Moyo wamagonana wamakono wafika panthawi yomwe chilakolako cholandira ndi kusangalala sikuti chinangokhalapo, koma chilimbikitso, ndithudi, chimavomerezedwa ndi madokotala ndi zochepa zoyenera. Ndicho chifukwa chake moyo weniweni wa chiwerewere ukutchulidwa mu nthano zambiri. Makamaka nkhani zambiri zonyenga zogwirizana ndi zifukwa zothetsera ubale wapamtima.
Choncho tiyeni tione ngati msungwana saloledwa kuchita zogonana, ndipo pamene mungathe kuchita zosiyana.
Nthano yoyamba.
Poyamba, kuyankhulana kwapakati pa masiku ovuta ndi zolankhula sizingatheke. Chilichonse chimatanthauzidwa ndi zakuthupi za thupi lakazi. Pakati pa msambo, kachilombo ka HIV kamakhala kochepa pang'ono, choncho panthawi yogonana, chiopsezo cha tizilombo timalowa mkati ndikuyamba kutengapo matenda mu uterine. Komanso, thupi lachikazi silikulimbana ndi matenda pa nthawiyi, ndipo kotero kuti mwinamwake kuti pambuyo pogonana pangakhale kutupa m'mimba kumawonjezeka.
Madokotala amakono amakhulupirira kwambiri kugonana pa nthawi ya kusamba. Msungwanayo akutsutsana kokha pokhapokha osagwiritsira ntchito njira zoberekera, popeza izi zidzachepetsa chiopsezo chotenga matenda, komanso kuteteza mimba yosafuna.
Nthano yakuti nthawi ya kusamba sangathe kutenga mimba ndi nthano. N'zotheka kukhala ndi pakati, ndipo izi ndi chifukwa chakuti spermatozoa yomwe yagwera m'mimba imasunga ulendo wawo kwa sabata.
Komanso nthawi zina, kugonana pa masiku ovuta kumalimbikitsidwa, chifukwa kumathandiza kuthetsa ululu, ndipo kumapindulitsa pa maganizo a mkazi. Chinthu chokha chimene chingakulepheretseni kumbali ya funso, koma ngati sichivutitsa aliyense - chitani molimba mtima.
Bodza lachiwiri.
Inde, izi si nthano chabe, lamulo lokha lomwe liri ndi zosiyana. Kawirikawiri zimatsutsana ndi kugonana, osati kwa atsikana okha pakudwala matenda opatsirana pogonana. Izi zikuphatikizapo: matenda a fungal, chlamydia, mycoplasmosis, ureaplasmosis, gardnerellez ndi ena.
Inde, pali "koma". Monga akunena, pazochitika zotero: «Pamene sikutheka, koma kwambiri zingakhale zofunika - zomwe ndizofunikira». Chinthu chachikulu choti muchite zonse mwanzeru. Kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa kondomu ndikoyenera, mwinamwake inu mumadwala mwadzidzidzi matenda a mnzanuyo. Musaiwale kuti matenda oterewa amafalitsidwa ndi zosiyana siyana za kugonana, kuphatikizapo kugonana ndi ana komanso kugonana. Kotero, posankha njira yokhutira, choyamba ganizirani za chitetezo.
Nthano zitatu.
Ambiri amakhulupirira kuti kugonana pa nthawi yoyembekezera sikuletsedwa. Mwinamwake nthawizina izo zinali. Koma lero kwa mabanja ang'onoang'ono, mimba imangokhala mpata woti ayesere, ndikuwonetsa malingaliro. Milandu yodziwika ndiyomwe imachitika pangozi panthawi ya mimba, ndi chiletso cha dokotala, ndiye okonda ayenera kuchepetsa mphamvu zawo ndi kuzunzika.
Mofananamo, chipiriro chidzafunika ngati mtsikanayo akuchitidwa opaleshoni m'mimba mwachisawawa, kapena ziwalo zoberekera zinakhudzidwa. Nthawi yodziletsa imayankhula ndi madokotala okha, koma pafupipafupi ndi masabata 4. Inde, musayembekezere kubwerera mofulumira ku moyo wogonana wogwira ntchito, chifukwa pachiyambi asungwana amatsutsana pazochitika zomwe zimatanthauza kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kulowa mkati mozama, kugonana mofulumira ndi kuganizira zofuna zanu.
Chinthu chapadera ndi kupititsa mimba monga kuchotsa mimba. Pambuyo pochotsa mimba, chiberekero chiri mu malo otsekemera, omwe omwe sali nawo mwayi wogonana. Zomwe zimagwirizanitsa maganizo zingathandizenso ntchito yaing'ono.
Koma, patapita nthawi, abwenziwo amabwerera ku chizoloŵezi chachikhalidwe cha moyo wapamtima ndipo sakhala ndi vuto lililonse.
Tsono pano mukhoza kufotokoza mutu wa kugonana atabereka. Kawirikawiri, mwana atabadwa pokhudzana ndi kugonana, mukhoza kuiwala kwa nthawi yosachepera masabata asanu ndi limodzi. Izi zimafotokozedwa mosavuta ndi kuti pakubereka, matenda a chiberekero ndi mitsempha yoberekera amapangidwa, ndipo kubwezeretsa kumafuna nthawi. Ndiyeneranso kukumbukira kuthekera kwa matenda.
Pamapeto pa nthawiyi, mutha kukondana wina ndi mzake, koma musaiwale za kulera, pokhapokha ngati, ana anu sakuphatikizidwe.
Zosiyanasiyana.
Zosewera zamagonana zosiyana, ndi mwayi wokondweretsa wina ndi mzake osati mwachizoloŵezi, zimapangitsa kugonana kukhala kosangalatsa kwambiri. Achinyamata amakono amakondwera kuyesa, ndipo amakana kugonana kumalankhula komanso kugonana.
Mukamagwiritsira ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kwa atsikana, kusamvana kungakhale kukhalapo kwa mnzanuyo, matenda ena opatsirana pogonana, kapena kusowa chidaliro. Zikatero, ndi bwino kuyembekezera mpaka mutatha mankhwala.
Kugonana kwa mtsikana kumakhala koopsa kwambiri kusiyana ndi zosangalatsa. Malinga ndi chiwerengero, amai ochepa chabe amatha kukhala ndi moyo wokondwa, nthawi zina, kugonana koteroko kumakhala ndi zotsatirapo. Izi ndizokuti malo a thupi lachikazi, omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito pa kugonana kwa abambo, amakhala okhudzidwa ndi zowawa komanso zosautsa mosavuta, ndipo motero pali mwayi wopezeka ndi kukhazikitsa matenda, omwe sangakhale ndi zotsatira zabwino kwambiri.
Kugonana mu mawonetseredwe ake onse si chinthu chachilendo, ndi gawo lina la moyo wathu. Kupatsana zosangalatsa za wina ndi mzake ndi kulandira izo zikhumba ku chirichonse. Ndizowona kuti tiyenera kuyamikira kubadwa kwathu. Koma musaiwale kuyamikira ndi kuteteza thanzi lanu, ndiyeno zinthu zosasangalatsa zidzathetsedwa.