Momwe mungapemphe manja a wokondedwa: malingaliro opereka bwino

Kodi mungapereke bwanji mwayi kwa wokondedwa wanu kuti asayankhe "inde", komanso kumbukirani tsiku lino la moyo? Malamulo oyambirira a malingaliro abwino ndi awiri:

• kukonzekera mosamala;
• chiwonetsero cha zikhumbo ndi zofuna za wokonda.

Inde, ndithudi, mungathe kupanga ndondomeko ya dzanja ndi mtima wa pakhomo, kulowetsa kumverera, kunena, utatha usiku wokongola kapena chakudya chamadzulo. Koma kukonza zotsatirazo ndi njira yovomerezeka. Wokongola ndi wachikondi.

Komabe, ziyenera kunyalidwa m'maganizo kuti pafupi mtsikana aliyense adakhala wopenga m'maloto, momwe kalonga wake angalankhulire za ukwatiwo. Chifukwa chake, ndi bwino kupeza molondola ndi mwanzeru zomwe ndikufuna mzanu. Kupanda kutero, mungadzipeze nokha ndi zovuta ndikuwonetsera nthawi yabwino kwambiri pa moyo.

Kukonzekera zopereka za dzanja ndi mtima

Kuperekedwa kwa dzanja ndi mtima wopanda mphete sizowopsa. Ngakhale mutakhala kuti mukutsata njira, njira yosadzikongoletsera imayenera kupezeka. Mwachibadwa, simungasankhe mphete yagolidi kwa wokonda siliva kapena mosiyana ndi ena, atsikana ena samagwira bwino zitsulo zabwino kwambiri. Ndipo muyenera kupeza pasadakhale.

Ndifunikanso kukonzekera kulankhula pasadakhale. Lembani ezemostoyatelno kapena mutenge mwatsatanetsatane ntchito yolemba kapena ndakatulo. Sizowonongeka kuti zisinthe pomwepo. Ngakhale munthu wodalirika kwambiri panthawiyi akhoza kuwopsya ndi kutseka.

Ngati simungathe kufotokozera malemba oyambirira, ndizomveka kugwiritsa ntchito njira zotsimikiziridwa zoti mugwirizane.

Malingaliro achikondi - malingaliro apachiyambi

Ngakhalenso pazochitika zotero pali chiwerengero cha kutchuka kwa malemba. Chimene chosankha chimadalira inu ndi mphamvu zanu.

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Asanadye mchere, bamboyo amaimirira pa bondo limodzi, amasonyeza mphete yake yokondedwa ndikupempha kuti akhale mkazi wake. Ena a suti amatha kubisa mphete mu keke kapena poipa - amaloledwa kulowa vinyo. Izi zikudzaza ndi mfundo yakuti msungwanayo sangazindikire mwala wodalirika kuti awononge mpheteyo. Kapena ugwedezeke. Ndipo holideyi idzakhala yopanda chiyembekezo.

Musaiwale kupereka nyimbo. Nyimbo zosangalatsa, nyimbo zosasangalatsa. M'malo odyera akhoza kukhala oimba omwe angayandikire tebulo lanu pa nthawi yoyenera.

Ngati bwenzi lanu limakonda makampani osangalatsa, ndiye funsani anzanu. Akhoza kukhala okondwa kuti malingaliro abwino akuchitika pamaso pa anthu apafupi.

Zakudya za Chichina zimatha kukambirana ndi antchito ogwira ntchito yosungirako zakudya, ndi kulembera kalata ndi kupereka kwa dzanja muzakudya ndi maulosi. Njirayi ingapezedwe mu miyambo yambiri yaukwati ku Ulaya ndi America .

