Kuchokera pa zonse zomwe zanenedwa pamwambapa, zikhoza kuwona kuti chinthu chotero monga chithunzi cha abambo chimakhudza kwambiri maubwenzi amtsogolo ndi wokondedwa. Ndipo izi zimachitika mwa amayi onse, ngakhale omwe sankadziwa bambo awo.
Njira zazikuluzikulu, momwe chiwonetsero cha fano la bambo pachiyanjano ndi wokondedwa chikuwonetseredwa.
Tiyeni tione, momwe zifaniziro za abambo (nthawi zina osati momveka bwino) zimakhudza maubwenzi ndi anthu omwe akukhala nawo limodzi.
Njira zazikuluzikulu ndi zitatu, izi ndi njira yeniyeni, njira yosiyana ndi njira yowonjezereka. Tiyeni tione izi pansipa.
1. Njira yolunjika.
Njira yeniyeni yowonetsera chifaniziro cha bambo, monga lamulo, imapezeka m'mabanja omwe ali ndi "nyengo" yabwino, kumene okwatirana amakondana ndi ana awo. Ndiye mwanayo akukula akuwona chikondi ichi ndi zonse zabwino. Pankhaniyi, chithunzi cha abambo chimafotokozedwa kwa abwenzi amtsogolo (mwachitsanzo, msungwanayo mosamala kapena akuyang'ana mnzawo pafupi ndi bambo ake momwe zingathere) kuti akwaniritse naye maganizo ofanana omwe, komanso anali ndi makolo ake.
2. Njira ya chikoka kuchokera kumbali.
Njira yomwe fano la bambo limakhudzira zosiyana (mwachitsanzo, mkazi amayang'ana antipode) bambo nthawi zambiri amapezeka m'mabanja omwe mlengalenga sankasokonezeka (zoopsa, mikangano, kuchitira nkhanza mwana kapena pakati pa mwamuna kapena mkazi). Pankhaniyi, msungwanayo amalimbikitsa kutsutsa kosalekeza kwa chifaniziro cha abambo ake, ndipo mtsikanayo akuyang'ana mnzawo yemwe sali wofanana naye, nthawi zina sikuti amangoganizira za makhalidwe ake okha, komanso maonekedwe ake. Mwachitsanzo, ngati bamboyo ali wamtali, ndiye kuti mtsikanayo amakonda masewera amsana kapena pansipa.
3. Kusokoneza maganizo.
Njira imeneyi ndi yowonjezera chifukwa chakuti maubwenzi awiri ndi azimayi amakhala ndi zovuta komanso nthawi zogwirizana. Ndi njira iyi yogonjetsera fano la atate, fano lake limatengedwa ngati maziko ndikukonzekera (izi zimachitika, monga lamulo, osadziŵa). Zomwe zimayikidwa msungwanayo ndizowoneka bwino, zimayesedwa kwa wokondedwa wawo. Zofanana zomwe sizikukondweretsa mwa abambo, zimachotsedwa. Izi zimachitika mozama ndi mozama komanso mosiyana kwambiri.
Monga tatchulidwa kale, mtundu wachitatu ndi wofala kwambiri, pafupifupi 70-80%. Ena otsalawo amachepetsa chiwerengero chotsalira.
Mphamvu ya chifaniziro cha abambo mwa amayi omwe anakulira popanda iye.
Chinthu chosiyana chikhoza kudziwika ndi amayi omwe sankamudziwa bambo awo kapena osakhala nawo nthawi yambiri. Pankhani iyi, sikunenedwa za abambo opeza kapena makolo olerera, popeza n'zotheka kuganiza kuti abambo opeza kapena abambo olerera amakhala osiyana kwambiri ndi fano la atate.
Ndikulankhula za atsikana, amayi omwe amaleredwa ndi osungulumwa kapena akaidi amasiye, kapena agogo. Zikatero, monga lamulo, pali vuto lalikulu la maganizo pa mwanayo panthawi yomwe ikukula (chifukwa cha kusowa kwa machitidwe a m'banja ndi chikoka cha bambo pa mapangidwe a umunthu). Pankhaniyi, tikhoza kunena (ndi lingaliro lina) kuti chifaniziro cha abambo chidzakhala chophatikizidwa ndi kupangidwa mothandizidwa ndi zofalitsa, zofalitsa, zojambulajambula za atate a mabanja omwe mayiyo amawona panthawi yopanga umunthu. Zithunzi zimenezi sizikhala zokwanira pazinthu zenizeni za moyo, zomwe nthawi zina zimayambitsa mavuto oterewa pakati pa amai ndi abambo.
Inde, fano la atate silolokha lomwe limakhudza ubale ndi mnzanuyo, koma angatchedwe chimodzi mwachinsinsi.