Palibe chodetsa nkhaŵa, chifukwa chilakolako cha amuna kapena akazi sichibadwa mwachilengedwe, kotero chimaonedwa ngati chilengedwe. Ndipo ngakhale abambo achikazi akudabwa kuti asungwana omwe ali ngati anyamata, achinyamata amadzifunsa okha mosiyana, koma funso lofanana. Koma tidzakhala ndi atsikana okhawo mpaka pano. Nanga ndi atsikana ati amene amakopeka ndi anyamata?
Chithunzi
Atsikana amakhulupirira kuti ndi chiwerengero chomwe chili chofunikira kwambiri pa maonekedwe awo. Azimayi amakhala pamaphunziro ovuta, amayendera malo ogona ndi zolimbitsa thupi ndi chirichonse kuti akhale ochepa. Ndipo atsikanawo amadabwa nthawi zonse pamene bwenzi lawo, lomwe liri lolemera kuposa katatu, amakondwera ndi kalonga wokongola. Kotero, izo zikutanthauza kuti si chiwerengero. Ayi, ndithudi, simukusowa kuthamanga thupi lanu, muyenera kuyang'anitsitsa chiwerengerocho, simukusowa kupanga zovuta zonse kuchokera ku zofooka zazing'ono ndi kunena kuti kulemera kwakukulu kulikonse, kapena mosiyana, kudalira kwambiri. Kondani thupi lanu ndipo palibe wina adzawona zolephera zanu.
Yang'anani
Pali atsikana omwe amathira misonzi mumtsamiro, chifukwa amadziona kuti ndi oipa. Koma muyenera kuganizira za lingaliro la kukongola ndilo? Pambuyo pa zonse, munthu aliyense amalingalira zokongola? Sungani zomwezo? Ndiwo aliyense amene amakonda atsikana okondana, okondwa. Ndipotu izi ndi zomwe zimapangitsa mtsikana kukhala wokongola. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, kuti mukondweretse mnyamata, muyenera kusintha maganizo anu kudziko. Za zodzoladzola pamaso, tikhoza kunena kuti anthu amazindikira, osati ayi, ngati "maonekedwe olimbana", omwe amawakankhira kutali posankha bwenzi la moyo. Mwachidule, pepala locheperapo pamaso, ndi mwayi wopeza munthu. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, kudzipangira kumafunika kukhala pamalo ndi nthawi komanso popanda.
Makhalidwe
Chofunika kwa anyamata m'misungwana, ndi kulemekeza amuna kapena akazi. Izi zikutanthauza kuti musamuuze momasuka kuti muzhiks onse ndi oipa ndipo palibe oyenerera pakati pa amuna. Mofananamo, amuna samalola akazi omwe akufuna kuthetsa mavuto awo. Mayiyo ayenera kukhala wofooka, afunseni munthuyo kuti athandize kubweretsa matumba kapena kusuntha chipinda. Mwamuna ayenera kukhala wolimba ndi woyenera. Ndili mkati mwa munthu, motero.
Mnyamata akamasankha mtsikana kukhala pachibwenzi, kwa banja, akuyang'ana mkazi wabwino wa amayi, mayi kwa ana ake ndipo sizikuoneka kuti fanoli lidzagwirizana ndi mkazi wosuta akumwa mowa. Kotero, muyenera kuganiza. Mnyamatayo sangamange ubale weniweni ndi mtsikana yemwe amakonda kuyendera magulu a zosangalatsa, kuthamangira ndikupita ku malo odyera.
Anyamata samakonda:
Simungakhoze kusonyeza malingaliro anu ndi kukongola kwanu, kuwonetsa munthu wina molakwika. Zikuwoneka zoipa kwambiri ndipo sizimakonda mwamuna.
Musamamukonda munthuyo komanso nkhope yake yamwano. Sichikusowa kuvala chigoba chokhumudwa ndi kukhumudwa. Izi sizimapangitsa nkhope ya munthu kukhala yosangalatsa.
Amuna nthawi zonse amamva bwino, chifukwa amatha kuwona pamaso pa mtsikanayo. Maganizo ayenera kukhala ogwirizana, ndiye kuti ubale udzakhala wokondwa komanso wautali. Ngati munthu sakusangalatsani, zimakhala zosavuta kuti anenepo nthawi yomweyo ndikuwongolera m'maso mwake kuposa kudziyeretsa ndi kunama, ndipo pamapeto pake amamuuza kuti sakuyenera.
Choncho, pali zifukwa zitatu zazikulu zomwe atsikana amanyalanyazidwa ndi anyamata ngakhale ku kampani yaikulu kwambiri - kusawona mtima, malingaliro, kudziwonetsera nokha potsalira ena.
Ndipo kuchokera pamwambapa, mukhoza kufotokozera chinthu chachikulu kuti musangalatse mwamuna, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito osachepera pamaso panu, osachepera kuganizira zofooka zanu ndi kukhala mkazi weniweni, wofooka amene akusowa thandizo ndi abambo amuna.
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