Kugonana atabereka: mavuto

Agwirizane, posachedwa kapena mtsogolo, mkazi aliyense amakumana ndi moyo wake ndi kugonana. Kudziletsa kumeneku kungayambitsidwe ndi zifukwa zingapo. Pazifukwazi, zimadalira nthawi yochuluka yomwe thupi lanu lidzasinthidwe kuti azigonana nthawi zonse. Asayansi atsimikizira kuti atatha kubereka pamene mwana akudyetsa, thupi limatulutsidwa, lomwe limachepetsa libido ndipo limayambitsa lactation, ndipo ziyenera kuwonjezeredwa kuti pambuyo pa kubadwa thupi lachikazi libwezeretsedwa kwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi molingana ndi ziwalo zingapo za thupi komanso, panthawiyi, mkaziyo sali pafupi kugonana.

Yambani kugonana mwakhama pambuyo posiya kudziletsa kwa nthawi yaitali sikumphweka. Kudziletsa kwa nthawi yaitali kumabweretsa mfundo yakuti pa nthawi yoyamba kugonana mkazi amamva kuti amatha kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino komanso osokonezeka maganizo. Pambuyo polowera pakhomo mu chipinda, kukhumudwa kwa makhalidwe kumamveka, mantha amawonekera. Kudziletsa kumabweretsa kusintha kovuta kwa maganizo komanso kutuluka kwa otchedwa "umasiye wamasiye". Azimayi okhala ndi zovuta zotere amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi chikondi cha wokondedwa wawo, pamene zimakhala zovuta ndipo nthawi zina sitingathe kukwaniritsa zachiwawa. Pakati pa kudziletsa, thupi limamangidwanso ndipo matupi omwe ali ndi udindo wokopa amayamba kugwira ntchito pamunsi, pamene mkazi sakufuna kugonana monga choncho. Pachifukwa ichi kuthana ndi vutoli lidzathandiza katswiri yekha.

Azimayi ogonana amagawidwa mwachikhalidwe mwa mitundu iwiri: mwa amayi ena, chilakolako chogonana chikuwonjezeka panthawi ya kudziletsa, pamene ena amatha kugona. Azimayi, omwe chilakolako chawo cha kugonana chikuwonjezeka, akufuna kwambiri kugonana, wokondedwa wawo ayenera kubwera nthawi zonse ndi chinachake chatsopano. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti akazi oterewa ali ngati osiyana nawo, chifukwa cha kukhutira kwawo, mitundu yosiyanasiyana imafunika.

Ena amavomereza kugonana ndi okwera njinga, ngati mukudziwa momwe, ndiye kumbukirani, koma chifukwa cha chidaliro ichi sichimamatiridwa. Mutu mwamsanga pali mafunso ambiri okhudza kukongola kwawo ndi maluso. Ndipo tsopano talingalirani, ndiye kuti chigamulo chanu chomenyera chilango chamatha ndipo mutha kulowa mudziko la zosangalatsa zakuthupi. Kuti muchotse chisokonezo musanayambe kugonana musanapite nthawi yaitali, muyenera kumvetsa zinthu zingapo:

Konzani thupi lanu, fufuzani momwe zidzakhudzire ndi stroking yosavuta.

Ngati uyu ndi mnzanu wapamtima ndipo musanayambe kugonana, musafulumire kukondana naye. Muzikhala naye nthawi ndikudikirira mpaka chikhumbo chanu chidzuka. Ngati simukufuna, ndiye kuti simukuyenera kukakamiza.

Pumulani, zidzakhala zomwe ziyenera kukhala. Ngati mutu wanu uli ndi maganizo, simungasangalale ndi ziwerengero zilizonse. Lekani kuganiza molimbika.

Ndiwe mkazi, ndipo akazi amapangidwa kuti azisangalala. Musakhale odzichepetsa ndikupempha mnzanuyo kuti aganizire zogonana zanu zonse.

Khalani otetezeka, musakhale wamanyazi.

Samalani kwambiri pa preresses caresses, musachedwe kuyesa zosangalatsa nthawi imodzi.

Ngati choyamba chokanira chifukwa chazifukwa sichikanakhoza kudzutsa chilakolako chanu cha kugonana kapena simunamasulidwe, tengani kusamba pamodzi ndi mnyamata wanu.

Iwe ndiwe wodalirika ndi wokongola mwa iwemwini mkazi, iwe suli kulemba pa mphumi pako pamene pali kugonana kotsiriza, usadandaule.

Ngati uyu ndi wokondedwa wanu wokhazikika, yesetsani, monga mwachizoloŵezi, musasewere, koma chitani zomwe malingaliro anu akukuuzani.

Ngati simungakwanitse kufika pamtima kwa nthawi yaitali, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kufunsa katswiri.