Maluwa amadabwa

Pakati pa malingaliro a kuperekedwa kwa dzanja ndi mtima nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi njira yomwe imapereka mitundu yambiri ya mitundu. Amakongoletsa chipinda, amaperekedwa kukagwira ntchito kapena kuyembekezera mkwatibwi pakhomo pakhomo. Payenera kukhala maluwa ambiri. Kotero, njirayi ndi yokwera mtengo kwambiri. Mwachibadwa, maluwa omwe amakonda kwambiri amayi anu ayenera kukhalapo. Ngakhale mtima wa stony sungathe kukaniza, kotero molimba mtima mutenge mpheteyo ndikuperekeni.

Onani kuchokera pazenera

Momwemo, mawu akuti "kukwatiwa ndi ine" pansi pawindo lake ayenera kuikidwa ndi makandulo ang'onoang'ono oyaka. Koma nyengo imatha kusokoneza zonsezi. Choncho samalani maluwa, zibiso kapena mipira. M'nyengo yozizira, mawu okondedwa angalembedwe pa chisanu.

Kalonga pa kavalo woyera

Kaya idzakhala kavalo, mphasa kapena bicycle - ziribe kanthu. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti mukuwoneka bwino, ndikukonzekera mawu apadera kwa wokondedwayo ndipo mungamudabwe kwambiri.

Mwa njira, onetsetsani kusamalira kujambula kwa vidiyo. Pambuyo pa zaka zambiri, ndikuwongolera momwe munaonekera pa kavalo woyera komanso suti pakhomo la pakhomo pake, ndipo mkwatibwi wamtsogolo adakomoka mwasayembekezereka wa masautso, mudzasangalala kwambiri.

Malingaliro ovuta kwambiri a chiganizo

Ngati mukufuna kupanga chithandizo choyambirira cha dzanja la anthu ofunitsitsa, ganizirani zochitika zachilendo. Kwerani pamodzi mu buluni, dumphani kuchoka pa parachute, mupite kukakwera mumtsinje wa phiri. Inde, atsikana anu apamtima amakonda zosangalatsa kwambiri.

Chofunika kwambiri cha bajeti ndi kupereka paulendo wapamwamba wa gudumu la satana. Ngati mutagwirizana ndi woyendetsa galimotoyo, ndiye kuti gudumu liyimitsa ndipo lisagwirenso ntchito, mpaka atero inde.

Malingaliro otchuka a kuperekedwa kwa dzanja ndi mtima ndiko kukwera mawindo ake pogwiritsa ntchito zipangizo zapadera za okwera pamalonda. Komabe, musanafike, muvomerezane ndi bwenzi lake kuti okondedwa anu ayenera kuvala ndi okonzeka. Ndi anthu ochepa chabe omwe amawonekera mwadzidzidzi wa munthu kunja kwawindo la pansi pa 11. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, mukhoza kufooka mwachidwi, ngati mwadzidzidzi anapita ku chipinda china kapena, nkuti, ku bafa.

Zopereka zapagulu

Nthawi yotsiriza inakhala yokonzeka kupanga magulu a magetsi, pomwe mkwatibwi amadzadzidzidzidzi mwadzidzidzi ndikupereka. Kutenga nawo mbali pagulu kungatenge abwenzi anu, mabwenzi ochokera ku World Wide Web ndi dazhenemye osewera. Mwachitsanzo, bwenzi lanu limapita ku koleji kapena kukagwira ntchito paki. Mwadzidzidzi, nyimbo yomwe amamukonda ikuimbidwa, ndipo anthu ozungulira ayamba kuvina. Pamwamba pa nyimbo zosangalatsa zimasoweka, mupite kwa okondedwa anu, pita pa bondo limodzi ndikuperekanso dzanja ndi mtima.

Njira ina, momwe mungapangire kupereka kwa manja ndi mitima pagulu, mutha kulengeza kulengeza pa wailesi kapena volopakita pamalo ogula. Ndilo lingaliro loti mulumikizane ndi ojambula ndi kupempha manja ake kuchokera pa siteji pambuyo pa ntchito yomwe mwafika.

