Kwa ndani?
Mapulogalamu osiyanasiyana tsopano akukwanira. Iwo sali maphunziro, koma, ndizo zokonda. Ngati mutagwira m'manja mwa katswiri, chizolowezicho chidzakhala chothandiza kwambiri.
Choyamba, maphunziro amenewa ndi osiyana ndi zaka ndi mavuto. Pali maphunziro omwe amagwira ntchito ndi amayi osakwana zaka 25, pali ena amene adutsa gawo la makumi asanu ndi limodzi ndi omwe amadziwa zovuta za moyo pambuyo pa zaka 60. Panthawi ina, amaphunzitsa zinsinsi za kulankhulana ndi amuna, zolinga zolondola, zotsatirazi, kulimbikitsidwa ndi umunthu wamkati ndi kuululidwa kwa malo osungira - kuyambira pachiyambi, kugonana ndi chikondi payekha.
Ndondomeko zoterezi zakonzedwa kuti zithetse mavuto ena, mwachitsanzo, mungasankhe maphunzilo okhudza ukwati, kusakhulupirika, ana, kugonana, kuphatikiza ntchito ndi banja, ubwenzi ndi ubale ndi achibale. Mwachiwonekere, amathandizira kuthetsa mavuto omwe ali nawo.
Pazigawo zosiyana za miyoyo yawo, mkazi aliyense ali ndi mafunso osiyanasiyana, omwe nthawi zina sitingapeze mayankho popanda thandizo, kotero machitachita oterewa angakhale othandiza kwa aliyense. Muyenera kungofika pa nthawiyo.
Kodi mungasankhe chiyani?
Popeza pali maphunziro ambiri, masemina, maphunziro, muyenera kusankha pulogalamu yomwe ingakuthandizeni.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukudandaula kwambiri ndi vuto, ndizomveka kupeza kalasi yapamwamba yomwe yaperekedwa ku njira yake. Zingakhale chirichonse, kuchokera zinsinsi zopanga sushi ku zinsinsi zopezeka kuvutika maganizo. Mu kanthawi kochepa mudzapeza zambiri zomwe mukuzidziwa ndi kuzichita, mu maola angapo mudzadziwa ndendende zoyenera kuchita izi kapena izi. Njira iyi ndi yabwino kwa iwo omwe sangayembekezere.
Maphunziro amatenga nthawi yaitali - mpaka masabata angapo, sakuganizira vuto limodzi, komanso zifukwa zowoneka, njira zothetsera mavuto, zokhudzana ndi mavuto. Mwachitsanzo, gawo lophunzitsira pa chiyanjano pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi lidzapereka chidziwitso chokhudza sayansi za manja ndi nkhope, zosiyana pakati pa amai ndi amuna, kuwerenga za kugonana ndi zolakwika. Pano padzakhala mpata osati kulemba chidziwitso chouma, komanso kutaya zochitika zomwe nthawi zambiri zimachitika m'moyo wamba. Iwo ali othandiza kwa omwe ali amanyazi ndi osochera mosavuta, chifukwa iwe udzapita ku dziko ndi zida zazithunzi, zomwe ziri zophweka kuyenda mmavuto atsopano ndi zosavuta kusintha.
Masemina otsiriza kuchokera maola angapo mpaka masiku angapo, apangidwa kwa anthu odziwa zambiri. Mwachitsanzo, kwa omwe atha kale maphunziro angapo oyamba kumene ndipo ali ndi zidziwitso m'madera angapo. Masemina alibe gawo lothandizira, koma nthawi zonse amakhala ndi mwayi wosinthanitsa zochitika. Zochitika zoterezi ndizoyenera kwa iwo omwe akufuna kugwirizanitsa miyoyo yawo ndi maphunziro kapena iwo omwe amangoganiza kuti amvetsetse funso lina.
Mapulogalamu kwa amayi - nthawi zonse amamverera. Logic sikofunika kwambiri monga gawo la maganizo. Akazi amaphunzitsidwa kuti asamachite mantha komanso kuti asamachite manyazi ndi maonekedwe awo, zovuta ndi zolephera zawo, amaphunzitsidwa kukhala oona mtima ndi omasuka. Mapulogalamu ena amathandiza kufotokozera kwa amayi zinthu zobisika zomwe zingakopeke moyo watsopano ndi chikondi, ndi ntchito yabwino komanso ubale wabwino ndi ena.
Mulimonsemo, pali masemina ochuluka, maphunziro ndi masukulu akuluakulu omwe amaika kuti aliyense apeze mosavuta. Kodi mungagwiritse ntchito bwanji tsitsi, momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito mavitamini, momwe mungakhalire pamisonkhano, momwe mungakonzekere kuyenda, momwe mungaphunzire kukamba bwino, momwe mungakhazikitsire maubwenzi, momwe mungakhalire achikazi komanso osangalala - mafunso awa ndi ena ambiri athandizidwa ndi aphunzitsi odziwa zamaganizo. Akazi okha ayenera kusankha malo omwe angawathandize.