Choncho, mvetserani malangizo omwe akatswiri a zamaganizo amapereka, ndipo pomwepo msonkhano woyamba ndi wachibale watsopano sudzachititsa kuti ubale wanu usakwaniritsidwe.
Choyamba, kumbukirani: sizingatheke kuti mayi wokondedwayo akuwoneka kuti ndiwe mkazi, wokondweretsa m'zinthu zonse. Kodi mukuzifuna kapena ayi, koma apongozi onse a zaka zambiri akhala akuwonetsa tsogolo la mwana wawo m'maloto, anamanga mapulani ena. Ankaganiziranso za zidzukulu zapamwamba komanso zanzeru, koma mwina iye sanalingalire zambiri za inu. Ndipo ngakhale ngati mukuoneka ngati Nicole Kidman, maganizo a Sofya Kovalevskaya ndi chikhalidwe cha nkhosa yachisoni, mosakayikira adzayang'ana zolakwa zanu.
Musamuitane mayi, makamaka mukamudziwa, mum'patse mwayi woti adziwitse yekha ndi kuyankha momwe akufunira.
Samalani pakukambirana, mulimonsemo musatsegule makadi anu powona nkhani zotere monga kugonana, ndale ndi chipembedzo. Ndipo musakhale nawo mbali poteteza maganizo anu m'nkhani izi. Pamsonkhano woyamba, mutu umodzi wokha wokambirana ndi wovomerezeka. Ndi mwana wamtundu wanji wabwino, momwe anakulira bwino, komanso kuti muli ndi mwayi wotani kuti mukwatirane naye.
Musakhale ndi msonkhano pa gawo lanu. Yembekezani kuitanidwa ku nyumba ya mlamu wawo wamtsogolo. Apo ayi, mudzadzivutitsa, ndikupatsani mpata kupeza zolakwika mu ukhondo ndi ndondomeko m'nyumba, komanso muzochita zanu zophikira.
Musati muyamikire monga "Momwe mulili okhwima" (ngakhale ngati malingaliro anu apangidwe sakugwirizana). Komabe, musamawonetsere changu chochulukirapo pakuwona chuma chambiri chambiri, mwinamwake chidzawoneka ngati chisonyezo chodziwika bwino chomwe amati, simudzasiya mphatso zomwezo komanso kuti inu nokha simunakhalepo ndi zinthu zoterezi. Ndiyeno adzayang'ana pansi pa moyo wanu wonse.
Mwachidwi, idyani zonse zomwe ziyikidwa mu mbale ndi kutsanulira mu chikho. Ndipo musanene mawu monga "Saladi iyi ine ndimapeza yochuluka kwambiri." Ngakhale ziridi zoona.
Momwe mungakhalire, ngati apongozi anu a mtsogolo ...
... adaperekedwa nsembe chifukwa cha mwana wake, amene "anabweretsa anthu"?
Tsopano mwachibadwa amayembekeza kuti mpongozi wake azikhala wabwino kunja, ndi khalidwe, ndi maphunziro, ndi ntchito. Ngati mulibe makhalidwe amenewa, simunakwaniritse zoyembekezera izi, mudzakhala ndi nthawi yovuta kwambiri. Choncho, njira yabwino kwambiri ndi yodzichepetsa kwambiri, kuti mupeze makhalidwe abwino ndi zenizeni mwa inu nokha, ndipo ngati n'koyenera, kuti muzimvetsera mwatcheru.
... kuchokera pakati pa akazi omwe poyamba amadana nawo onse abwenzi a mwana wawo - omwe anali, ali ndipo adzakhalapo kokha.
Konzekerani kumvetsera nkhani ya zochitika zamakono zapadera za osankhidwa ake, pamene mukhale chete. Ngati mufunsidwa maganizo anu kwa wina wa mamembala ena omwe mwakumana nawo, imani pa mawu osamala monga "Iye (a) munthu wabwino kwambiri", koma peĊµani ndemanga zatali. Zindikirani: mayi uyu amakonda kugawa ndi kulamulira.
... mtsogoleri weniweni.
