Ndipo amunawo adakhala okhutira kwambiri komanso odzidalira. Zotsatira zake, kuyankhulana sikuli koyamba kupita.
Inde, amayi ambiri angatsutse, akunena kuti adakali odziwa bwino, njira zokha zasinthira komanso chifukwa cha matekinoloje amakono, maofesi, skype, blogs, ICQ ndi malo ena ochezera a pa Intaneti aonekera, omwe amatanthauza "kugwirizanitsa mitima." Pachifukwa ichi, ndi bwino kulingalira ndi kuwerengera kangati kuti mwanyengedwera m'mabwenzi awa. Mukuganiza kuti mumakumana ndi mnyamata wokongola, ndipo mnyamata amabwera ku msonkhano, chabwino, osati ngati chithunzi chomwe adakutumizirani. Ndiponso, kuyambira kwakukuru ndikumudziwa ndiko kusiyana pakati pa khalidwe la mnzanuyo mu dziko lenileni komanso lapadziko lonse lapansi. Taganizirani zochitika, ku ICQ kapena kulankhulana, amagona kwa inu ndi mawu omveka bwino, ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhala ngati mawonekedwe enieni, ndipo mukakumana - mumadziona nokha, mwana wosatetezeka, yemwe ali ndi mwana yemwe sangathe kunena mawu awiri. Ndipo pambuyo pa zochitika zoterezi mumaganizira zovuta, musanandionjezere abwenzi anu okongola. Chotsalira kuti atsikana azichita, chifukwa simukufuna kukhala nokha, komanso kukhala "ndi wina aliyense." "Kodi kuli koyenera kuti mtsikana adziŵe poyamba? "- funso ili tsiku ndi tsiku mochulukira kwambiri ndi nkhawa za kugonana kwabwino. Izo zikutuluka, ndi zoyenera izo. Pofuna kukukumbutsani izi, timakonza zolemba za anyamata omwe amadziwana nawo poyamba, koma sizikuwoneka kuti adzakondweretsa inu. Ndiye timapereka kufotokoza kwa anyamata omwe ndi ofunika kudziwana nawo poyamba. Ngakhale zilizonse zimadalira zokonda ndi zokonda ...
Kotero, oyamba kulumikizana ndi amuna "ochokera ku Ryan", kulankhulana komwe sikungakupatseni chisangalalo chochuluka. Kwa iwo ndiwodabwitsa kuitanira ku ... sitolo pafupi ndi khomo la kukupatsani mbewu ndi shawarma, kuphatikiza mowa, mosakayika. Kuti muyambe kuvina nawo mungathe pafupi pafupi ndi khomo, ku nyimbo kuchokera pa foni yanu. Zokhudza kugonana sizikufuna kulankhulana nkomwe, koma kuti mumadziwa: zikhoza kuchitika paliponse, ngakhale pabenchi yomweyo. Ndipo osati chifukwa chakuti inu nonse simungakhoze kukana chilakolako, vuto ndilo kuti kwa iye izi ndizoyendera, chifukwa kuti ndikuitane kwinakwake, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama. Iye amaganiza kuti "izi" sizothandiza. Komanso mtundu uwu wa nsanje ndi nsanje kwambiri ndi mawu "kotero kuti pamapeto a panyumba palibe abwenzi a amuna amphongo" kwa iwo ndizofunikira. Ndipo zimachitika chifukwa iwo sali otsimikiza mwa iwo okha ndipo amadziwa kuti wina angakupatseni zambiri.
