Chitsanzo cha ukwati wachiwiri
Kukumana ndi okwatirana kumene
Choncho, achinyamata atatha kulembetsa ku ofesi yolembera kuntchito amayendetsa mpaka ku phwandolo la phwandolo. Paulendo kupita ku khomo la phwando la phwando, alendo akuimirira kumbali zonse osakwatirana ndi maluwa, tirigu ndi ndalama.
Pakhomo la okwatirana makolo amalandiridwa ndi mkate wamwambo ndi mchere (ma vola) pamapiri okongoletsera, kudalitsa moyo wautali ndi wosangalala. Mkwati ndi mkwatibwi wweramitsani, phulani chidutswa cha mkate, kuwaza ndi mchere ndikudya. Monga zosankha, achinyamata okwatirana amadyetsana ndi mkate wosweka. Panthawiyi, alendo amathokoza okwatiranawo ndi maluwa ndi zikhumbo zofuna chimwemwe, chikondi ndi chitukuko. Kenaka, malinga ndi zochitika za ukwati wachiwiri, banja lachichepere limaperekedwa ndi galasi la vinyo pa gome laukwati, lomwe liyenera kuti liledzere pansi - woyamba mkwati, ndiyeno mkwatibwi. Galasi lopanda kanthu imathyoledwa (mwachisangalalo) ndipo anyamata akudutsamo. Chowonadi ndi chakuti mwambo umenewu umaimira mgwirizano wa okwatirana, kupatukana ndi zakale ndi kulowa mu siteji yatsopano.
Mboni zimapereka moni kwa anthu amene angokwatirana kumene, atanyamula kabini pafupifupi kugwira pansi. Panthawiyi, wolandiridwayo akuti: "Tikukhumba kuti kuyambira tsopano mutenge zofunikira zonse pamodzi, ndipo zovuta zomwe zimabuka pamoyo wanu zimagonjetsedwanso pamodzi. Pano pali tepi imene mungathe kudutsa mosavuta. Lolani kupyolera mu zopinga ndi mavuto onse m'moyo mwanu mutha kuwoloka momasuka. "
Phwando laukwati
Mnyamatayo anati: "Tikuitana alendo okondedwa kuti azipita ku gome lathu laukwati." Pamene okwatirana ndi alendo akukhala pansi, phwandolo limayamba. Inde, kukwatirana kwachiwiri kwachiwiri sikunali kosiyana ndi koyamba, ndipo kukuwa "Zowawa!" Zimaperekedwanso kawirikawiri kuchokera kumapeto osiyanasiyana a tebulo. Nazi zitsanzo za maukwati apamanja okwatirana omwe akufuna kukwatirana kumene, omwe angathe kutchula mkonzi kapena kukonzekera alendo pasadakhale.
"Lero banja latsopano libadwa. Tiyeni tiwawuze okwatiranawo za malamulo a moyo wa banja. Kotero, tsopano muyenera kupanga zokambirana pamodzi, kumvetsera wina ndi mzake. Mavuto ndi mikangano "razrulivayte" mwa njira zamtendere. Kumbukirani kuti nthabwala ndi zokoma zimakuthandizani kuthetsa mavuto. Mwamuna ayenera kukonda mkazi wake ndi kuiwala za amayi ena. Ndipo mkaziyo, nayenso, amayesetsa kukhala wokongola nthawi zonse komanso wokondwa. Pitirizani kulemekezana ndi chikondi. Lolani apongozi anu azikonda apongozi awo, ndi apongozi anu. "
"Lerolino, okwatirana okongolawa alowerera m'mitima mwawo ndikusunga, atapeza mgwirizano uwu ndi mphete ziwiri zaukwati. Lolani mphete ziwiri izi zikhale zogwirizana kwambiri ndi mndandanda umodzi, womwe palibe amene angathe. Mulole moyo wanu ukhale mwayi, chimwemwe ndi chikondi. Tidzakweza magalasi kwa banja "latsopano"! Ndizowawa! ".
Kodi chophika chokwatira pa ukwati wachiwiri chikulankhulidwa ndi makolo a okwatirana kumene? Chilichonse chimene chimachitika m'banja, makolo nthawi zonse amafuna kuti ana awo azikhala abwino kwambiri. "Ana athu okondedwa! Lero ndi tsiku lowala laukwati wanu - munakhala mwamuna ndi mkazi. Lolani chikondi chanu kwa wina ndi mzake kupitilize ndi inu kudutsa zaka. Maloto anu onse ndi zikhumbo zanu zichitike. "
Kenaka, okwatiranawo apatsidwa "Zokwatirana Malamulo", omwe ali ndi "malamulo" a moyo wa banja. Chilemba choterocho chikhoza kuperekedwa mwa mawonekedwe a kabuku katsopano kapena mpukutu wakale wokhala ndi chisindikizo.
Pa zochitika za ukwati wachiwiri, mukhoza kuphatikiza mipikisano yambiri yokondweretsa ndi mafunso. Zosangalatsa ziyenera kukonzedwa pasadakhale mwa kusankha zosangalatsa ndi zokondweretsa masewera kwa okwatirana kumene ndi alendo. Mapeto a phwandolo adzakhala mwambo wodula keke yaukwati.
Kulembetsa kwachiwiri kwaukwati
Azimayi ambiri, atakumana ndi banja loyamba lopambana, sakufulumizitsa kuyanjanitsa ngakhale maubwenzi atsopano. Zoonadi, zovuta zomwe zakhala zikuchitika kale zimapangitsa "zopinga" kuti munthu akhale ndi moyo wosangalala. Komabe, simukufunika kutseketsa mtima wanu ku nyumbayi ndikupitirizabe kubwerera kumbuyo. Zidzakhala zokwanira ngati mwapeza mfundo zolondola kuchokera m'banja lanu loyamba, kuti mupewe kubwereza zomwezo muukwati wachiwiri.
Ndikumva, mwana wa zovuta zovuta ...
Choyamba, chotsani ukwati wakale m'mbuyomu ndipo usamutengere ku chiyanjano ndi mwamuna wanu wachiwiri. Kumbukirani kuti pamene mukulembetsa ukwati wachiwiri mudzayenera kupereka maudindo ena, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti akwatirane. Choncho, muyenera kulingalira mosamala zinthu zonse. Komanso, tsopano muli ndi lingaliro lina la moyo wa banja.
Ana ndi kukwatiranso
Dzikondeni nokha!
Pambuyo pa kusudzulana, mkazi amadziona kuti ndi wopanda pake ndipo amasiyidwa, ngakhale woyambitsa magawanoyo ndiye mwiniwake. Musatseke mu makoma anayi! Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi ndi anzanu, pewani kuchita zosangalatsa, mvetserani maonekedwe anu. Ndipotu, mkazi wokondwa komanso wokhutira yekha amakoka amuna ngati maginito. Khalani okondweretsa pamalo oyamba nokha.
Ukwati wachiwiri - sankhani kavalidwe
Kumbukirani kuti ukwati wachiwiri suli "wawiri" wa woyamba, koma chochitika chatsopano ndi chofunika kwambiri m'moyo wanu watsopano. Khalani okondwa ndi okondedwa!