1) Mtundu wa kugonana.
Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, m'mabanja omwe muli ndi nsanje, chiwerewere chodabwitsa kwambiri chikuchitika. Ndiko komwe kuli ziphuphu zambiri ndi zikhumbo. Zikuwoneka zosadabwitsa kuti pambuyo poti anthu akuluakulu amatha kukhala okonda kwambiri, koma asayansi akufotokoza chirichonse. Chowonadi ndi chakuti nkhawa imathandiza kumasula adrenaline m'magazi. Ngakhale pamene mkangano umatha, magazi amawombera kwa nthawi yaitali, ndipo kugonana ndi njira yachibadwa ya detente. Zoona, chizoloŵezi chogonana chabwino pambuyo pa kukangana kwakukulu sichikhoza kukusokonezani mowirikiza maselo ang'onoang'ono a mitsempha yomwe sichidzapulumuka pambuyo pa ntchafu yachisanu ya usiku.
2) Kukula kwa luso.
Nsanje ikuwonetsa kukhalapo kwa nthawi imodzi. Ngati mwamuna wanu si womanizer wathunthu, ndiye chifukwa chake sichidzavuta kupeza. Muyenera kuyang'anitsitsa wokondedwa wanu, kuyang'ana zifukwa zomwe ziri zovuta kutsutsa. Zoonadi, si zoona kuti mumapeza chinachake, koma mutsimikiziranso za munthu wanu zinthu zambiri zatsopano. Ndipo chatsopanochi chingagwiritse ntchito kulimbitsa awiri anu, mwadzidzidzi, mudzapeza mmenemo makhalidwe omwe amakupangitsani kukhala osangalala. Komabe, pogwiritsa ntchito njirayi, nthawi zonse zimakhala zovuta kukumba mafupa oterewa m'bwalo lamilandu, pambuyo pake sipangakhale kukambirana za ubale uliwonse.
3) M'machitidwe achikazi.
Konzani masewero a nsanje angathe akazi ndi abambo. Sitikudziwikanso kuti ndani wa ife amene ali ndi nsanje, koma ndi zomveka, zomwe zimamveka mwachiwawa. Kusokoneza pa mpikisano wongoganizira - ndi chachikazi. Zimene okondedwa anu angathe kuziwona. Ndipo umboni wowonjezereka wa chikazi chawo chokha sichinapweteke aliyense panobe. Pokhapokha, simungathe kuwoloka mzere, kumbuyo komwe chikhalidwe chachikazi chokha chimakhala ndikudikirira mtundu wa msika.
4) Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi.
Nsanje ikhoza kuyeneretsanso chifukwa chakuti mumakumbutsa wanu wokonda kuti, ngakhale mutakhala limodzi kwa nthawi yaitali, simunasiye kuopa kutayika. Ndizokongoletsa kwambiri kwa anthu ndipo zimathandiza kuti azisunga bwino. Zoona, ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito ndodo, zingakhale chifukwa chothawira. Kapena chifukwa chochoka ku chigololo cholingalira kuti chikhale chenichenicho - ndicho chomwe chiyenera kulandiridwa.
5) Gonjetsani kachiwiri.
Mwinamwake mukufuna kuchitira nsanje mwamuna, koma simungadzikakamize. Ziribe kanthu momwe mumaganizira kuti wina amamukumbatira, zimakuwoneka kapena zosangalatsa kapena zosatheka. Nsanje "popewera" idzakupatsani inu mwayi wodzidzimitsa nokha mu malingaliro awa, kuti mukhulupirire mwa iwo. Ndipo pokhala kale ndi nsanje, mutha kuzindikira mwadzidzidzi momwe mumakonda mwamuna wanu komanso momwe mukuwopa kuti adzasiya wina. Pano pali chiopsezo chachikulu kuti kuchokera kwa mkazi wanzeru ndi wokondwa iwe udzasanduka chakuwopsya.
Muyenera kudziwa kuti, ngakhale kuti tsopano ponseponse padziko lonse ponena kuti nsanje ndi chizindikiro cha khalidwe loipa, ndizochilendo komanso zachilendo kwa anthu ambiri. Mwachitsanzo, anthu adakhala achisoni wina ndi mzake pokhapokha atakula kupita patsogolo. Pa nthawi ya chikhalidwe - mafuko, makolo athu analibe zopusa. Kodi ndizomveka kukhala ngati iwo?
Kuwonjezera apo, nsanje sichiposa momwe misonzi imathandizira kuthetseratu nkhawa, pokhapokha zitakhala mania. Ndiye nsanje idzachititsa kuti anthu azivutika komanso amanyazi. Ndipo dziwani kuti malinga ndi ziwerengero za asayansi, amuna amatichitira nsanje nthawi zambiri nthawi zambiri. Choncho musazengereze kunena zakukhosi!