Mkazi aliyense anali ndi luso lachinyengo. Izi zimafuna kukondweretsa amuna, kukondweretsa, kukondweretsa, kumanga munthu nokha, chithumwa, ndi zina. Zinsinsi za kunyengerera kwa amayi zimatha kuthetsedwa popanda zovuta ngati wina akupeza njira yabwino yothetsera vutoli. Akazi akhala akugwiritsa ntchito lusoli. Koma ndikuti ndiji komanso momwe tingagwiritsire ntchito luso lachinyengo ndi kupangitsa kuti likhale lopambana, tidzakambirana nanu tsopano.
Kusokoneza ndi kutengeka
Kuwonetsa ndi kukonda ena ndi zinthu zosiyana kwambiri zomwe sizigwirizana. Ndipotu mungathe kukopeka ndi aliyense amene mukufuna, ngakhale ndi wina yemwe sakudziwa inu ndi moyo wanu, kungokulimbikitsani, kapena kuphunzitsa ena, kapena kuti mupatse ubale wanu momveka bwino piquancy. Ngati simukusowa mwamuna, ndiye kuti mumangokonda chabe ndikuyiwala.
Kutenga ndi njira yosiyana, yachirengedwe komanso yothandiza. Musanyengedwe ndi wina aliyense, ngati simungayambe kukonda ndi munthu. Muyenera kukhala osamala kwambiri. Choyamba, muyenera kuyika chinthu choyenera kwa inu, chomwe chimakupangitsani kufuna kumanga ubwenzi wautali ndi wolimba. Chabwino, ngati muli ndibwino, khalani ndi munthuyu moyo wanu wonse, ndikufa nawo tsiku limodzi. Chabwino, ngati muli ndi lingaliro lakuti satelanti yomwe mukukonzekera, siidyetsedwa kwa inu, ndiye kudzakhala kokwanira kuti mutenge zaka zingapo mu gulu lake. Mukasankha chinthu chomwe mwasankha, muyenera kumusangalatsa munthuyu ndi njira zanu zonse, zomwe ziyenera kupezeka mu arsenal ya mkazi wamakono wamakono.
Kukopa kumafuna luso lina
Zinsinsi za luso la amai si zovuta kufotokoza, koma n'zotheka. Kodi mungamunyengere bwanji munthu? Nchiyani chomwe chiyenera kuchitidwa kuti chimveke pa chinthu chomwe mwasankha, kuti ndinu woyenera kukhala naye, wokongola ndi wofuna kukhala naye kwa moyo wanu wonse? N'kosavuta kunyengerera munthu, ngati mukufunadi.
Kuti munthu akhale wanu mofulumira komanso mosavuta, muyenera kudziwa zovuta zonse ndi zochepa za psychology ndi zinsinsi za kupusitsa akazi, kuti agwirizane nawo ndikugwirizana nawo. Ndithudi aliyense ankadabwa chifukwa chake atsikana ena amakonda amuna, ndipo ena samvetsera. Kawirikawiri amakopeka ndi amuna ndi atsikana omwe amatha kuyankhulana nawo, ndipo ziribe kanthu kaya muli ndi maonekedwe kapena ayi.
Kodi mukuganiza kuti njirayi ndi yophweka komanso yowonjezera maubwenzi ndi amuna? Komabe, izi zatsimikiziridwa ndi sayansi ndi akatswiri a maganizo, akatswiri omwe amayesa kufotokoza zinsinsi zachinyengo, ndipo ngakhale moyo wokha umatiwonetsa kuti zonse ziri chimodzimodzi chonchi. Kudziwa koteroko kukubweretsani bwino, muyenera kungogwiritsa ntchito mwanzeru. Ngati mumadziwa ndikudziwa za thupi ndi maganizo onse a anthu, mungathe kupewa zolakwa zambiri zomwe, ndithudi, asungwana ambiri apanga patsogolo panu, mungagwiritse ntchito luso lanu ndi luso lanu, pamene mukunyengerera kwambiri Amuna ambiri ndi amuna. Zimatsimikiziridwa kuti amayi omwe, omwe amadziwa zinsinsi zonse komanso zovuta zonse za maganizo, samakhala ndi vuto polimbana ndi amuna, amalankhulana nawo mosavuta komanso amakhala ndi chidwi ndi amuna.
Akazi amawonetsa zinthu zambiri ndi khalidwe la amuna, koma sizikutanthauza kuti amawachitira chipongwe. Amangofuna kuti owerenga achotse zonyenga, kuyesa kuwululira ndi kusonyeza zomwe zili m'mbuyo mwa zochita za amuna, zomwe nthawi zina zimakhala zosamvetsetseka kwa amayi, komanso momwe angapewere mikangano yambiri ndi magawano. Ndiponso kusonyeza anthu zomwe iwo ali. Mwinamwake ngati awerenga gawoli, adzifunsanso okha, atsegule maso awo, ndi kumvetsetsa momwe angakhalire ndi atsikana.
M'masiku akale amakhulupirira kuti aliyense wa ife ali ndi tsogolo lake, kuti msonkhano wa achinyamata awiri uli wokonzedweratu kale, womwe sungapewe, ndipo ndithudi mudzakumana ndi moyo wanu. Komabe, ziyenera kudziŵika kuti kusasintha sizowopsa, ndipo ngakhale mwadzidzidzi zakhala zobisika nthawi zonse. Akazi amakono ali ndi zofuna zina, samalola kuti zinthu ziziyenda pawokha. Ngati mkazi atha kukhala ndi cholinga, adzalandira yekha. Akazi omwe ali ndi nzeru pazinthu zotero angathe kupindula ndi zochitika za anthu ena, chifukwa zimakhala zophweka kwambiri kuphunzira kuchokera ku zolakwa za anthu ena kusiyana ndi zawo, akazi akhoza kugwiritsa ntchito zomwe akudziwa kale.
Azimayi masiku ano amasankha okhaokha, monga momwe akazi ambiri alili ovomerezeka ndi amuna. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti amuna amanena kuti mkazi amafunikira mwamuna pokhapokha pa ntchito yogonana komanso pakhomo, koma palinso amayi omwe amanena kuti mwamuna amafunikira mkazi yekha pabedi. Koma ndi zofunikanso kwa anthu ambiri kuti mwamuna ndi amene amalandira ndalama, koma si onse omwe amafunikira izi, monga momwe amayi ambiri amaperekera.
Kodi ndingatani kuti ndipusitse mwamuna? Poyambira, muyenera kukumbukira kuti mwamuna ayenera kumangogwirizana ndi kumukonda. Ndipotu, munthu akhoza kukondana ndi iyemwini. Ndizosavuta kwambiri. Kuti muchite izi, ndikwanira kulengeza izi ndi udindo wonse. Njira iyi inkachitidwa ndi amayi ambiri, omwe onse adapambana bwino.