Zoona, kusungulumwa kungakhale kosiyana: kukakamizidwa kapena mwasankha nokha. Sizingakhale zopweteka komanso zopondereza zokha, komanso zimabweretsa mtendere, mtendere. Kusungulumwa kwa amayi, makamaka okongola akazi, ndi kovuta kwambiri, kuphatikizapo kuti palibe wokondedwa pafupi, palibe amene amaganiza kuti azibisala, amayi osakwatira sangakwanitse kukwaniritsa cholinga chawo chachikazi - kubereka ndi kulera mwana. Inde, amayi ena ali amphamvu, otsimikiza komanso odziimira okha omwe angasankhe kulera mwana popanda mwamuna. Koma nanga bwanji akazi omwe ali otsika omwe, poyang'ana chilengedwe, akufunafuna chitetezo ndi mapewa odalirika? Zimayambitsa kusungulumwa.
Zakhala zikudziwika kale kuti malingaliro ali ndi katundu wokonda. Ngati mkazi, ngakhale mkazi wokongola kwambiri, chifukwa cha zosavuta kuyesa kukonzekera moyo wake, akuyamba kuganiza kuti sadalengedwere kuti banja likhale losangalala komanso mosadziŵa kuti azichita mwanjira imeneyi, munthu wovuta kwambiri amayamba kumuyandikira. Ichi ndi chifukwa chake kusungulumwa kwa amayi okongola kumakhala kowawa kwambiri chifukwa iwo amadzitsimikizira okha kuti chinachake chalakwika ndi iwo ndikulandira zotsatira zofanana. Koma siziyenera kukhala choncho, aliyense ali ndi ufulu wosangalala! Chifukwa chachikulu cha kusungulumwa ndi chakuti ambiri samvetsa kapena kuvomereza chifukwa cha zolephera zakale.
Tumizani kusungulumwa pakhomo la chikumbumtima chanu.
Kuchotsa kusungulumwa n'kofunikira, choyamba, kuwonjezera kudzidalira. Musasunge amuna osayenera pafupi ndi inu chifukwa choopa kukhala okha. Kupirira kuperekedwa kwa amuna odzudzula, simukudzilemekeza nokha. Sizingatheke kukonda munthu wotere, kumangomvera chisoni chake chomwe chimangopita mwamsanga pamene alibe chakudya.
Pezani ulemu mwa inu nokha, chifukwa munthu aliyense ali ndi mbali zochititsa chidwi ndi zokongola, ndi kuwawonetsa popanda kudzichepetsa, koma ndithudi popanda kudziwonetsa kwambiri. Mmawa uliwonse, kumbukirani momwe muliri wabwino, ngati anzanu sakuzindikira izi ndipo sakukuuzani - ndi mabwenzi otani? Simukufunikira, mudzapeza mosavuta atsopano, ngati mukufuna, chifukwa ndi zophweka kupanga atsopano ocheza nawo, mumangofunikira, makamaka ndi matekinoloje apakono opanga chibwenzi pa intaneti. Khulupirirani, mu mphamvu zanu ndipo mutha kuchotsa kusungulumwa, chifukwa chikhulupiriro ndi chinthu chomwe dziko lathu limagwira kwambiri!
Elena Romanova , makamaka pa webusaitiyi