Pakati pa zokambirana za amayi ambiri, ndi bwino kufotokoza nkhani yofunika ngati kukula kwa ulemu wa amuna awo. Azimayi achichepere omwe theka lawo silingadabwe ndi kukula kwawo, nthawi zambiri amatenga nawo mbali pokambirana. Koma bwanji, nkhani imeneyi ndi yofunikira kwambiri pa kugonana kwabwino?
Amuna, nawonso, sasamala kwambiri za kukula kwa matupi awo omwe. Inde, amayesetsa kuchita zonse zomwe zingatheke kuti awonjezere ulemu wawo wamwamuna, koma nkhaniyi siipweteka kwa iwo. Koma kwa akazi mosiyana. Miyeso yodabwitsa ikuwonetsedwa ndi mkazi, monga chowonadi, kutsindika kupambana kwa osankhidwa awo pa ena. Koma, komabe, ndi kofunikansobe kukula, koma kukhutira ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu zomwe chirengedwe chadalitsa.
Ngati wokondedwa wanu ali ndi mbolo yaing'ono, ndipo mnzanuyo sikuti ndizokopa kokha, koma komanso wokondedwa, ndiye kuti muyenera kutsata mfundo zina za khalidwe lolondola m'mikhalidwe yotereyi. Zowopsya za kukula kwake, mwinamwake pali theka la izo, koma, palibe, vutoli silingakhoze kulimbikitsidwa ndi kulimbikitsidwa. Zimadalira inu, yemwe mnzanuyo adzamvekanso pabedi.
Nambala imodzi ya Council
Kumbukirani kuti musayambe muyang'anitsitsa kukula kwake, zomwe chilengedwe chinapereka. Ngakhale nthabwala, musatembenuke ku mutu uwu. Popeza mudzamuseka ndi kuiwala, kapena mwina simungayambe kuiganizira, koma theka lanu lidzakumbukira mawu anu. Ndipo, izo sizidzadutsa opanda tsatanetsatane, zonse kwa osankhidwa anu, ndi kwa inu.
Nambala yachiwiri ya Council
Pofuna kuti muwonjezere kudzidalira mu theka lachiwiri, musadwale. Ndipotu, kuyamikira kotereku kumakupatsani mwayi, ndipo kuchitapo kanthu mwakachetechete sikungapangitse chabwino chilichonse. Pambuyo pa zonse, inu nokha simuli mawu, mwanjira iyi, kupatsa wokondedwa wanu "chakudya choganiza". Ndipo zovuta za miyeso yaing'ono zidzangowonjezereka.
Nambala yachitatu, yomwe ndi yofunika kwambiri
Landirani wosankhidwa wanu momwe iye alili. Pachifukwa ichi, mudzapewa zochitika zomwe muyenera kuganizira, ngati kuti musayambe kutaya mawuwo. Chilichonse chidzabwera kuchokera mu mtima wangwiro, osati mwachinyengo.
Ndi bwino kumvetsera zina zomwe mungathe kugawana ndi theka lanu lachiwiri.
- Zatsimikiziridwa kuti anthu ena omwe ali ndi vuto lalikulu la kugonana amasautsika kukula kwa ulemu wawo mopanda nzeru. Zimakhulupirira kuti ku gulu la kukula kwazing'ono ndikofunika kupereka nthawi ya masentimita khumi. Ndipo chirichonse chomwe chiri zoposa masentimita khumi, kwenikweni, chimatengedwa kuti ndichizolowezi.
- Ndipo kale, ku Girisi, chiwalo chochepa kwambiri chinali chofunika koposa, popeza kukula uku kunkawoneka kuti "kotere". Zonse chifukwa umuna umathamanga mtunda wawung'ono usanayambe kutha.
- Aliyense amadziwa kuti amuna ambiri ogonana ndi omwe ali a mtundu wa Spain. Ndipo pambuyo pa zonse, malinga ndi chiwerengero, ambiri a ku Spain ali ndi ulemu wosaposa masentimita asanu ndi awiri.
Zokoma zimayambitsa kugonana ndi mwamuna wamtengo wapatali
Wokondedwa wanu ali ndi ubwino wa kukula kwake kwakukulu. Tiyeni tione zomwe zikuchitika muzochitika zoterezi. Mwachitsanzo, kugonana mkamwa. Muyenera kuyamika okondedwa anu chifukwa cha kukula kwa ziwalo zake.
Tiyeni tibwererenso kugonana komweko. Apa chirichonse chimadalira malingaliro anu ndipo mukufuna kukhala okhutira. Pali masewera ambiri omwe amalowa mzimayi mozama kwambiri. Kumalo otereko n'zotheka kunyamula "wokwera" pamene mkaziyo ali wochokera kumwamba. Kapena, vutoli ndi lofala kwambiri omwe abwenzi amadzipezerana patsogolo pawo, ndiko kuti, amakhala pansi ndi maso. Malinga ndi maganizo a anthu ogonana pa nkhaniyi, pali mfundo yachikazi, yomwe panthawi yamagonana, mwamuna akhoza kumusangalatsa. Izi ndizotheka, pomwe pangoyamba ndi maso ndi maso.
Ngati, mkhalidwe wanu uli wofunikira, ndipo mukukhutirabe mulibe kukula kwake, ziribe kanthu. M'dziko lamakono, pali njira zingapo zochokera mu zofanana zofanana, monga shopu la kugonana. Pano mungapeze zosangalatsa zambiri. Mwachitsanzo, pali zojambulidwa kwa membala, zomwe mungapangire zomwe mukusowa. Chisangalalo chikhoza kuperekedwa kwa iwemwini, kotero mnzanuyo sadzasiyidwa.
Palinso chinthu chomwe chimatchedwa chida, monga mafuta, omwe mungachepetse kukula kwa chiberekero. Chifukwa cha makoma ang'onoting'ono, kuti afike pamasewera sivuta. Komanso, pali chinthu monga "kukankhira", ndiko kugwiritsa ntchito zala panthawi ya kugonana. Zidzakupatsani chisangalalo ndikusiyanitsa moyo wanu wogonana.