Nyumba zamlungu

Dzutsa wokondedwa wako ndi kupsompsonana kwakukulu. Mubweretseni chakudya cham'mawa pabedi. Pa thireyi, kupatula khofi ndi zakudya zokoma, payenera kukhala maluwa ndi kampaka. Gwiritsani ntchito limodzi tsiku limodzi, khalani odekha komanso osamala. Kenaka kupereka kwa dzanja ndi mtima wa nyumba kukumbukiridwa kwa inu mocheperapo kusiyana ndi momwe mungapangidwire.

Mwa njira, ngati simungathe kutulukira script yanu, ndiye ntchito zamaluso. Mabungwe a Ukwati amapanga ndi kukhazikitsa zochitika zilizonse. Chiwerengerocho chikudalira kokha pa thumba lanu.

Masentensi amodzi mwa vesi ndi vesi, malemba

Tenga dzanja langa kwa iwe.

Tengani mtima wanga kutenga moto wochuluka.

Tengani chifundo changa, monga chikondi chiri.

Khalani ndi ine, ndikubwera nanu.

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Umi nkhawa zonse, zindikirani za tsoka.

Tengani moyo wanga ndi chimwemwe chochuluka.

Lolani kumverera kwanga kusamveke kwa inu.

Bwenzi langa, ingoti "inde."

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Kodi mudzakwatirana ndi ine, mwana wanga?

Ndipotu, ndimakukondani kwa nthawi yaitali.

Ikani mphete pa chala chanu, mbewa yanga,

Sinditha kugona mosadziwa.

Zakale kwambiri kuti mukwatire,

Pambuyo pa zonse, ife tiri ndi inu - ngati awiri a nkhunda.

Lero, potsiriza, ine ndinapanga malingaliro anga,

Inu mukudziwa kuti ndiri wokonzeka tsopano!

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Lero ndi tsiku labwino kwambiri.

Lero maloto adzakwaniritsidwa.

Ndikuthamangira kwa iwe,

Ndikudziwa kuti mundiyembekezera.

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Koma kodi mungayembekezere zambiri

Simudzakhala nokha tsopano.

Ndikungofuna kufunsa funso:

Kodi mudzakwatirana ndi ine?

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Inu mumapatsa maluwa,

Ndimakukondani.

Tsiku lililonse ndimaitana myky,

Ukhale mkazi wanga.

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Pa tsiku la okondedwa,

Ine sindikudziwa chomwe chiri cholakwika ndi iwo,

Kwa ine okha neobyzen

Aliyense pamodzi kamphindi anakhala,

Chimene ndasankha kuzindikira: ndi nthawi

Nthawi izi muyaya kuti mutembenuzire -

Kwa ine pokwatira,

Kuti tikhale ndi ife ndi ana kuti tikule!

Ngati muvomereza, perekani

Inu ndinu wanga, chonde landirani,

Kuti mukhale wina ndi mzake,

Iwo anali osasokonezeka kwamuyaya!

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Tiyeni nthawi zina ngakhale kawirikawiri

Koma iwe ndi ine simungakhoze kupatulidwa ndi chirichonse,

Tikhulupirire kuti palimodzi tidzakhala okoma kwambiri,

Ndipotu, mnzanu wopanda bwenzi sadzakhalanso ndi moyo!

Ndipo ine ndiri wokonzeka kwa inu lero,

Kuti amve zotsutsana za zaka.

Ine ndine dzanja, mtima wanga uli wangwiro

Inu mupatseni, ingondiwuzani INDE!

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Wokondedwa, ndiwe wabwino kwambiri padziko lapansi. Mumakhala okoma mtima komanso achifundo. Ndikukukondani kwambiri kuti ndine wokonzeka kukunyamulira moyo wanga wonse. Wokondedwa wanga, chabwino changa, undikwatire ine. Tidzakhala ndi banja losangalala kwambiri. Ndakhala ndikulota za izo kwa nthawi yayitali. Tiyeni mitima yathu ikhale yogwirizana, ndipo kukongola kudzatiperekeza ife mmoyo wathu wonse. Ine ndikutsimikiza - inu nokha ndinu chikonzero changa. Kuchokera pansi pa mtima wanga ndikukupatsani mphete, ndipo ndikuyembekeza kuti mudzayankha - EYA! Ndikufuna kwambiri kuti pasakhale - inu ndi ine, ndipo izi zikanakhala-ife.

