Pambuyo pokambirana mafunso ambiri, Smiler anasonkhanitsa ziwerengero zosangalatsa: Amuna omwe samasankha kugonana ndi ochuluka kwambiri, pomwe "zozizwitsa" zawo pachikondi, kawirikawiri, izi ndi pafupifupi atatu ogonana nawo pachaka. Malingana ndi ambiri omwe afunsidwa, akufuna kuti agwirizane ndi mkazi mmodzi yekha, ndipo ndizodabwitsa, koma izi zimawakakamiza kuti ayang'ane "osakwatira", akukakamiza kuti asinthe.
Chisinthiko chimaposa mitala
Malingaliro omveka a lingaliro la amuna okwatirana malinga ndi chisinthiko ndikuwatsimikiziranso: mphamvu ya chilengedwe imayambitsa onse oimira za kugonana kolimba, mosasamala, kufalitsa mbewu zawo, kukwaniritsa cholinga chosiya ana ambiri. Komabe, wasayansi wa ku America amakhulupirira kuti zamoyo zinachita kusintha, ndipo tsopano amuna amadziwa kuti kulamulira zogonana kumafunikira kulamulira ana. Ndipo n'zosavuta kuchita izi pamene ana anu ali pafupi. Izi zimalongosola chikhumbo cha amuna amakono kuti azikhala ndi mabanja awo, kapena mopitirira malire, kuti asasokoneze kukhudzana ndi ana awo, zomwe zingatheke ngati ubale ndi amayi a mwanayo ukupitirirabe.
Chikondi ndi choipa ...
Chifukwa cha kufufuza kwa sayansi, njira ina yodziŵika bwino inafotokozedwa - chilakolako chokondana ndi anthu, podziwa kuti adzatipangitsa kuvutika. Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna ndi wamisala za mkazi yemwe sapanga ndalama, nthawi zonse amanyazitsa ndi kunyoza; Mzimayi sangasiye munthu wokonda zakumwa zoledzeretsa kapena womwenso ali wolimba .... Malinga ndi pulofesa wa matenda a maganizo a zachipatala Richard Friedman, anthu onsewa sakulimbikitsidwa ndi chilakolako chofuna kugwidwa, koma ndi "mphotho" yomwe amalandira kuchokera kwa anzawo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ngati chiyanjano chikugwirizana ndi zochitika zodziwika, ndiye kuti kugwirizana ndi mimba kapena msuzi kumathandiza kuti mupeze "mphoto" zomwe simukuziyembekezerapo kuti mukhale ndi manyazi, mawu okoma ku adiresi yawo, kugonana, ndi zina zotero. Kwa ubongo, "gingerbread" iyi ili ndi mphamvu yokongola kwambiri, imayambitsa chisangalalo, mofanana ndi zomwe gamers sangathe kuzikaniza. Wochita masewera olimbitsa thupi amakoloka ku casino pofuna kupeza gawo lina la adrenaline chifukwa cha kupambana kapena kutayika, ndipo wokondedwa wa munthu wosayenerera amayambiranso kukondana ndi chibwenzi choyambirira chiyembekezo kuti adzalandira "mphoto" zosayembekezera.
Kuwonekera kwa mawu awa kumatsimikiziridwa ndi kafukufuku wakale wa wamaganizo a Gregory Burns. Ophunzirawo ayesedwa kuti amwe madzi kapena madzi. Poyamba iwo anapatsidwa zakumwa popanda kumangika nthawi iliyonse, ndiye anazilandira masekondi khumi ndi awiri.Pomwepo tomograph, yemwe nthawi zonse ankayang'ana ubongo wa nkhaniyi, adawona kuphulika kwa ntchito yaikulu ya ubongo, nthawi yomwe anapatsidwa chikhalidwe, pamene sanayembekezere "mphatso".
Malingana ndi Richard Friedman, anthu omwe ali nawo "machitidwe olakwika" ndiwo maubwenzi a dopamine, kapena, mwa kuyankhula kwina, "zosangalatsa za hormone", zomwe zimapangidwa ndi ubongo poyang'ana mawonedwe a chikondi. I, ngati anthu omwe amazoloŵera kusekerera munthu nthawi yomweyo amamva chidziwitso cha chikondi kapena amakhala ndi mtima wachifundo mwadzidzidzi, ndiye ubongo wawo "umataya" mlingo waukulu wa hormone iyi yachisangalalo.
Ndipo chilakolako chokhala ndi maganizo amodzi ndikupeza "mphatso" yomwe imadikira nthawi zonse imene imawapangitsa kuchoka chirichonse monga momwe ziliri, ndikupitiriza kulekerera maganizo osayenera. Ndipo monga momwe zirili zosautsa, malingana ndi zomwe a katswiriyu ananena, ngakhale kuzindikira kuti zonse sizinayende bwino ndipo pozindikira kuti izi siziyenera kukhala choncho, zimakhala zovuta kuti iwo asinthe chinachake, chifukwa ndizosatheka kulamulira ubongo pamene akuyambitsa njira yokalandira mphoto ....