Mwinamwake, iye adzasintha msonkhano wanu woyamba kuti ukhale ntchito kwa mwamuna wamtsogolo, ndipo mawu onsewo adzamangidwira kokha mwa mawonekedwe a dongosolo: "Madzulo ayenera kuyembekezera chakudya chokonzekera mwatsopano. ! " Apa njira yabwino kwambiri ndi kudzichepetsa. Gwirizanani ndi "wamba muketi", ngakhale ngati kamvekedwe kazokambirana ndi kamakalata, ndipo malamulo akuwoneka osatheka. Pamene akubwera kudzakuchezerani, yesetsani kutumikira chakudya chamadzulo pa nthawi, onetsani kumveka bwino komanso molondola. Kenaka n'zotheka kuti pamisonkhano yotsatira idzagwetsa manja ake.
... amakonda kudzitamandira ndikudziyika yekha chitsanzo.
Zomwe muchita, amatsimikiza kuti zonse zimamuyendera bwino, zomwe sangathe kuzidziwitsa pa msonkhano wanu woyamba. Komabe, ziribe kanthu momwe iye sanadzichepere yekha, ndiye kuti mumamuposa iye. Pezani izi kuphatikizapo modzichepetsa mobwerezabwereza kwa iwo.
... mwamsanga akufuna kukhala bwenzi lanu lapamtima, ayamba kupereka thandizo lake pakhomo.
Samalani: mutapemphedwa kuti muyang'ane tchuthi kwa galu wanu, ikhoza kuyendetsa kafukufuku wanu. Zotsatira zake, mutabwerera, mutha nthawi yambiri kuti mupeze ngongole kapena mapepala omwe mumawakonda pa foni. Choncho yesetsani kusiya nthawi yomweyo.
... akuganiza kuti akupatsani mwana wake wamwamuna, ndipo mwa umunthu wake amapeza mlongo wachifundo.
Ngati amayi anu amtsogolo akuyankhidwa mwaulemu "Kodi mumayendetsa bwanji maulendo ataliatali kwa matenda anu onse, ndiye kuti musiye mafunso awa.
... snob.
Ngakhale ngati ndinu wochokera ku banja lachifumu, amatsimikiza kuti simukuyenerera mwana wake. Magazi anu sali mtundu wa buluu. Adzayamba kudabwa ngati mumadziwana ndi anthu otchuka monga N. ndi Z. Thandizani ulemu wa chizindikiro chanu ndikufunseni ngati ndizodziwika ndi F., S. ndi X. (mayina awo amatchedwa Mwachidziwikiratu, ngati iwo anali a sonorous ndipo anapanga chidwi - Peyala, Erdman, Krestovnikov, ndi zina). Ngakhale ngati ndi anansi anu okha pakubwera kwake, musati muzidya - sangadziwe konse.
... donjuan mu skirt.
Mkazi yemwe, malinga ndi chiwerengero cha maukwati, akhoza kukangana ndi Elizabeth Taylor, alibe chikhulupiriro choyera pa kukhazikitsa ukwati. Choncho, mukangoyamba ndi mwamuna wanu, wokonda banja, amulangiza kuti athawe mwamsanga mwamsanga, mmalo momunyengerera kuti athetsere mwamtendere zonse.
Koma ziribe kanthu momwe ubale wanu ndi apongozi anu apindulira, nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti Iye anakusankhani inu pa chirichonse chomwe chimatchedwa moyo wa banja. Komabe, izo zidzakhala zabwino ndithu, ngati iye mwini nthawizonse amakumbukira izi.
Ndipo zambiri. Ziribe kanthu kuti apongozi ako ali oipa motani, mwa kulingalira kwanu, nthawi ndi nthawi kumbukirani kuti ndi iye yemwe anabala ndipo anakulira mwamuna yemwe mumamukonda ndi wopanda yemwe simungamuyerekeze ndi moyo wanu. Kotero, izi zatha kale, ngakhale zilizonse, kukhala ndi mtima wabwino.
... Kodi mumalota za mwana wanu ndi wosankhidwa wanu? Zikondwerero, ndipo tsiku lina mukhala mpongozi wanu!
Wolemba: Elena Stepanova