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Inu munabwera ku moyo wanga wamtendere ndi mphatso yamtengo wapatali, yodabwitsa. Wochenjera, wokongola, wofatsa, wachikondi, Ndikufuna kusunga chimwemwe chathu kwa zaka zambiri. Wokondedwa kwambiri ndi chikhumbo changa choyenda ndi inu moyo wanga wonse, kuti ndikhale chithandizo chanu ndi chiyembekezo. Uchi, ukwatirane, ndipatseni kiyi kuchokera mu mtima mwako, chomwe ndikuchikonda moyo wanga wonse. Ndimakukondani kuposa wina aliyense padziko lapansi, ndipo ndine wokonzeka kukwaniritsa zofuna zanu, khalani ndi ine basi. Ndiwe wokondedwa wanga, wokongola kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi.

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Lolani aliyense kudziwa momwe ndimakukonderani. Ambiri akuthokoza kuti muli ndi ine. Ndimayamikira chikondi changa, ndimayamikira maminiti onse omwe ndikukumana nawo. Ndipo izi, izo zikuwoneka kwa ine pang'ono. Ndikufuna kukhala ndi inu moyo wanga wonse, ndikufuna kukupatsani maholide tsiku lililonse. Lyubimaya, khalani mkazi wanga. Tiyeni titenge chikondi chathu kupyolera mu moyo. Lolani banja lathu likhale lolimba ndi losangalala, lolani kuti sitirowe ikutipweteka, osati kamodzi. Iwe udzakhala mkazi wokongola kwambiri mu dziko, mkazi wanga wokondedwa.

Kodi atsikana akuyembekezeranji kuperekedwa kwa dzanja ndi mtima?

Kupereka kwabwino kwa dzanja ndi mtima ndi mtima wofuna kudzipereka, chikondi m'maso ndi chikhumbo chopatsa dziko lonse kwa mayi adored. Choncho, ndilofunika:

• Chotsani foni kapena kuyendetsa pa vibroton. Kuitana kwakukulu pa nthawi yosavuta kwambiri kudzawononga chilengedwe chonse;
• Nthawi yokwanira yokonzekera, musafulumire kuthamanga kukagwira ntchito kapena kuphunzira, mutangomva "inde".
• Phunzirani bwino zokonda za mtsikana wanu, ndipo samalani zovala ngati mupanga chodabwitsa chapadera. Mwachitsanzo, kukwera mapiri pa stilettos sikokwanira;
• Ngati dona wanu ndi malo osungirako zinthu, musaganize za zochitika zoopsa. Ndili ndi mphete, maluwa (kwa wokondedwa ndi mayi ake), botolo la mowa wabwino kwa abambo anu ndipo mupite kunyumba kwake kukapempha thandizo kwa makolo anu;
• Atsikana amayamikira kuyesedwa kwa achinyamata awo. Musawope kuyang'ana zopanda pake mu kudzipereka kwanu. Nthano yachikondi sidzamuchititsa kuseka, kupatulapo misonzi ya chimwemwe. Inde, ngati vesili likugwirizana ndi kalembedwe kamene amakonda m'mabuku.
• Usakwiyire ngati mbuli wosadziwa kuti "inde" suli pomwepo. Musiyeni amasangalale ndi mphindiyo.

Mulimonse momwe mungasankhire, mutengere mwamphamvu ndipo osaseka panthawi yomwe mwasankha. Mtsikana ayenera kumvetsetsa zomwe zikuchitika tsopano. Tikufuna vamudachi kuti zopereka zanu za dzanja ndi mtima zimalandira yankho labwino.