lamulo lachitatu la golidi: Khalani ndi maonekedwe okongola komanso omveka bwino. Mkazi wokongola adzachita mantha kuti ataya mwamuna.
Musakhale ndi nsanje!
Amayi nthawi zina amachititsa kuti nsanje ikhale pambali ya munthu, ndikukhulupirira kuti izi ndi umboni wa chikondi. Pankhaniyi, munthu akhoza kuopsezedwa kwa nthawi yaitali komanso mobwerezabwereza, ngati nsanje iyenera kukhala nayo. Palibe amene amathandiza kumanga maubwenzi. Kusankha kumukwiyitsa mnyamata chifukwa cha nsanje, konzekerani zotsatira zosayembekezereka. Amuna ena akhoza kukwiya, ena angaganize kuti ndinu osasamala, ndipo ena adzalandira nsanje umboni wosadzikomera okha. Ndibwino kuti musadabwe ndi nsanje.
Mosiyana ndi amayi, anthu onse, mosasamala, amanyoza chikondi choterocho ndipo amakwiya ngati mkazi wokondedwayo atakhala ndi nsanje.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti nthawi zambiri chifukwa cha nsanje ndicho kusatetezeka. Ndi chifukwa chake mkazi akuganiza kuti mwamuna wake akufuna kupeza wina wabwino ndikuyamba kusewera.
Lamulo lachinayi lagolide: Ganizirani za inu nokha, pitani njira zambiri zodzikongoletsera, zomwe mudzafunikira kuti mukhale okongola kwambiri. Ndipo nsanje idzatha.
Muloleni iye amve kuti akusowa
Mwamuna aliyense akufuna kuwonetsa theka lache zomwe akufunikira ndi zabwino. Mukhoza kusewera ndi zolinga zake zabwino ndipo nthawi ndi nthawi funsani maulendo ang'onoang'ono, osati kwambiri. Ngati munthu ali wodziwa bwino njirayi, imuimbireni kuti akonze chokonzekera. Ngati muitanitsa mbuye kunyumba, ndiye mnyamata wanu akhoza kutengapo manyazi. Choncho, musanachite chilichonse, muuzeni za vutoli, lolani wokondedwayo asankhe ngati angapirire yekha kapena akufuna thandizo.
Ngati theka lanu liribe luso lokwanira kuthetsa vutolo, musanene kwa iye: "ndinu mwamuna ..." Mnyamata wanu akhoza kukhala katswiri pa nthawi imodzi, koma samamvetsetsa winayo. Ndipo izi ndi zachilendo, chifukwa ndife tonse anthu. Kumbukirani, kunyozedwa kwa mtundu umenewu kumapangitsa munthu kukhala wofooka. Poyankha, mutha kuvutika kwambiri, chifukwa mumakhudza mwamuna wake wamwamuna.
Lamulo lachisanu la golidi: khalani anzeru ndipo mugwiritse ntchito mphamvu za wokondedwa wanu, mosamala mwanzeru pa ofooka! Kugonana, monga lamulo, ndizo zowonjezereka komanso zotsalira. Amuna amaopa kutayika mkazi amene amamulimbitsa ndi wolimba mtima.
Dziwani za vuto lachuma
Malo ena odwala a amuna ambiri ndizochuma. Kudzudzula ntchito yake, malipiro, zotsutsa za mtengo wa mphatso ndi zina zotero nthawi zambiri zimayambitsa kugonana kwathunthu.
Lamulo lachisanu ndi chimodzi la golidi: musamatsutse zachuma cha wosankhidwa wanu. Ngati simukukhutira ndi zomwe akupeza, kambiranani za bungwe la banja momwe mungasinthire umoyo wanu. Mwamuna sadzafuna konse kutayika mkazi yemwe amadziwa kuti ndalama ndi zotchipa kusiyana ndi chikondi.
Musakhale osakhutira ndi mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo
Kubwezeretsanso chikondi chomwe poyamba chinali kulankhulana ndi zovuta ngakhale pambuyo pa masiku angapo amwano, osatchula mikangano yaitali. Kulumikizana molunjika ndizofunikira kwambiri kuti zinthu ziziyenda bwino.
Lamulo lachisanu ndi chiwiri la golidi: ngati mumakonda wosankhidwa wanu, phunzirani kuchitenga, osati kujambula chithunzi chomwe munachikoka pamwezi iyo pamene akukukondani. Mwamuna adzayamikira ndipo adzachita mantha kukutaya iwe.