Masewera osiyanasiyana ndi machitidwe osiyanasiyana a ana amawathandiza kukhala ndi ubwenzi wabwino ndi ana, kukhazikitsa ubale wodalirika. Masiku ano, ndikofunikira kukonza luso la ana kukhazikitsa ndi kusunga maubwenzi pakati pawo, chifukwa masiku ano chiwerengero chowonjezereka cha ana amamva kukhala osungulumwa ndipo akuvutika nacho.
Kodi masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi masewero olimbitsa thupi ndi chiyani?
Mlengalenga kusukulu ndi m'banja zasintha. Aphunzitsi amakakamizika kuti azikhala ndi nthawi yambiri yolangizira m'kalasi, ndipo izi zimakhudza kuyankhulana kwa ana, ndi aphunzitsi. Ndipo mmalo mwa kukonzanso ndikudziwa luso loyankhulana, anyamata akukhala "osasinthasintha" komanso achiwawa. M'mabanja, chifukwa cha moyo wochuluka, pali nthawi yochepa yolumikizana.
Popereka maseĊµera othandizira ana, mumapatsa mwayi wokhala ndi zochitika zatsopano, kuti mupeze zochitika zosiyanasiyana polankhulana. Musaiwale kugwiritsa ntchito chikondi chanu polankhulana, khalani omvetsera komanso omvera. Pambuyo pa masewerawa, onetsetsani kuti muwaitane ana kuti awone ndikukambirana zomwe adazipeza. Musaiwale kugogomezera kufunika kwa zomwe adzipanga nthawi zonse.
Momwe mungasewere masewera
Poyamba, perekani masewerawo. Ndipo pamene ana ambiri akusewera nanu, amakufunsani kusewera nawo masewerawa, omwe akuwoneka akusowa pakalipano.
Pambuyo pa masewerowa kapena masewero olimbitsa thupi, thandizani ana kuti afotokoze, komanso kukambirana zomwe akuwona. Khalani achifundo ndi kusonyeza chidwi chanu pa mayankho a ana. Awalimbikitseni kulankhula momveka bwino komanso moona mtima za zochitika zawo ndi mavuto awo. Mwinamwake, muyenera kuyendetsa zokambirana. Onetsetsani mmene ana amabwerera kuzinthu izi kapena momwe akuyesera kuthandizana wina ndi mzake ndi mavuto. Ngati sangathe kulamulira chinachake, awathandize kumvetsa ndi kumvetsa. Ngati ana amaika zolinga zawo ndikuyesetsa kuzikwaniritsa, ndiye kuti muwathandize pantchito. Fotokozerani kwa iwo ngati achinyengo momwe zingathere, kuti mawonetseredwe a kumverera kulikonse ndi ololedwa, koma khalidwe likhoza kukhala palibe. Alimbikitseni ana kuti amve maganizo awo, komanso kulemekeza ana ena. Ana amafunika kuphunzira momwe angagwirizanitsire makhalidwe ndi malingaliro pakati pawo, kuti asakhale ndi zovuta m'mavuto awo.
Lero, pali zowonjezereka zambiri kwa anthu akuluakulu, achinyamata ndi ana, zomwe zimaphatikiza chiyanjano chawo. Choncho, kukhala ndi ubale wabwino komanso kuyankhulana ndi anthu ena ndikukhala kofunika kwambiri. Kuthandiza mwana kuphunzira momwe angathetsere mikangano, kumvetsetsa ndi kumvetsera ena, kulemekeza osati zake zokha, komanso malingaliro a wina aliyense angathe kuthandiza mphunzitsi ndi banja.
Nthawi yofunika pamene mukugwira ntchito ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi masewero olimbitsa thupi ndi bungwe la nthawi. Kuti afotokoze mkhalidwewo ndi kupeza njira yogonjetsera zovuta, ana amafunikira nthawi.
Masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi zochita masewera olimbitsa thupi
Mukhoza kupatsa ana masewero olimbitsa thupi awa: pemphani ana kuti alembe pamapepala awo nkhani zosasangalatsa, zochitika, milandu, maganizo osayenera. Pamene alemba izi, afunseni kuti asweke pepala ili ndi kuliponyera muzitha zonyansa (kuiwala zonse za zoipa zake zabwino).
Kukweza maganizo ndi kutulutsa ana kungaperekedwe masewera awa: ana amaponya mpirawo, pamene amamutcha munthu yemwe amuponyera ndi kunena kuti: "Ndikukupatsani maswiti (maluwa, keke, etc.)." Aliyense amene akugwira mpira ayenera kupeza yankho lolondola.
Mukhoza kupereka zotsatirazi zotsatirazi pakati pa ana ndi makolo kapena ana. Theka la osewera ali ophimbidwa khungu ndipo amaperekedwa kupita ku theka lina ndikupeza bwenzi lawo (kapena kholo) kumeneko. Mukhoza kupeza mwa kukhudza tsitsi, manja, zovala, koma osayang'ana. Pamene bwenzi (kholo) lipezeka, osewera akusintha maudindo.
Ndi masewera ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi, aphunzitsi ndi makolo angathe kuthandiza ana kuyamikira choonadi, kupeza tanthauzo la moyo, kuwaphunzitsa mfundo zosavuta tsiku ndi tsiku: kupewa zinsinsi ndi mabodza, kuphunzira kupumula, nthawi zonse kugwira ntchito yomwe yakhazikitsidwa. Nthawi iliyonse, kuthandiza kuthana ndi mavuto kwa ana, tikuchita zozizwitsa. Ndipo zotsatira zake zikhoza kukhala ndi khama lophatikizana la aphunzitsi, banja ndi ana.