Malamulo Asanu Osavuta Othandiza Kukhala Osangalala

Moyo wa munthu wokhala ndi chidziwitso chokwanira ukhoza kutchedwa kuti maziko a chimwemwe. Anthu okondwa ndi chilakolako chachikulu amapita kuntchito, chifukwa zimawakwanira ndipo mwachimwemwe madzulo amabwerera kwawo. Kugwirizana kodabwitsa kotereku kungapezeke ndi aliyense. Palinso malamulo oti tipeze mgwirizano. Chimwemwe ndi chiyani? Cholinga? Ayi, ndilo msewu wautali. Gawo lirilonse liyenera kuphunzira kuzindikira ndi kuzindikira zokhazokha. Ngati chinachake chikulakwika, muyenera kuganizira zomwe moyo umanena, chifukwa chikutumiza phunziroli? Ndipo nditazindikira, ndikukhulupirira kuti zonse zidzakhala bwino. Moyo ukuyenda mofulumira kutsogolo, ndipo mutatha mvula yamvula nthawi zonse dzuwa limakhalapo. Muyenera kuyesetsa kukhala ndi moyo wosangalala. Kodi malamulowa ndi ati?

Thupi la thanzi
Aliyense amadziwa kuti simungathe kugula thanzi la ndalama. Koma anthu amayamba kumvetsa izi pokhapokha ngati matendawa abwera m'nyumba ndikukhala ndi thanzi labwino. Ziri zosavuta kupewa ndi kupewa matendawa.

Motani? Lowani ku masewera olimbitsa thupi, chitani masewero ammawa, tengani kusamba kosiyana mmawa, samalirani kuumitsa. Ndipo lolani zochita zosavuta izi zikhale gawo la moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Lankhulani ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo, adzakuthandizani kupewa matenda m'maganizo ndi osadziwika. Pambuyo pokambirana ndi akatswiri otere, mavuto amalingaliro amathetsedwa mosavuta. Palibe chifukwa choyendera madotolo mu polyclinics, kufunika kwa kumwa mankhwala kumatayika, pangozi ya kuchepa alendo imachepa.

Mukhoza kuyesa yoga kuchokera kwa katswiri wabwino. Maphunziro sadzalimbitsa thupi, komanso mzimu wanu. Lamulo lachiwiri limayankhula za uzimu.

Umoyo wauzimu
Kugwirizana kwa moyo kwa munthu. Mukhoza kuyankhula za izo kwa nthawi yaitali. Ndiponsotu, chifukwa chosowa mtendere, mtendere, zochitika zovuta kwambiri zimachitika m'moyo wa munthu. Simungakhoze kusokoneza chifukwa ndi zotsatira. Ndi kwa ana okha omwe ndi ololedwa kuganiza kuti mphepo ikuwonekera, chifukwa mitengo ikungoyenda kwambiri.

Ambiri achikulire sazindikira kuti alibe ubale muntchito yawo pamodzi ndi anzawo kapena abambo, osati chifukwa cha "anthu oipa".

Kuchokera ku chinthu chilichonse chamoyo, kuthamanga komwe kulipo, komwe kumawerengeka mosavuta pa mlingo wa intuition ndi chinthu china. Munthu amakopeka kumoyo wake kaya anthu abwino kapena oipa. Kukoma mtima kwa Luchiki, kochokera kwa munthu mmodzi, nthawi zonse kudzatha kupeza yankho lomwelo pamtima wa munthu wina. Ndipo moyo wa munthu woipa udzafuna kuti malingaliro oterewa awonekere mwa munthu yemwe ali pafupi naye.

Nthawi zina akazi amanena kuti amakonda amuna awo okha, koma samatero. Zimangonena kuti palibe chikondi mu ubale. Pali mantha akusowa, kusungulumwa kwachuma, kugwirizana. Koma pambuyo pa zonse, kusamalira thanzi la moyo ndiko kudziphunzitsa nokha kukhala ndi maganizo abwino, kukonda ndi kuganizira pazonse zabwino zomwe zimachitika m'moyo wanu wa tsiku ndi tsiku.

Zikomo
Kawirikawiri munthu samayamikira zomwe ali nazo. Chilichonse chokhazikika, chochokera kwa anthu oyandikana nawo, sichiwerengedwa mopepuka. Musanene mawu oyamikira, ntchito zabwino, malingaliro awo, sizikuyenera kuti muzindikire nkomwe.

Kuzindikira kwodzikonda kwa "yense ayenera ine" kumangobweretsa chisangalalo chochepa chabe. Koma popanda kuyamikira, chimwemwe sichikhoza kumangidwa.

Tiyenera kufotokozera mwachimwemwe "zabwino" kudziko lozungulira ife. Koma sitiyenera kuiwala za munthu wina. Ndiyeno zotsatira za galasi zidzayamba kugwira ntchito. Kuyamikira kwanu kudzawonekera kuchokera kwa anthu omwe akuzungulirani ndipo adzabwela ndi mphatso zosiyanasiyana zam'tsogolo pa ntchito komanso m'moyo wanu.

Maloto
Maloto amathandiza anthu kukula. Kuzindikira kwa maloto obisika ndi njira yowonjezera chimwemwe. Lembani pa tsambali zomwe mukufuna, kukwaniritsidwa kumene mungakondwere kwenikweni. Koma zokhumbazi zikhale zanu zokha, osati zanu. Ndipotu, ndi mwambo kupereka malangizo kwa wina ndi mzake. Koma maloto amatheka pokhapokha ngati ali ndi zolinga zomveka bwino, akulimbikitsidwa ndi cholinga.

Kukhazikitsa Zolinga
Kuti titsogolere malingaliro abwino, tiyenera kupanga cholinga chathu moyenera. Tiyenera kulongosola njira yomwe maloto anu angapite. Ndipo ngati mukuyimira zomwe mukufuna, ndiye malotowo adzakwaniritsidwa.

Chonde taganizirani za malamulo a golidi a moyo wosangalatsa ndikuyamba kuwatsatira nthawi yomweyo!