Koma funso likubweranso: kodi mukufunikirabe kukhulupirira chiyani, ndipo kodi malemba omwe ali ndi amuna okhwima ochepa amakhala oopsa kwambiri? Tiyeni tiyesere kumvetsetsa pamodzi.
Chinthu choyamba kunena pa mutu uwu: kugonana kwa amuna sikudalira kukula kwawo. Kulankhulana ndi amuna okongola, okongola komanso okonzeka bwino, mudzamvetsera kukula kwawo maminiti atatu oyambirira. Kumbukirani kuti angapo asukulu a sukulu anangopenga za Gubin kumapeto kwa zaka makumi asanu ndi anayi. Toulouse-Lautrec, yomwe inali kutalika kwa masentimita 150, idakondweretsedwa kwambiri ndi akazi nthawi imodzi. Soviet Union inalimbikitsa Yuri Gagarin, mtsogoleri wa dzikoli ndi kumwetulira kwabwino, mokoma mtima, ndipo ochepa adadziwa kuti kutalika kwake sikudapitirira masentimita 157. kukula sikunasokoneze ntchito yabwino ya anthu otchuka monga Martin Scorsese, Tom Cruise ndi Thomas Andersen. Ndipo ngakhale tsopano, nthawi zambiri nthawi zambiri munthu amakhala pansi pa msungwana.
Amuna amtaliatali nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi chisokonezo chachikulu komanso chachilendo. Adzatha kudzigonjera okha, poyankhulana nthawi zonse amachita zinthu mwachibadwa. Iwo ali abwino ndithu, monga okonda.
Ubale ndi amuna otsika uli ndi ubwino wambiri, kotero asungwana sakuyenera kuchita mantha ngati anyamatawa ali pansi pawo:
Choyamba, m'munsimu mnyamata (ndipo motero pang'ono), mochepa ayenera kuphika chakudya. Kudyetsa kansalu kakang'ono ndi ntchito yosavuta. Kukhala naye mnyumba imodzi, inu nokha simufuna kudya muluwo, kotero simungapindule kwambiri.
Chachiwiri, simusowa kuti muime pa tiptoe kuti mupsompsone kapena mutenge pamutu.
Ngati simuli wamtali kwambiri, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuti mukakhale ndi mnyamata yemwe si wamtali. Sadzayeretsa zinthu pazamulo zomalizira, zomwe simungakwanitse kuzipeza, ndipo sudzayika galasi m'bafa pansi pa denga lokha, kotero kuti muzisamba nokha mwa kukhudza. Ubale, ndi anyamata omwe ali pansi pa atsikana ali ndi ubwino wina.
Ndipo, ndithudi, mwa anthu otsika apo pali chidziwitso chopanda kukayikira kwa amuna apamwamba mu vuto la kubereka. Ana a atate oterewa, monga olamulira, sali obadwa kwambiri, omwe amawathandiza kwambiri kubereka ndi, mwachindunji, mimba.
Kuperewera kwa amuna oterewa, mwina amodzi okha: sangathe kukunyamula m'manja. Koma kodi zilidi choncho, kulingalira ubwino wake wonse?
Nthawi zina zokongola sizimakonda kusiyana kwakukulu ndi wokondedwa. Koma musaganize kuti maanja oterowa awonongedwa kale ndi kupatukana kosapeŵeka. Komanso, sikoyenera kuti mkazi azilamulira pawiri pa mfundo ya wotchuka "Mulia, musadandaule ndi ine". Amuna omwe ndi amtalika nthawi zambiri amatenga mbali pachibwenzi, kuchokera kwa iwo amabwera amuna abwino - atsogoleri a banja.
Ndi lingaliro liti lomwe ndingapereke kwa mayi wamtali amene amakumana ndi mnyamata yemwe ali wocheperapo? Ndibwino kuti musamveke zidendene zapamwamba kwambiri, kuti musamatsindike kusiyana kwakukulu, ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, musadandaule nazo. Kumbukirani kuti palibe cholakwika ndi mnyamata pansi pa mtsikanayo.
Kufotokozera mwachidule, ndiyenera kunena kuti simungathe mzere wonse, kukula kwake kumaphatikizapo zonse. Atsikana osiyana ndi anyamata osiyana komanso mosiyana. Nkhaniyi siinalembedwe kuti ikhale yovuta kwa mtundu uliwonse wa anthu. Mwachidule, mwinamwake, nkhaniyi idzawathandiza ena kumvetsa malingaliro awo ndi kuyang'anitsitsa bwino vutoli.