Tsoka ilo , ana athu ali ndi zifukwa zokwanira zokhala ndi nkhawa. Mnyamata wa zaka zitatu mu nkhondo ya mchenga amachititsa kuti tizidzimvera chisoni kuposa athu - kudzudzula kwa mfumu. Ndipo pamene mwanayo akulira "popanda chifukwa" (monga akuluakulu amaganiza), mwinamwake zochitika zake ziri zakuya ngati zathu, zomwe zimayambitsa mkangano ndi mnzako wokondedwa, ngakhale kuti ana ali ndi mwayi wapadera kwambiri kuposa akulu: moyo wa mwana, ngati mphanda, akuyang'aniridwa ndi mkhalidwe wachimwemwe ndipo ali wokonzeka kuti apeze zodabwitsa, pamene ife tikuyembekeza kwenikweni moyo wa chinyengo chamanyazi, ngakhale pamene kupsinjika "kumavula" mwanayo kunja kwa chisangalalo, ndi kosavuta kubwezeretsa. Ndikofunika kokha kumuthandiza mwanayo kusokoneza, kuika njira yoyenera kumvetsera kwake - ndipo mgwirizano udzabwerera mwamsanga. Pali zambiri zosavuta pa nthawi yoyamba yomwe imathandiza ana (komanso akuluakulu) kuthetsa mavuto, kupeza mtendere wa mumtima. Othandizira abwino ndi osapindulitsa mwa njira imeneyi ndi omasuka komanso zipangizo zokopa. Zochita zala, munthu amasintha dongosolo la mitsempha kupita ku mtundu wina wa ntchito. Ana okalamba akhoza kupanga chinachake, kufotokoza zochitika zawo ndi ... kuwauza zabwino. Ndipo wamkulu pa masukulu awa amayamba kudzimvetsa bwinoko, zomwe zimakulolani kuti "musiye" zomwe zikuchitikira.
Wokonzeka pa phunziroli!
M'maganizo a anthu, mchenga umakhala wotchuka. Sizowoneka kuti mabwalo a sandbox amakhala ndi ana osiyana siyana (kuphatikizapo amayi, abambo, agogo ndi agogo aamuna omwe akutchova njuga amathandiza mwana kumanga chinachake). Sewani ndi mchenga ukhoza kukhala gawo la psychotherapy. Kodi mungakonzekere bwanji ntchitoyi? Chinthu choyamba kuchita ndikumanga bokosi osachepera 50x50 masentimita kukula kwake kunyumba. Ndipo panthawiyi, ikani mu chipinda kapena pa khonde. Monga oyendetsa sitima amati, moyowu umayenera kukonzekera pasadakhale, pamene nyanja ikukhazikika. Mphepo nthawi zambiri imabwera mwadzidzidzi. Mukazindikira kuti mwanayo ndi wochuluka kwambiri ndipo sangathe kukhala chete. Ndi nthawi yoti mupeze bokosi lomwelo ndikulidzaza ndi mchenga. Komabe, mungagwiritse ntchito pelvis yachizoloŵezi cha masewerawo. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti chiyenera kukhala chosasunthika ndi kusagwedezeka ngati mwanayo asankha kukhala pambali pake. Choncho, phulani mchenga ndi madzi kuchokera ku atomizer, kuti pakhale fumbi lochepa. M'malo mchenga, mukhoza kutenga manga wamba. Perekani mwana wanu mbale zingapo zosiyana, muzitsanulira. Ndipo supuni ngati mutatopa ndi kugwira ntchito ndi zala zanu. Chochititsa chidwi kwambiri ndi kusonkhanitsa tirigu osiyana ndi maonekedwe: buckwheat, mpunga, mapira, ngakhale nandolo ndi mphodza. Chuma chonsechi n'chosangalatsa kusakaniza ndi kusokoneza, kusuntha ndi kuphatikiza. Kumbukirani kuti kutonthozedwa ndi mchenga kapena semolina. Amagwiritsa ntchito minofu yaing'ono ya manja, kutithandiza kusinthana ndi "kudziletsa".
Mchenga ndi dongo
Makolo aluso amapanga zinthu zothandiza, dongo, zidutswa za wallpaper, mchenga, komanso zinthu zakuthupi monga udzu, chestnuts, acorns, zipatso zouma, maluwa a maluwa pasadakhale ... Arsenal yotereyi idzakuthandizani kuti muchotseretu ubwana wokwiya.
Mwinamwake chowonekera kwambiri chikugwira ntchito ndi dongo. Chotsani mtanda waukulu wa kukula kwake, kuikidwa mu ladle ndi kutsanulira madzi. Dongo likayamba kuthira pang'ono, yambani kuyambitsa, yikani kuti musasinthe kuti inu ndi mwana mumakonda. Monga momwe chiwonetsero chimasonyezera, anthu ena amafanana ndi mgwirizano wa kirimu wakuda wowawasa, wina - wofanana ndi dongo. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amati: apamwamba kwambiri m'maganizo, zipangizo zofewa kwambiri ana amasankha. Ziribe kanthu ngati apulo imapangidwira ngati blob. Musati muzimitsa kuthawa kwa malingaliro! Ndi nkhani ina ngati mwanayo mwiniyo akupempha kuti akonze. Ngati cholinga chachikulu cha maphunziro anu ndi psychotherapeutic, kutulutsa katundu, lolani mwanayo azigwira ntchito moyenera, ndiyeno nkukhala pansi pafupi ndi inu ndikuyamba kujambula chinthu chanu.
Manja anayi
Aliyense atenge chidutswa cha dongo kapena pulasitiki ndikuchigawaniza m'magawo angapo. Adzalongosola mawonekedwe. Kodi muli ndi chinachake chomwe chikuwoneka ngati chojambula kapena munthu wamng'ono? Sinthani zojambula - ndikumaliza ntchito ya wina. Nthawi zina ana amawoneka kuti alibe chitetezo, ndipo zimakhala zosavuta kupitiliza kugwira ntchito kusiyana ndi kuyamba pomwepo. Pewani malangizo opusa: Munapereka zinthu zanu kwa munthu amene mumamukhulupirira, ndipo muzinyalala, kudzidalira kumadzuka.
Malo oti ayesedwe
Ana ali ndi zinthu zomwe amakonda. Mkatewo ndi wosasangalatsa, wokondweretsa kukhudza, amaloledwa kunyoza. Mukhoza kujambulira mitima, koloboks, amuna achichepere komanso - maganizo anu. Njira yabwino - yoyamba kujambulira zomwe mwana sakonda (mwachitsanzo, nkhope ya mtsikana amene adatenga chidole). Ndipo kuchokera mu solo uzigwedeze icho ndi chala chako. Ndipo amayi anga adzalenga kutopa kwake ... Wachita? Ndipo tsopano bwerani ndi mhite! Iyi ndi mankhwala othandiza kwambiri. Kapena yang'anani zomwe mungasinthe pa nkhope ya chiwerengero chomwecho, kuti chikhale chosangalatsa.