- Pamaso panu, osati mwamuna wanu, chifukwa maluwa ndi mphatso zina, woimira kugonana mwamphamvu samakupatsani ndipo sakuwona kuti ndi kofunikira.
- Maganizo anu ochokera ku mphatso ndi mphatso zomwe zimalandira - pamapeto pake zokhumudwitsa kwathunthu.
Ndikukuuzani zambiri za iwo. Komabe, poyamba ndikuyang'ana pazomwezo, m'malo mwa anthu onse, monga ambiri mwa anyamata akuyandikira kusankha. Kodi oimirira ogonana amphamvu amasankha bwanji bwenzi lawo? Zolinga zambiri zimasonyeza kuti kusankha kwa mphatso kwa mayi kuti akhale woimira kugonana kwambiri ndi Gehena weniweni. Amuna nthawi zambiri sakhala ndi njira yoganizira, ngati kuti mukupereka. Maganizo ovuta pa chisankho ali nawo mwayi uliwonse wopambana mu miyezi. Zowononga pansi pamtunda pakati pa zokongola, zokongola, zofunikira, zofunikira, zachilendo ndi "kotero kuti amazikonda" ... Koma ziri monga mphatso, osati chidwi.
Kodi mnyamata akuyenera kupereka maluwa ndi mphatso? Pali gulu la amayi omwe amavomereza mphatso zochepa. "Ndine wokongola, wokongola, wokongola. Kwa mapazi anga, monga ine, zonse ziyenera kusiya. " Funso: Ndipo bwanji, ndipotu, ali ndi udindo wopereka chilichonse?
Kutsutsa: Zoonadi, bwanji? Monga momwe mayi aliyense aliri wabwino, ndipo, mwinamwake, mwamtheradi sichifukwa chonse chopempha kuti ayanjidwe. Kuphatikiza pa izi, chirichonse si choipa chimayambitsa chizoloŵezi chokhazikika, ndipo kenako kuchepetsa chidwi. Kutsirizitsa: Amayi oposa 80% amafuna kupeza maluwa pakali pano, ndipo sikofunika kwenikweni. Komabe, pafupifupi amayi ambiri amaika kukongola kwa masamba pa danga 1 mndandanda wa mphatso zopanda pake. Mulimonsemo, musatenge HONEY kwa zochuluka-kukhala zodabwitsa ndi zothandiza! Mwa njira, "kukweza" kwa anthu omwe avomereza anyamata ngati gwero lofunika kwambiri la mphatso, mu gawo lokhazikitsidwa liri ndi mwayi wokhalanso ndi masewera. Kodi mtali wautali umakonzekera kufikira liti, ndipo ngati mutha kumaliza?
Ena amanena kuti iwo samadziyesa kukhala kanthu, koma alibe. "Iye amasamala kwambiri, amalankhula za maganizo, komanso za amayi onse" "zopusa", ndipo saleka kuyenda ndi ine malinga ndi malo ogula, ndikupeza khofi pabedi kwathunthu, nthawi yanga yaulere, nthawi zonse pafupi nane. " Funso: Ngati sizoipa, bwanji osandipatsa kanthu? Koma kodi simukukondweretsa mosiyana? Zabwino kwambiri zili mmenemo. Izi siziri zokonzeka kwa onse omwe akuyimira kugonana kwakukulu (kufuna chiwerengero cha zomwe zingatheke). Kutsiliza: "Kulimbitsa" izo (chifukwa iwe ukuganiza kuti n'zosatheka kubwezeretsanso mwamuna) kapena kusintha maganizo ako. Zambiri pa izi - pansipa. Mwa njira, mwinamwake kuti mupeze chimwemwe chenicheni mukusowa malangizo pang'ono. Yesetsani kumva mmene akumvera, ali ndi mwayi wokhala naye. Nchifukwa chiani oimirira ogonana amphamvu samatipempha ife ndi mphatso? Pali zifukwa zingapo.
Munthu wovuta.
Palinso oimira anzawo okhwima kwambiri omwe amagonana kwambiri. Kawirikawiri amakhala adyera m'mabanja komanso mwawokha, komanso mu ziwonetsero zawo. Ndipo ngati simukuzindikira kuti ndi wowolowa manja kapena "mphatso", mwinamwake, moyo wokhudzana ndi iye ukhoza kukhala wofunsidwa. Kodi ndibwino kuti mutha kukhazikitsanso ubale umenewu? Popeza kuti pokhapokha ngati palibe mgwirizano, zimakhala zofanana m'kupita kwanthawi. Kapena "mabulu" onse amapita kwa wina ...? Kodi mungapeze bwanji maluwa kuchokera kwa munthu wokondedwa wanu, mphatso ndi chidwi? Potsirizira pake, mwaganiza kuti popanda mphatso zoyenera, chidwi, moyo wambiri pamodzi siwoneka ngati wangwiro kwa inu, ndipo wosankhidwa wanu akhoza kukukondweretsa kwambiri. Maphunziro ndi chinthu chachikulu! Yambani kuchita mofulumira. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kuchita zonse mwadzidzidzi komanso molondola. Yesetsani kukumbukira za kuzunzika kwa amuna mukasankha mphatso zomwe mumakonda. Molondola mu zokambiranazo, ngati kuti mumakonda kwambiri, kapena zomwe mukufuna. Musaiwale kunena komwe angapeze.
Dzichepetseni ndi maluwa kapena yaing'ono, komatu, kusalowerera ndale (kachikwama, chipewa, chikwama cha manicure, etc.). Musaiwale kuti muziponyera mosavuta, ngati kuti munapatsidwa nkhope yamwamuna. Fungo la mpikisano liyenera kudzutsidwa mwa iye.
Komabe, dziwani mlingo. Kugulira chovala chatsopano kumakhala kosavuta kutsimikizira kuposa makina amakono (posachedwa fakitale ya fakitale ya magalasi siinatulukire "wakale" panobe). Koma kukula kwa mphatso ndi kuyamikira ziyenera kulumikizana wina ndi mzake. Mwanjira ina, zotsatira zake zidzakhala zosiyana. Ngati chingwe chofunikira chikutsogolerani kuti mukhale osangalala, bwanji mukupatsanso china? Maluwa ndi mphatso mu moyo - osati chinthu chachikulu, koma dona wanzeru, ngati ali o-oh-oh-ololera, adzatha kulondola molondola zomwe akufuna.
Zimatsimikiziranso kuti amuna ngati mphatsoyo ali ndi maonekedwe abwino kwambiri kuposa atsikana (ndinapanga mayesero pamsampha wa maluwa 55 oyera - zotsatira zake silingathe kufotokozedwa!). Mphatso iyi siyenela kuwonetsedwa yosasokonezedwa. Mwa anyamata "amavomereza mwachindunji" mphatso izi sizivomerezedwa. Kotero, bwanji osayimira kugonana amphamvu amapereka maluwa kwa okondedwa awo? Mwinamwake iwo akuwopa kuti mmbuyo iwo sadzalandira chiyamiko chirichonse? Ngati mukufuna kulandira mphatso kuchokera kwa munthu - khalani mbuye wake, bwenzi ndi wokondedwa wake. Ndipo mudzapambana!