Azimayi amafunitsitsa kulamulira amuna awo. Ndipo amalephera. Polamulidwa ndi theka lofooka palinso ulemu wamwamuna, zomwe zimayambitsa anthu oganiza bwino kupereka maganizo olakwika. Mwamuna ndi wosasamala kwambiri ngati adzipeza yekha m'zinthu izi. Ngakhale ziri pamapeto a sabata kapena pang'ono. Monga mwachizolowezi, mkazi amafunika chitsimikizo kuti osankhidwa ake adzaloledwa mwayi wogonana 100%. Tangoganizirani kuti munthu ayenera kuvala zovuta kusintha. Kaŵirikaŵiri amapanga zitsulo, ndipo ndi zabwino ngati ziri zosapanga kanthu.
Zomwe amanena zokhudzana ndi ukhondo wa zipangizozi, mukhoza kufunsa momwe "izo" zingakhalire ndi ukhondo? Lamba ili kwa masiku angapo silingathe kuchotsedwa, ndi zotsatira zonse zotsatira. Kuonjezera apo, lambali likuyenera kusambitsidwa kuchokera ku sirinji, ndi madzi kupyolera mwapadera. Anthu onyansidwa amavutika kuti aganizire zonsezi, osati zomwe ayenera kuvala. Mukavala lamba uwu, zimayambitsa vuto. Ndipotu, izi sizikutanthauza kudana, koma mtima, monga kapolo. Kuonjezera apo, lamba lachikhulupiliro silingalephereke koposa nthawi yina. Chitsulo chikhoza kusakanikirana ndi khungu, ziwalo zankhanini komanso kuwonongeka kwa malo ano, kungayambitse magazi poizoni komanso kuwononga maonekedwe a kunja.
Ndi kovuta kunena kuti zofunikazi ndizofunikira bwanji? Mkazi akaika funsoli mozama, mwamunayo alibe chochita ndipo ndikofunikira kusankha. Koma pakadalibe mwayi wokonza chirichonse mwabwino.
Ngati mkazi akufuna njira iyi kuti atsimikizire kuti mwamunayo ali wokhulupirika kwa iye, ndipo mwamunayo amavomereza zonse mwadzidzidzi, ndiye ichi ndi mutu wochokera ku "sadomasochism". Mkhalidwe ndi wosiyana, ndipo aliyense ali ndi zida zobisika.
Lembali lachikhulupiliro lero
Udindo wa kukhulupirika ukhoza kukhala wosiyana, ndipo musanagule, muyenera kusankha. Izi zimachitidwa mwavomere ndikusunga chiyanjano chiyenera kusungira pafupifupi $ 150, kapena zina zambiri. Ndi bwino kuganizira ngati mukufuna izi? Ndi ndalamazi mungagule chinthu chofunikira. Wosankhidwa wanu adzakhala wokondwa kuti mumamukhulupirira, ndipo mtsogolomu izi zidzakhudza maubwenzi.
Masiku ano, lamba la kukhulupirika limagulidwa m'masitolo osiyanasiyana ogonana ndipo amagwiritsidwa ntchito mu masewera a sadomasochistic. Ku Indonesia, malo ena odyera misala pamalangizo a bungwe amavala mikanda yokhala okhulupirika, kotero kuti alendo amvetse kuti saloniyi siperekedwa ndi maubwenzi apamtima. Ndipo mabotolo a kukhulupirika akupangidwa, osati monga momwe anapangidwira ndi chitsulo, koma kuchokera ku zipangizo zowonjezera komanso zofewa.