Gulu lachiwiri la anyamata omwe amadziwa poyamba ndi zithunzi. Amathera nthawi yochuluka akuphunzira maganizo a amayi kuti akhale wonyenga wa apamwamba kwambiri. Pikapery ikugwiritsidwa ntchito pa amai zomwe amaphunzira kuti achite, njira zothandizira NLP, kuti awakhazikitse mwamsanga, ndiyeno nkukhala osasuntha. Ndipo ngati mwadziŵa bwino izi, ndiye kuti ndi ndani kwenikweni, mungadziwe ngati amagwiritsira ntchito manja ndi nkhope, kumalankhula kwanu pa "atatu" inde, ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, amakwaniritsa zonse zomwe zimapuma ndikupuma Gwirizanitsani ndi inu. Izi ndizo mfundo zonse zapadera, mosiyana ndi munthu wamba, wokwanira, sangadziwe zambiri za inu monga zosangalatsa ndi zofunika, ambiri samusowa, koma akudziyesa kuti mumamukonda ngati munthu. Mutha kuzimvetsa ndi kukambirana momveka bwino, kuti ndinu mwana wamasiye kapena wakufa, munthu wotero atasiya kukufunani, "popeza moyo watha kale," iye adzaganiza.
Pomaliza, kunyamula kungakhale munthu wabwino, koma musaganize kuti akhoza kusintha. Chifukwa cha maphunziro ndi machitidwe omwe adapitako, mnyamatayu anakhala ngati galu wothandizira, omwe ali ndi ntchito iliyonse. Musaganize kuti muli ndi mwayi, ndipo simudzasintha.
Mtundu wotsatira ndi "wachinyamata wa golidi", womwe umafuna kutentha ndi zochitika. Musati musangalale msanga, iwo samapitirirabe za atsikana awo. Choncho musayembekezere mphatso zamtengo wapatali kapena chithandizo chamuthupi. Kwa iwo, iwe ndiwe msungwana kwa usiku umodzi, ndipo ngati iwe uli ndi mwayi, ndiye kwa sabata. Ndiye inu mudzakhumudwa.
Tinayang'ana magulu akulu a amuna amene amayamba kudziwana. Pali zambiri za subspecies, mwazinthu zomwe zilipo, ndithudi, zabwino zomwe mungasankhe, koma nthawi zambiri, zimakhala zodabwitsa kwambiri, zikukula Chikatily, kapena ...
Anyamata otsalawa amachedwa kuchezetsa atsikanawa chifukwa cha ntchito yomwe amapereka kumoyo ndikukhulupirira kuti kupambana pa ntchito zawo ndikopambana pamoyo wawo; kaya ndi ophunzitsidwa bwino komanso odzichepetsa, pomwe iwo eni amavutika ndi manyazi awo; kapena iwo ali osatetezeka, anyamata omwe ali ndiokha omwe ali, kale, pa tsiku lachiwiri adzakhala ocheza nawo ndi okondwa, zimatenga nthawi.
Musaope kuti anyamatawa sadziwa bwino poyamba, mumadziwona nokha kuti akuchita chifukwa cha zifukwa zambiri zomwe sizikusangalatsani konse. Ndipo ngati mutayamba kulingalira za kuti anyamata adakali ofunikanso masitepe oyamba, ndiye kuti mukuyembekezera munthu aliyense payekha. Chisankho ndi chanu.
Sankhani zomwe mukufuna ndikuyamba kuyang'ana. Pambuyo pake, si chinsinsi kuti munthu wamba akufunikiranso kuyang'anitsitsa, ndi kupeza - kuti adziwe bwino poyamba. Izi, ndithudi, sizidzakhala zophweka, koma, monga aliyense akudziŵa, pali "nkhono" kwa mwamuna aliyense, izi sizimaphatikizapo amuna azimayi, ali okonzeka "kuthandiza" popanda mbedza, atawona ndodo yokha basi.
Amuna ambiri samangokana mkazi amene akufuna thandizo. Choncho, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito izi. Mwachitsanzo, chidendene chako chatha, ndipo iwe uli ndi matumba olemera. Chabwino, kodi munthu wabwino angakane bwanji kubweretsa kunyumba mtsikana yemwe anali m'mavuto? !! !!
Chinthu chachikulu pazochitika zoterezi ndi kuyamba kuchita, komanso kuti musamachite manyazi ndi mfundo yakuti "Ndimatenga ndekha ndikudziwiratu! "