Pambuyo paukwati, mmodzi wa oyandikana kwambiri ndi mkwatibwi ndi amake a mwamuna wake, apongozi ake. M'tsogolo mwa moyo wa banja ndikofunika kwambiri kukhala ndi ubale wabwino ndi iye. Pachifukwa ichi, ndizofunikira kumupatsa mphatso pa maholide ngati Tsiku la Kubadwa, March 8, Chaka Chatsopano.
Mphatso yabwino kwambiri ya apongozi ake, monga mkazi aliyense, adzakhala maluwa. Kuphatikizana kwakukulu kwa mphatso yoteroyo kudzakhaladi, ngati mwangoyamba kukomana naye. Maluwa ochokera kwa inu monga tsiku lakubadwa amapereka apongozi anu chifukwa china chodzimvera kuti ndi aang'ono komanso okongola. Kuwonjezera apo, sangathe kuyembekezera maluwa kuchokera kwa mwamuna wanu. Mayi anga apongozi ndi amayi omwe ali ndi khalidwe lalikulu, koma mphatso yochokera ku maluwa nthawi zonse imamupatsa maganizo abwino, ndipo maganizo ake amamveka bwino. Ngakhale apongozi anga ndi anthu abwino kwambiri, atangomwalira imfa ya mwamuna wake, adasiya yekha, atsekedwa.
Ndi chiyani choti ndikupereke apongozi anga, ngati inu ndi mwamuna wanu mumakhala pakhomo? Wokondedwa wanga, kumayambiriro kwa moyo wathu pamodzi, ankakhala ndi apongozi anga pafupifupi chaka chimodzi, mpaka tinagula nyumba. Titasunthira, ndikuganiza amayi anga apongozi kwinakwake mumtima mwanga adadandaula kuti tinamusiya. Iye anatsala yekha. Ndi bwino kupatsa apongozi ako kukhala chinthu chofunikira komanso chothandiza, chomwe, monga mukudziwa, akufuna kugula nyumba kapena zomwe wakhala akulota. Mwachitsanzo, amayi apongozi anu nthawi zambiri ankadandaula chifukwa chosowa chotsuka. Choncho mugule iye ndi mwamuna wake chotsuka chotsuka! Ndikhulupirire, adzalandira mphatso yanu yovomerezeka. Ndipo iwe udzayamba kuganiza za iwe wekha ngati mkazi wabwino wa nyumba kwa mwamuna wako.
Komabe, ngati apongozi ako akukhala mosiyana ndi inu, ndiye kuti palibe chifukwa chopereka zinthu zothandiza! Mukhoza kuthana ndi zomwe sakuchita pa mphatso yake. Mlamu ake angaganize kuti mumamuimba mlandu wosamalira nyumba. Ndibwino kupatsa apongozi ake tsiku lobadwa tsiku lina labwino labwino. Mwachitsanzo, mungamupatse fano lamakono kapena mphatso ya mphatso yogula m'sitolo.
Kodi ndingapereke bwanji amayi anga apongozi a tsiku la Kubadwa, ngati mwadzidzidzi ali ndi khalidwe losasamvetseka ndi losautsa? Malangizo anga kwa inu: kambiranani ndi mwamuna wanu! Amadziŵa bwino amayi ake komanso zomwe amakonda pa mphatso. Podziwa kuchokera kwa mwamuna wake zomwe apongozi ako amakonda, mudzatha kulingalira zomwe mungamupatse tsiku la kubadwa kwake. Kumbukirani, simungapereke chilichonse, chifukwa izi zingakhale zoipa kwa inu mtsogolo! Ngakhale apongozi ake akunena kuti sakuchita chikondwerero cha tsiku lake lobadwa, adzalandira chizindikiro chake m'mtima mwake. Ndipo ngati simumamvetsera, amatha kuchigwira pamakona ake.
Kukhala woona mtima, tsopano ndili ndi ubale wabwino ndi apongozi anga ndipo ine ndimamutcha mayi ake. Ndimakumbukira kuti ndikuwonetseratu zomwe ndapanga pa tsiku loyamba la kubadwa, pomwe adayamika apongozi ake a mwamuna wabwino amene adabereka. Ndinamuuza mawu oyamikira onse pamaso pa alendo, ndi tete-a-tete. Tinakumbatira Tsiku Lathu Lobadwa, ndipo linali lochokera mumtima. Kumbukirani, kuyamika apongozi anu, ndipo mwachidziwikire, munthu aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi mtima wangwiro komanso wopanda cholinga chodzikonda. Tsiku la kubadwa kapena mtsikana wokumbukira adzawona chinyengo chanu, ndipo mudzamukankhira kutali naye.
Chinthu chachikulu si mphatso yomwe mungapange apongozi anu, koma maganizo anu kwa munthu uyu. Ndipo kwa nthawi yaitali amayi a mwamuna wanga sakanamumvetsa, mpaka iyeyo anakhala mlamu wake. Posachedwa mwana wanga anakwatira. Ndipo poyamba ndinali ndi nsanje ndi mpongozi wanga. Nthawi zina sindinkafuna kumusiya mnyumbamo. Komabe, patapita nthawi, ndinazindikira kuti ana amakula. Iwo amakhala akuluakulu ndi odziimira pawokha. Ali ndi ufulu wosankha momwe angakhalire miyoyo yawo; koma ife akazi timafunikira kukhala anzeru. Ndikhulupirire kuti, monga apongozi ako, kuti mphatso yabwino kwambiri kwa amayi a mwamuna wako idzakhala mawu osavuta: Wokondwerera tsiku lobadwa, Amayi.